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What Happens In Zity, Stays In Zity

I know my being here has made some people nervo…

Anyone here done the Myers-Briggs Test?

I know it’s kinda pseudo science but I’m intere…

Childhood Experiences.

What childhood experiences do you believe have …
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Does libido decrease with age?

Does your libido diminish the older you get?

What starts a fetish?

Just curious to other peoples views on what sta…

Guilt regarding kink

So, I'm 18, and I've always kinda been into spa…

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

Is the fantasy of play better than the reality of how it turns out to be?

Curious if others here experience results in th…

Is today's female clothing showing too much?

I'm 68 and remember the joy of imagination. I'm…

Interesting article on "kink"

I ran across this article very early this a.m. …

Happily married but always fantasizing about past girlfriends

I'm guessing I'm not the only man in a happy re…

Nude Psychotherapy

I found an old French magazine from 1969 which …

Redheads... What are you gonna do with them

Redheads. Well they want to lick us, suck on u…
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Things your partner says that make you drip immediately!

Things your partner will do or say that makes y…

Will kinky fantasies disappear when erections are lost?

I am almost 58 and fortunately my erections are…

The Psychology Of Rimming

I have often wondered about this from time to t…

Combining two favorite fetishes

What two of your favorite fetishes do you like …

Major turn-offs in the bedroom

Girls what is a major turn off in the bedroom f…

Hypnotism

I’ve always had a fascination with hypnotism. …

Men using vibrator on women

A man once told me that he didn't like to use a…

Men buy used underwear..... would a woman buy my socks?

Are men "dirtier" or more "sexual" than women? …

Foot fetish

There are several guys at work that when it is …

Fetishes/paraphilias

As some of you know, I am turned on by thinking…

(WOMEN) rimming: relaxing or erotic?

Ladies, when you are being rimmed, do you enjoy…
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Men vs Woman

Why can a woman say to a man that it is his job…

Forced to taste

So there is a thread where guys describe whethe…

Seen someone you know online (nude)?

Just wondering if anyone has seen someone they …

Strip tease in front of the same sex.

It is a given that we love to strip in front of…

Homosexual feelings at puberty

I have been thinking back to when I hit puberty…

Do we care if a person is gay or straight?

8) Serious question; Do we really care if a per…

Being a Victim of Sexual Violence Turned me Kinky

I've been a victim of rape 3 times and I strong…

The Psychology of Anal Stretching

I'm not sure if there is already a thread here …

The porn we watch and the games we play

I like to watch a lot of porn,and often the por…

Women with body hair

Does anyone besides me get off to women with bo…

Ladies - Your Most Private Activity?

For any women on the forum that would care to c…

Kink Gene?

I think there may be some studies on sexuality …

Define Kinky - what does it mean?

I have been accused so may times of being too k…

Is reliving bad childhood experances a good thing?

IMHO, yes. With one caveat, it always has a ha…

Admitting fetishes to a new partner, male vs. female

Not a study large enough to be of any scientifi…

Cuckolding, Cheating, impregnated....

I searched on Zity, but I did not find the righ…

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

Kinky play in weird or creepy places

Hi folks, do any of you find it exciting to do …

Women using a vibrator on men

Starting this thread, to remember to some of us…

Hearing people have sex

I love this! It's a shame it doesn't get anymo…

Self filming.

I am new here and have been self filming for s…

How intense / all-consuming is your fetish?

Wasn't sure where to post this question, hope i…

When your fantasy doesn't work for you

I've had the good fortune of being able to try …

Fetish intrusions on your daily life

Regardless of what your favorite fetishes are, …

Size fantasies

I've discussed with my woman two fantasies I ha…

Sexual orientation vs Fantasy (fetish)

Hi all, I believe that my sexual orientation (L…

Lover/mate keeping sex details secret,.a turnon?

If you are into cuckolding, or swinging,etc, is…

Is anyone here in the Androgynous lifestyle?

I was wondering if anyone in the zity community…

Is having to ask for it like trying to tickle yourself?

Over the years, when the thought of something a…