My first wife constantly said pain before sex is like sauce is to a fine meal. I never understood, until one day she told me to get ten or twelve saplings from the walnut trees. I thought she was going to use them as part of a floral display.
Later that afternoon she initiated sex and requested I whip her ass with the saplings before fuck her. I went along with it and smacked her several times.
She commented that had no idea of what I was doing, and said she would show me. She had me bare my ass and lay on the bed. She had all twelve saplings in her hand and started thrashing me. I squirmed and screamed. She said was a big baby and she needed to restrain me. She tied my hands and feet to the bed with silk scarves. Then she stated again, and it hurt a lot. I was pleading for her to stop, but she increased the speed and the intensity of the strikes. I screamed and begged her to stop again, but she just kept going, then something happened. It stopped hurting and actually felt good. I wanted more and started begging her for more.
I learned about sub-space day.
Subspace is a very special place the submissive or masochist enters when he/she reaches a natural chemical high and/or change in mental and/or emotional balance of the brain chemistry, and state of mind. Best achieved when total trust is in place with his/her Dominant, and one totally immerses themselves in an intense BDSM scene. Note: The sub may not be capable of making rational decisions about his/her safety and well-being at this point, thus it is the responsibility of the Dom to provide for the welfare of his/her sub, this is known as, "aftercare".
When she was done whipping me she started sucking my cock, which was hard. Then she sat on my cock and furiously fucked me. She rode me hard and I orgasmed like never before. She didn't stop there, she continued, even though it began to hurt, didn't want her to stop. This the most memorable sexual experience ever.