Men vs Woman

Why can a woman say to a man that it is his job to take the rubbish out? When a man cannot say to a woman that it is her job to wash the dishes?

Simple. We women are smarter than you men. We have the legal system on our side and the police on our side whenever there is a domestic problem even when it's our fault.

Yes, the system is corrupt. You men really fucked up when you allowed the proposed Equal Rights Amendment to get as far as it did in Congress prior to its expiration in 1982. There were just barely enough women plus enough men who thought they might get more pussy from their wives and girlfriends if they supported it to get it underway, and we women can thank you MEN for that because there weren't enough women alone to get it through. Unfortunately for us there were not enough women to have it pass in the states, but it captured enough momentum for us to still fuck over you men!

Hahahahaha! 😁 😁 😁 😁

I know, you hate me now, but it is the fault of you men that it is the way it is. 100 plus years ago we women wouldn't have had a leg to stand on and the dishes would most certainly have been "women's work."

Here's the way my partner views it (and he's all man, BTW), "men are stupid and women are evil"!

But to be fair, I've taken out more than my share of trash and cleaned up some really nasty messes in my day, I do all the cooking (otherwise we'd never eat) and I do the dishes. I clean the house because apparently I'm the only one that knows how to operate the vacuum! I really need a house elf.

Do I get the feeling you don't hold a very high opinion of the female sex?

Seduct- I think it is more custom that has the man carrying out the garbage and women doing the dishes. In an idea of fairness in a relationship it was felt that women were getting short changed in the duties department and man's role in the relationship had to change. And it has somewhat. But don't be to arrogant about having gained the upper hand. Women are the primary providers in all most half the homes. More women are enrolled in upper level education then men. The guys, the sperm providers, are sitting on the benches waiting to be picked. If they are passed over, there's always hunting, fishing, bars and girls somewhere. Roles are changing. Now take out the dam garbage.

Do you think it's unfair that men have to take out the trash but can't tell women to do the dishes? Of course we do them anyway. As well as doing the laundry, the grocery shopping and, for the most part, cooking. Oh, and lest we forget, we also bear your children. Wanna trade jobs??

All you womem have the problem, you don't have a penis and you mad as hell. Your empty down there until we fill you up. Some of us pay a price, even get spanked. You just want to own that thing and get all you can, and your dam mad you don't have one. HENCE ALL THE FUSS!

@Herbert

I think you missed the point. We aren't discussing penis envy, but job descriptions. I doubt that having a penis would help me do the dishes or sort the laundry any more than it helps you put out the trash. And I think it might be a real detriment in childbirth. You'd be amazed at how rarely ladies wish they had a dick.

I think this is the dumbest thread, I've ever seen on this forum! Men are men, and women are women. . .I am a man, and damn it! I love women! If people get so low as to get into discussions over garbage, and dishes, I think you just don't have enough to do, and/or to discuss! Who gives a damn as to who does what? If it needs to be done. . .DO IT!

Maybe the woman is too tired to do the dishes. . .Then, MEN. . .do the damn things!. . .I don't think it was ever meant that the household chores were to be "gender specified"! Sharing a household means just that. . .SHARING!

Personally, I don't like dirty dishes in the sink. . .Since I don't like dirty dishes in the sink, I feel it's just easier to take a couple of minutes to clean them, rather than "playing sandbox", over who's duty it is to perform, such a menial task! And. . .Taking out the garbage. . .Wow! That should take all of 3 to 5 minutes???

Has nothing to do with who's smartest, who's in charge, who's the dumbest, or who wears the penis, or the vagina. . .It's all about a matter of respect, for those we love. . .Mike 13:13, Verses 1 through 13 :-)

One other thing to my last comments. . .They were NOT aimed at Mommabagz, and other comments from the female gender. . .I apologize, if any of you took offense. Mike.

Herbert said:

All you womem have the problem, you don't have a penis and you mad as hell. Your empty down there until we fill you up. Some of us pay a price, even get spanked. You just want to own that thing and get all you can, and your dam mad you don't have one. HENCE ALL THE FUSS!

Hahahahaha! - - - - Boy do you have it all wrong.

You men have ONE penis. We women can have as many as we want!

We have the legal system on our side and the police on our side whenever there is a domestic problem even when it's our fault."

I don't know about the US (which is I presume the one under discussion), but where I live, police don't get involved in domestic matters unless things have escalated into a public disturbance, violence or become a potential for these. Surely police don't arbitrate about who performs what function in a household.

And if things have escalated to serious proportions, then it is a sign of deeper, more fundamental problems in a relationship/marriage. Then it's not so much about how tasks are divided amongst each other, but rather about non-compatibility of characters, personal expectations and views on life and position in society in general.

Setting such things straight or getting people to acknowledge these kind of relational flaws is no job for the cops. Chances are in the US they'd come blazing with their guns out and stun grenades exploding anyway. A fat lot of good that would do.

Anyway, if a couple can't work such things out, no matter how gender inappropriate some tasks might seem, then they probably don't belong together in the first place.

You would be surprised how often, and on insignificant matters the police get involved in the US when it comes to domestic problems. All it takes is a telephone call.

Interesting approach here:

http://ladymisato.atspace.com/

You would be surprised how often, and on insignificant matters the police get involved in the US when it comes to domestic problems. All it takes is a telephone call.

Oh sure. Here too, be it municipal police, gendarmes, guardia civil, maréechausée or whatever they're called in any given country, they are also legally obliged to investigate when a call for assistance is made. But chances are neither party in a domestic dispute will get much sympathy.

Oh my how this is heated. So many good points made by the women, and as always, agracier makes great points. True very few women would ever want to have a penis permanently attached to us in the way men do. For those women who do, to each their own.

Geez, I think we could all use some humor! I am a Seinfeld junkie. This is from the Hamptons episode of Ya Gotta See The Baby. The clip is 3:48 in its time, though it all pulls together for the final punchlines made by Elaine, played by Juilia Louis-Dreyfus.

ENJOY!

http://www.youtube.com/watch?v=8DoARSlv-HU

Oh sure. Here too, be it municipal police, gendarmes, guardia civil, maréechausée or whatever they're called in any given country, they are also legally obliged to investigate when a call for assistance is made. But chances are neither party in a domestic dispute will get much sympathy.

NOT TRUE!

Whoever makes the first call is blameless. The problem is men very rarely make the call the call first or call at all, and so the woman gets all the police support.

It's Julia Louis-Dreyfus [as in the Dreyfus Funds), not Louise.

Whoever makes the first call is blameless.

Boy, now that sounds just like my annoying younger sister who always used to go running to my mother whenever she didn't get her way. She got her story in first and therefore she 'established' what had happened before anyone heard the other side of the story. Then it was no use trying to get my version even heard. I was guilty by default. Luckily such stuff was about childish upsets. Nothing serious. But if one gets into the habit of tattling/calling first, it says nothing about veracity or guilt.

First callers being blameless seems like a very widely spread blanket statement. Besides, if that is widely know to be the custom in the US, then all anyone need do is call first, at fault or not.

Anyway, my point was that from what I know here, outside the US, police and such would rather do other kinds of interventions. Domestic disputes are seldom clear cut, especially to outsiders, and so police tend to distance themselves as much as possible and cover their backsides. They try not to take sides. Which in any case is not their task anyway. Their task is to re-establish peace and calm and establish facts - if possible. The judiciary is the branch which mediates in disputes and settles and apportions blame. That is not a police task, but a task for courts and judges.

I married a second time and she was a lot more dominant than me so things have changed. So when your penis does not work anymore have become neutral sex wise, l can't demand much anymore.

I demand nothing from my boyfriend and if we ever get married aside from not flirting/sleeping with other girls. Switchable is right though, the system seems to be biased but the way I see it, I want my man to be dominant and strong. Bossing him around would only serve to sabotage that so Id rather have him tell me to get in the kitchen and make him a sandwich as long as we can laugh about it and he wont become abusive or cruel.

A clever woman is a bit like a diplomat; she gets her man to what she wants whilst allowing him to think it is his idea!

You have to get your statement down first and that becomes the truth.

Boy, now that sounds just like my annoying younger sister who always used to go running to my mother whenever she didn't get her way. She got her story in first and therefore she 'established' what had happened before anyone heard the other side of the story. Then it was no use trying to get my version even heard. I was guilty by default. Luckily such stuff was about childish upsets. Nothing serious. But if one gets into the habit of tattling/calling first, it says nothing about veracity or guilt.. . .

COPS do the same thing. If they really want to throw the book at someone, they yell, DON'T TOUCH MY GUN, it gets on the dashboard camera and presto, they get to beat the shit out of someone who has nothing but keys and a wallet in their pocket.

There will always be men vs women.

Just go to YOUTUBE and do a search for MGTOW and a search for Feminist.

Quite frankly, I think the MGTOW guys have a much better set of arguments than the feminists who seem to be entitled bitches.

They want all the perks of being men with a minimum of responsibility and this starts when they are teenagers or young women expecting that the boys pay for their dates instead of going dutch and they get mad when the boy expects sex in return. If the girls/women paid their fair share, THEN they could rightfully refuse sex on demand.

They are both detached from reality and crazy, Switchable. We have equality now, just let it be.. and let people decide for themselves. If you want a guy to pay for you, go out with those who are ok with that or visa versa. Its not like you can change peoples minds. As long as everyone is equal when it comes to laws, its all good.

Go make me a sammich.

Henry Higgins says:

That's SANDWICH. 😁

Colonel Pickering agrees.

Whatever you call it, my plate is still empty.

Had to smile over this one. Why should it be . . . Men versus Woman . . . as if to suggest there's a combatent element in play. After all it is the 21st century & we don't live in caves anymore

I don't take out the rubbish but I certainly wish he would. I do cook, clean, do the laundry and do everything that I enjoy. I ENJOY taking care of my partner (even when some of them haven't deserved it). I have an acute sense of smell… and well jobs like garbage and kitty litter turn my stomach. Definitive roles I'm ok with ~ I'm confident in my womanly-ness. Now take out the garbage and I'll “reward” you handsomely for it!

Honestly.. I think most men are kinda stupid(no offense). The dishes and whatnot is a non issue. My partner wouldn't put up with that and I love him, hes more of a traditional man but that being said, I spent years studying in Europe and I still can't understand how men are putting up with "mandatory military service" in some countries. It's essentially worse than being a slave for 1 year. If such a thing applied to women only, holy crap I'd sue, protest and be at arms and make it my mission to get rid of it.

I still can't understand how men are putting up with "mandatory military service" in some countries. It's essentially worse than being a slave for 1 year. If such a thing applied to women only, holy crap I'd sue, protest and be at arms and make it my mission to get rid of it.

Tell that to the Ukrainians. There is a reason why military service is mandatory in some countries, especially those in countries whose existance in in danger from neighbors. The obvious solution to the inequality of this is of course to make military/national service mandatory to both men and women.