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(WOMEN) rimming: relaxing or erotic?

Ladies, when you are being rimmed, do you enjoy…
25 Replies
A womans butthole should be licked…
1 week ago

What Happens In Zity, Stays In Zity

I know my being here has made some people nervo…
735 Replies
@TrinaStarr You can't fix stupid …
3 weeks ago

Anyone here done the Myers-Briggs Test?

I know it’s kinda pseudo science but I’m intere…
48 Replies
Agreed, @Eleutheros, the Enneagram…
1 month ago

Childhood Experiences.

What childhood experiences do you believe have …
64 Replies
Bare bottom spankings 100%.
2 months ago

Does libido decrease with age?

Does your libido diminish the older you get?
344 Replies
There’s mixed advantages and disad…
2 months ago

What starts a fetish?

Just curious to other peoples views on what sta…
48 Replies
För me its started in early age . …
3 months ago

Guilt regarding kink

So, I'm 18, and I've always kinda been into spa…
21 Replies
Groups like this only reinforce th…
5 months ago

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…
63 Replies
For some reason, when my tattoo ar…
7 months ago

Is the fantasy of play better than the reality of how it turns out to be?

Curious if others here experience results in th…
27 Replies
Yes, I am sure often it can be. Bu…
9 months ago

Is today's female clothing showing too much?

I'm 68 and remember the joy of imagination. I'm…
112 Replies
Personally, I think it is wrong th…
9 months ago

Interesting article on "kink"

I ran across this article very early this a.m. …
4 Replies
I found this article rather valida…
10 months ago

Happily married but always fantasizing about past girlfriends

I'm guessing I'm not the only man in a happy re…
32 Replies
I know the OP is no longer on this…
10 months ago

At the end of your orgasm do you ever feel like the stimulation needs to stop?

Males can answer this too, but I'm a lady and h…
48 Replies
Love the OP's original question an…
11 months ago

Nude Psychotherapy

I found an old French magazine from 1969 which …
11 Replies
IMHO Psychotherapy has spin-offs o…
11 months ago

Redheads... What are you gonna do with them

Redheads. Well they want to lick us, suck on u…
171 Replies
I have been married to a redhead f…
1 year ago

Things your partner says that make you drip immediately!

Things your partner will do or say that makes y…
70 Replies
When my wife address my penis sayi…
1 year ago

Will kinky fantasies disappear when erections are lost?

I am almost 58 and fortunately my erections are…
12 Replies
Fantasies are in the mind. They ar…
1 year ago

The Psychology Of Rimming

I have often wondered about this from time to t…
33 Replies
The anal opening have glands that …
1 year ago

Combining two favorite fetishes

What two of your favorite fetishes do you like …
336 Replies
Spanking and any or all of you fol…
1 year ago

Major turn-offs in the bedroom

Girls what is a major turn off in the bedroom f…
202 Replies
A lame girl is a major turn off fo…
1 year ago

Hypnotism

I’ve always had a fascination with hypnotism. …
2 Replies
My first wife was a certified clin…
1 year ago

Men using vibrator on women

A man once told me that he didn't like to use a…
153 Replies
I love to use vibrators and toys o…
1 year ago

Men buy used underwear..... would a woman buy my socks?

Are men "dirtier" or more "sexual" than women? …
3 Replies
Honestly, I have never heard of wo…
1 year ago

Foot fetish

There are several guys at work that when it is …
40 Replies
Hi, i know a lot of men have a foo…
2 years ago

Fetishes/paraphilias

As some of you know, I am turned on by thinking…
37 Replies
Miss marcia I believe my fixation …
2 years ago

Men vs Woman

Why can a woman say to a man that it is his job…
30 Replies
Mandatory Military service. I can …
2 years ago

Forced to taste

So there is a thread where guys describe whethe…
24 Replies
The time that it tasted absolutely…
2 years ago

Seen someone you know online (nude)?

Just wondering if anyone has seen someone they …
27 Replies
Yeah there was a girl I went to hi…
2 years ago

Strip tease in front of the same sex.

It is a given that we love to strip in front of…
14 Replies
After dancing one night, I took my…
2 years ago

Homosexual feelings at puberty

I have been thinking back to when I hit puberty…
31 Replies
It's perfectly normal in my opinio…
2022.10.30

Do we care if a person is gay or straight?

8) Serious question; Do we really care if a per…
303 Replies
No I don't care one way or the oth…
2022.10.28

Being a Victim of Sexual Violence Turned me Kinky

I've been a victim of rape 3 times and I strong…
30 Replies
Traumatic abusive incidents most c…
2022.10.27

The Psychology of Anal Stretching

I'm not sure if there is already a thread here …
9 Replies
I think the main driver for one wa…
2022.07.12

The porn we watch and the games we play

I like to watch a lot of porn,and often the por…
26 Replies
During the pandemic I watched a lo…
2022.07.07

Women with body hair

Does anyone besides me get off to women with bo…
7 Replies
Legs not really but I prefer when …
2022.07.03

Ladies - Your Most Private Activity?

For any women on the forum that would care to c…
57 Replies
Pooping. It’s literally the only t…
2022.04.09

Kink Gene?

I think there may be some studies on sexuality …
7 Replies
Sexual preferences are mostly a mi…
2022.03.05

Define Kinky - what does it mean?

I have been accused so may times of being too k…
43 Replies
Kinky is everything that happens i…
2022.01.21

Is reliving bad childhood experances a good thing?

IMHO, yes. With one caveat, it always has a ha…
7 Replies
What happened in the past is long …
2021.11.07

Admitting fetishes to a new partner, male vs. female

Not a study large enough to be of any scientifi…
29 Replies
I'm a total pervert and I have to …
2021.11.03

Cuckolding, Cheating, impregnated....

I searched on Zity, but I did not find the righ…
61 Replies
Looks like I'm late to the party a…
2021.10.25

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…
2 Replies
Don't normally watch it - but from…
2021.10.24

Kinky play in weird or creepy places

Hi folks, do any of you find it exciting to do …
31 Replies
Kinky places to fool around in. I …
2021.08.30

Women using a vibrator on men

Starting this thread, to remember to some of us…
31 Replies
YES PLEASE But as I posted at anot…
2021.08.26

Hearing people have sex

I love this! It's a shame it doesn't get anymo…
7 Replies
So, one time back in the 90’s I wa…
2021.08.26

Self filming.

I am new here and have been self filming for s…
5 Replies
I have videoed myself masturbating…
2021.07.15

MEN: has a woman ever made a sexual request that you were unwilling to grant?

I asked this question before, but the replies s…
74 Replies
As a matter of fact.. a month ago …
2021.02.12

How intense / all-consuming is your fetish?

Wasn't sure where to post this question, hope i…
24 Replies
Most have been in check.. one that…
2021.02.04

When your fantasy doesn't work for you

I've had the good fortune of being able to try …
17 Replies
@Tillie I spit my wine reading th…
2021.01.13

Fetish intrusions on your daily life

Regardless of what your favorite fetishes are, …
54 Replies
Trigger thoughts and feelings from…
2021.01.13

Size fantasies

I've discussed with my woman two fantasies I ha…
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I've discussed with my woman two fantasies I ha…
2020.12.28

Sexual orientation vs Fantasy (fetish)

Hi all, I believe that my sexual orientation (L…
11 Replies
Hm good question. I’m heterosexua…
2020.11.21

Lover/mate keeping sex details secret,.a turnon?

If you are into cuckolding, or swinging,etc, is…
12 Replies
It's a turn on for me to know all …
2020.05.18

Is anyone here in the Androgynous lifestyle?

I was wondering if anyone in the zity community…
19 Replies
Most transgender people don't lik…
2020.04.30

Is having to ask for it like trying to tickle yourself?

Over the years, when the thought of something a…
19 Replies
I don't like having to ask my part…
2020.04.29