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"Freezing" moment during sex, "Catatonic" …

Hello everyone.. You know that moment during se…

"therepeutic" spanking and stress reduction

OK, kinksters, here's a twist. I have been havi…

Dominant Women

I don't really "get" me. I had a good family li…

What makes us to become Submissive or Domi…

I wonder how we become submissive or dominant. …

What's wrong with me?

WARNING: Pity party ahead So I'm 37 and it's …

Humiliation

How do you humiliate your sub ?

Play advice: First time with new partner

We'll say a friend of mine (M) has been corresp…

Humiliating anal insertions

I just wanted to see who else loves having obje…

Men Watching other men getting spanked

Can a man, enjoy, or get turned on by watching …

Trial By Ordeal?

We meet at the my place as usual and you are dr…
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Did childhood spankings cause a fetish?

Do you think that childhood spankings developed…

How normal was my 13 yo BDSM fantasy invol…

I am asking for opinions on how normal or abnor…

For me pain in anal sex was security in co…

I am now in my early 60's so that you understan…

Adults finding shame and embarrassment amu…

I was talking with another Zity member about th…

Turned on by hearing that someone was goin…

I was watched by different families after schoo…

Your Ulterior Motive for your fetish

I saw a video of a man tied naked, about to hav…

Unwanted School PE Nudity

I am writing this from a UK Schools' perspectiv…

Why BDSM is good for you

I'm not a religious person, but I think Paul in…

Flashbacks

Last week I had a most remarkable flashback to …

Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go…

Edgeplay

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-pla…

Have you allowed yourself to be tied up th…

I was wondering, for those of you who have, wha…

Ordering online

I just ordered a remote control egg to play wit…

Doesn't the sub actually control a Dom(me)…

In your experience, who actually controls a rel…

Why we are the way we are

Have you ever thought about why we are the way …

Communication skills

Do you and your partner have good communication…

How do I get my husband interested in BDSM…

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you..

Differences in sex drive between partners

Hi I am happily married to a lovely man 22 year…

Helping her embrace her natural dominance

I want my secret lover to embrace dominance. I…

Been so long

I am at my wit's end. I haven't seen my Dom in …

How to excite my wife about spanking !!!

Love to give my wife a sound spanking OTK. neve…

Getting turned on by being told off

Does anyone else experience this? Being spanked…

Guilty About Fetish

I have some guilt or maybe some uneasy feelings…

Teasing & denial staircase

Hello, today i'm testing on myself something I …

Am I sick?

Hey, my name is Amy. When I was small, my dad a…

The anticipation

A friend who is heavy in BDSM teld me once the …

Hot button words

Wasn't sure whether to post this in the Medfet …

How do I tell my boyfriend my submissive s…

How do you approach the subject with a partner?…

Therapeutic interventions

I'm new to the board but an experienced psycho-…

Switching Gears

Hey, not sure if this belongs here or not--but …

Newly Dating

Alrighty I need some advice I am 25... and newl…

Your reaction to witnessing the infliction…

In two instances I have observed reactions to w…

Is it really so simple for all?

I've been a member here for a while now and als…

Funny What Works, Not Ha Ha funny, but unu…

I was visiting a pro Dominatrix. She had alrea…

'Asking for it' in a roundabout way'

About 20 years ago I was dating a woman and one…

Need Advice

I am interested in a woman who has never played…

How to get wife involved

I would like to get my wife more involved in my…

How would you approach...

How would you approach your partner to bring up…