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Attitude to spanking

In my childhood, spanking was the accepted way …

"therepeutic" spanking and stress reduction

OK, kinksters, here's a twist. I have been havi…

Eroticism and control

Do people think this statement is true, care to…

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

Unwanted School PE Nudity

I am writing this from a UK Schools' perspectiv…

Did childhood spankings cause a fetish?

Do you think that childhood spankings developed…

Chastity without use of devices?

I have read with interest many posts / threads …

Differences in sex drive between partners

Hi I am happily married to a lovely man 22 year…

Adults finding shame and embarrassment amu…

I was talking with another Zity member about th…

Colourful rooms and their feelings

Hello everyone. I wish to share with you some s…

What's wrong with me?

WARNING: Pity party ahead So I'm 37 and it's …

What makes us to become Submissive or Domi…

I wonder how we become submissive or dominant. …

Relationship between Sadist & Masochist ve…

I'm curious if there is any difference between …

Keeping BDSM stimulating by yourself

I'm curious how many of you are having trouble …

When you're into BDSM kink but partner isn…

I have been married for 35yrs now to a wonderfu…

Use your safe word

A Necro-thread on ‘would you allow someone you …

Why BDSM is good for you

I'm not a religious person, but I think Paul in…

What does a real spanking feel like?

I have been into give and getting for many year…

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

Have you allowed yourself to be tied up th…

I was wondering, for those of you who have, wha…

"Freezing" moment during sex, "Catatonic" …

Hello everyone.. You know that moment during se…

Texting my wife that i might need a remind…

Well just before leaving to see our daughter, s…

Turned on by hearing that someone was goin…

I was watched by different families after schoo…

Diaper as a sort of chastity device

Does anyone here enjoy that feeling of lack of …

Dominant Women

I don't really "get" me. I had a good family li…

Humiliation

How do you humiliate your sub ?

Play advice: First time with new partner

We'll say a friend of mine (M) has been corresp…

Humiliating anal insertions

I just wanted to see who else loves having obje…

Men Watching other men getting spanked

Can a man, enjoy, or get turned on by watching …

Trial By Ordeal?

We meet at the my place as usual and you are dr…
2021.02.24

How normal was my 13 yo BDSM fantasy invol…

I am asking for opinions on how normal or abnor…

For me pain in anal sex was security in co…

I am now in my early 60's so that you understan…

Your Ulterior Motive for your fetish

I saw a video of a man tied naked, about to hav…

Flashbacks

Last week I had a most remarkable flashback to …

Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go…

Edgeplay

Anyone ever heard of the term/ act of “edge-pla…

Ordering online

I just ordered a remote control egg to play wit…

Doesn't the sub actually control a Dom(me)…

In your experience, who actually controls a rel…

Why we are the way we are

Have you ever thought about why we are the way …

Communication skills

Do you and your partner have good communication…

How do I get my husband interested in BDSM…

Any advice would be appreciated. Thank you..

Helping her embrace her natural dominance

I want my secret lover to embrace dominance. I…

Been so long

I am at my wit's end. I haven't seen my Dom in …

How to excite my wife about spanking !!!

Love to give my wife a sound spanking OTK. neve…

Getting turned on by being told off

Does anyone else experience this? Being spanked…

Guilty About Fetish

I have some guilt or maybe some uneasy feelings…

Teasing & denial staircase

Hello, today i'm testing on myself something I …

Am I sick?

Hey, my name is Amy. When I was small, my dad a…

The anticipation

A friend who is heavy in BDSM teld me once the …

Hot button words

Wasn't sure whether to post this in the Medfet …

How do I tell my boyfriend my submissive s…

How do you approach the subject with a partner?…

Therapeutic interventions

I'm new to the board but an experienced psycho-…

Switching Gears

Hey, not sure if this belongs here or not--but …

Newly Dating

Alrighty I need some advice I am 25... and newl…

Your reaction to witnessing the infliction…

In two instances I have observed reactions to w…