Men vs women as spankers

I recently moved west to southeast. I had to go back and forth a couple of times and therefor ran into some old spanking friends on the west coast and made new ones around the Atlanta area. As a result I have gotten quite a few spankings in both areas, several from men and several from women. As a result I have given a lot to thought to which gender turns me on more as a spanker.

There are plenty of pluses to having a woman do it, embarrassment at exposing oneself to the opposite sex, submitting to the "weaker sex"(boy is that a misstatement, as they lay it on every bit as heavily as a man) and being under the command of a woman, I love it. Advantages for a man dealing out the punishment; exposing oneself to another man, having to lay over the lap of another man and having to do the bidding of a superior male.

I love to be spanked, humiliated and dominated by either sex and though I had no preference, but after several comparison over the last 2-3 months, I think I dread getting it from a fellow male more than a woman, so being a true Masochist I choose men. It is more embarrassing, it is harder for me to submit to a man, They are usually stronger and can control me more easily and getting sexual aroused from a spanking from a man, to me, is more exciting and humiliating. So by a narrow margin I choose men as I hate to take it more from them than a woman. That is the reverse thinking of a Masochist.

Thanks;

Rob

I've not yet been spanked by a man, but have often spanked and been spanked by women (I'm a switch). Those women hit hard, and I'm guessing they can use spanking implements just as well as can males. I'm not sure why I haven't spanked with a man. Perhaps it's a sexual thing, with my preference for females. At some point I suppose I will trade spankings with a man, and be better able to understand any differences in the spanking and in my reaction to it.