The anticipation

A friend who is heavy in BDSM teld me once the anticiaption is the best part. For me, it drives me crazy. It becomes all I think about until the act. I analyze ever move to death until the event. I make lists, and plan, and think, and dream, and stress. Anyone else feel the same about the anticipation leading up to an exam?

I agree also. For me the anticipation or the thought of someone anticipating an possibly embarassing medical exam is the main thing in medical fetish. Having to wait for the doctor with most or all of your clothes removed is more erotic than any actual procedures.

As has been said several times in different threads, the brain is the largest sexual organ. And what we imagine as we anticpate the next part of the exam or treatment can really get us going.

Embarrassment is a part of the turn-on for me, so the aniticpation can be delicious.

Anticipation is the best sexual turn on combined with your kinkiest fantasy.

The anticipation is a real turn on

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Anticipation for me is such a huge turn on. Any act done onto me is most Delicious if I have to wait for the Dr. to arrive. Anticipation in every aspect of sex even if it is your Play Doctor. Anticipating what he is going to do to me. What will he do first? Will it feel good? Will his hand be hard or soft when touching me? Does he have a good bedside manor? Could he be a jerk and treat me badly one can only hope. I like the surprise of what he has going on in his mind. Anticipation, suspense is the name of the game.

I love to get a patient/client into such a state of euphoria they don't know which end is up or down lol. The look on one's face approaching this state is never ending. When one just wonders what will be in store for me at my next session, upon arrival and until I finally arrive. What a wonderful mind blowing state to acquire.

Last night, my wife left me handcuffed and nude on the sofa, while she went out with her girlfriends. Before she left, she sucked me hard, while she inserted an uncomfortable, medium-sized plug into my ass, and turned on a porn video of cross-genders getting each other off.

She was out for about three hours, and the video had long since ended, allowing my mind to race with the anticipation that she might come home filled with another mans cum, or even bring her girlfriends in to taunt me and further humiliate me! My cock ached from being so hard for so long!

I was very disappointed when she came home alone, but she further piqued my interest when she brought out the sash cord and large ball-gag. She promptly filled my mouth with the gag, moved me to the bed and tied me comfortably, but VERY securely. I knew that I would remain like this for several more hours, and now I really wondered what she had up her sleeve. God, my dick hurt like hell by now!

She explained to me, as she stroked my cock with her hand, that she was too tired and sore to fuck me, because of a ten minute fuck by a stranger while she was out! Oh, how I wanted her to rub her cum filled pussy all over my face!

She untied me just before she went to work this morning, and my dick is still hard! I can't wait until she gets home tonight! I will be happy to fuck her any way she wants!

There is no doubt that anticipation and imagination is a huge part of play. sometimes I have used this opportunity to "refine" what may happen in a session by extracting what the patient was thinking about might happen while being made to wait. sensory depravation can also be used to highted these thoughts.

Talking about anticipation with regard to sexual experiences. When your Dom or boy friend tells you to do something he knows you will not do in a public place then tells you, you will be punished later, the anticipation is almost too much to bare. Thinking about what he will do later makes my pulse race. What new idea has he come up with makes the anticipation more exciting. Anticipation when sex is involved is the best turn on.

For me, the anticipation, while it's irritating, annoying and frustrating, is one of the biggest turn ons. i'm not a very patient person so the anticipation can drive me nuts at times.

The thought of the anticipation i have caused in my subbie/patient is quite arousing to me, knowing what i will do to her, how i will examine her, and her anticipation is something that revs me up almost as much as the particular sex act/exam

We don't do much doctor exams, but a well restrained sub and a patient Domme equals excitement for both parties

I get almost as much out of the waiting to be spanked as i do out of the actual punishment. i love it when daddy puts me over his knee and lectures me tells me how naughty i have been as he raises my skirt and pulls down my panties, all the time lecturing me stroking my bottom gently pinching it. him leaving me bare bottom across his knee with his hand resting on my bottom. It is almost a relief when the first smack lands and I know my punishment has started

Anticipation is definitely important. I know of several people who get more aroused leading up to the exam or play session than they do during the actual event.

The anticipation is everything, the thoughts racing through your head of what may or may not happen, the butterflies in your stomach, the excitement, and then the fun begins

Anticipation of the unknown is great but so is telling the sub everything that will happen to her tomorrow night will have her squirming all day.

Expectations are premeditated resentments

Anticipation on the other hand ;-)

even a moments worth is delicious!

And being blindfolded is a great enhancement!!

Anticipation is great to enhance the desire. The frustration for me is only really annoying when no real event eventually happens.

The fore play of medfet encounters, which can take sometimes weeks or even months, makes it for me a great thing. My mind, imagination, fantasy is very important to me.

But a real encounter has to be the climax!

Then long term anticipation can be replaced by short term. Waiting in the waiting room, just a bit longer. Slow examination, clothes still on. Not knowing exactly what is coming, but pretty sure it will be exciting...

That's why I like not to be in a hurry for sessions, either as a doctor or patient. I hate a time limit, things should be over when the session over and the tension is released.

Anticipation and the unknown are major factors in enhancing the enjoyment. I prefer it if the exam is carried out over an extended period, maybe a day or a weekend where the patient is left waiting for a couple of hours at a time, perhaps naked or just in briefs or shorts anticipating the next procedures.

I've said for years and forever, if I'm not doing it between her ears, it won't matter what I'm doing between her thighs. Anticipation, the fretting and worry, the desire and denial until the dominant decides ... those things are part of what makes this such a joy. And if it's not fun, not desired to the point that it's a need screaming within ... why do it? Think back to when you were a kid, eyeing the Christmas tree and itching for the 25th to finally roll around so you could open your gifts. Isn't that one thing, the denial of instant gratification, that made Christmas so much more special?

Solomon, Whew!! So hot to read that a Dominant understands submission so well. The emotional anticipation, the surrender coming after you've waited so long you beg for the discomfort to be over - perhaps only to venture into another predicament at the hands of an intelligent and crafting Dominant. Anticipation is a huge part of D/s to me.

Solomon, could not be better said.

Thank y'all, enemasubgirl and rain. 😃

Anticipation of BDSM, enema play, etc is a great form of foreplay. Foreplay that can last for days amd get even more intense as time passes.

I love the anticipation - the emails and texts - the role play that starts long before the meet... i have not been tied up but like the idea or giving up that much more control... i guess i like the verbal and time anticipation up to the med-fet exam or whatever but the idea of the embarrassing moment is near tantamount to the enjoyment of the moment itself.

Yea, I have to fully agree. The anticipation of having to be vulnerable and undress in front of someone who has a certain level of control over you is what makes it so thrilling. Just the planning alone goes a long way to make an entire experience complete. And even during the exam, anticipating every single command is where I derive most of my excitement from.