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My Opinions on Being Judged For My Kink

So I recently encountered an upsetting situatio…
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If somebody rags me about my kink …
2021.11.03

When did you know that you were either Dom or sub?

I am curious as to when approximately in your l…
38 Replies
I am an avid reader and of course …
2021.10.25

The enema lady, discipline and relationship y

My visit to a woman who gave both colonics and …
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Sounds like a great experience. I …
2021.10.17

Nervous as to what to expect from a belt?

Hi, I'm happily married for 7 years, with span…
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If they make a feather belt I migh…
2021.10.14

Chastity devices how to get one on

Putting a cock cage on a sub can be tricky or e…
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I’m a Closet Girl; Ooh how tantali…
2021.10.04

First time...enema with my Mistress.

Well tonight was fun…I got my new bag in the ma…
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Very nice my friend! I bet your Mi…
2021.07.11

The joy of finding your new girlfriend is submissive

I had no real idea about how my new gf liked se…
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When she turned up at my apartment…
2021.05.12

Sub to dominant nurse

My only submissive thrill is getting embarrassi…
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That shit has happened to me too m…
2021.03.20

Doms: Whats the best way "inspection" position for a sub to take?

You've all seen it. Make your sub assume and re…
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Just sub's opinion: one, two or th…
2021.03.09

Locking or Anti strip Diapers

Back many years ago they had diapers and plast…
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You can get anti-strip clothing th…
2021.03.06

Refreshing gingerroot

Is is it possible to refresh gingerroot so that…
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Is is it possible to refresh gingerroot so that…
2021.02.23

Shave vs no shave

Do you feel that shaving pubes make you more su…
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Its an act of submissive to shave,…
2020.11.07

How to Switch?

To all you switches out there: how do you do it…
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Most of me and my friends switched…
2020.11.06

Could you go for days in a total sub role?

THAT Is the ? i have asked my self could i be p…
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I did when I was a lot younger whe…
2020.11.06

I'm New to BDSM - Any advice?

I really want to get into some BDSM play but ha…
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Make sure the 'victim' still has a…
2020.08.05

Is it more humiliating in a femdom relationship to be forced to pleasure another guy or receive it?

Is it more humiliating, in a femdom relationshi…
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I’m straight. A domme or GF would …
2020.07.22

Being walked in on in a scene

Since the covid-19 crisis, we have had our olde…
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I have to say we both had a wonder…
2020.07.08

Eye Contact:

When Im in trouble Poppie always makes me make …
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Eye contact During discussion insp…
2020.06.25

Casting

Does anyone else find being in a full body cast…
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@DrZ as a direct reply to you and…
2020.06.18

What level of domination 0-10 is a male doctor inserting two fingers in a woman's vagina?

If male and female domination was on a scale fr…
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I have dealt with many Dr.s that …
2020.06.12

I know I am a sub ready for a dom but am too shy to go about it...

Like my subject title states... I know I am an …
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When my husband and I were younge…
2020.06.03

Subs: how far would you go to satisfy your master?

I am searching for the right submissive male or…
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I'm over your age group but, I wo…
2020.05.31

A True Dominant

During a conversation with someone local to me,…
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Kk so Im also not a true dominant,…
2020.05.18

Enemas and feminization?

As part of a story I am writing (honest!) I cam…
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I can tell you yes it was and stil…
2020.05.13

Necessity to Eat Your Cum

In the world of Femdom, you will find many sets…
43 Replies
Yes it takes me to my deepest deat…
2020.05.13

What chores do you do for your dominant wife?

I’m very lazy, but I love doing chores for my d…
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My ex-wife and I were equals IRL b…
2020.05.12

Ruined orgasm

Does anyone like ruined orgasm, both giving and…
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Receiving? fuck yes. It's deeply t…
2020.04.13

Males Nude at Swimming Pools Where Women Wear Swim Suits

Has anyone gone to a swimming pool where the ma…
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Never did that except on vacation …
2020.04.03

Online slavery

I am male and 40 years old would like to be an …
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Yaar, I am also in search of a mis…
2020.03.23

Being a sub

Okay, so I've been talking to a few different p…
18 Replies
No you dont have to agree on every…
2020.03.08

Females: Are your mouth lips sensitive when aroused?

An old female sub of mine could be very turned …
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Well I'll be embarrassed and blush…
2020.02.16

Breast torture

Wife loves to have her nipples squeezed really …
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I love my nipples clamped and sque…
2020.02.16

Enjoying Giving and/or Getting a Good Flogging

Does anybody enjoy a good flogging? Not necessa…
13 Replies
When giving i love to watch beauti…
2020.02.10

Wife like to expose me

While not too much into Dominance and Submissio…
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My wife makes me do the same thing…
2020.02.06

Rules for being allowed on Zity

Does anyone have rules (imposed or self-imposed…
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I never thought of that..... Maybe…
2020.01.13

Dominance Versus Domineering

There are a number of discussion threads that l…
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One of my plethora of hobbies is t…
2019.12.28

Fin domination

Had anyone heard of this? It financial dominati…
21 Replies
Due to our circumstance, I have c…
2019.12.15

FemDom

Has any one been ordered by their. Domme to suc…
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No not that, but my wife has a fan…
2019.12.14

First time submit: what should I expect?

Hi, I am a submissive person but never do any s…
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That's my mistake, I share my pho…
2019.11.29

Crossdressing While being Dominated by a Woman

During August of the year when I was age eighte…
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During August of the year when I was age eighte…
2019.10.15

Need some ideas

I am now being a dominant to quite the mouthy l…
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A misbehaving submissive WANTS to …
2019.10.09

Restrained and shaven

I'm trans and at the point of going to wigs ful…
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I'm trans and at the point of going to wigs ful…
2019.08.19

Introducing female sub to punishment and was wondering if there was any light punishments to start o

Hi, I’m looking for a few light punishments, no…
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What kinds of instructions is she …
2019.07.24

Dealing with a long distance relationship

How do I make future long distance BDSM relatio…
18 Replies
If you put the effort in.. anythin…
2019.07.06

My new sub

As most of you know, I am naturally a submissiv…
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So, SS, I'm like you in being a sw…
2019.04.29

Punishment Suggestions

(to start, my girlfriend is watching me type th…
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If you can even stand up with an M…
2019.04.28

A new record for us...2 weeks without an orgasm for me.

It's been 2 weeks since my last orgasm. I usual…
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Try going a year and a half withou…
2019.03.27

Repeated tickets

So, my fiance has a heavy foot. I've asked her …
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I went through a lead foot period …
2019.03.24

Dom/Domme and sub

Can you really be trained and be a great Dom if…
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A good Dom WILL LISTEN!!!!!!!!!!!!…
2019.02.24

Pro Doms, does money takes the fun out of it?

What do you think about the pro doms and domina…
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To a degree as ultimately the paym…
2019.02.10

Role Play

Any females out there looking to role play as a…
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When i first joined zity I used to…
2018.12.08

How far should I go?

Only a couple days ago, I started sort of a dom…
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My take is that this is a question…
2018.10.27

Fun phone play

I had the most wonderful phone call with anothe…
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My husband and I have e mail fun s…
2018.10.03

Watching your spouse submit to others

Just a question to see if my feelings are rare.…
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@ WildBill2 Count me in Bill. :P
2018.09.15

Long-distance submission

Hey guys, this is the first time I've ever post…
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My Mistress and I have a 'game' go…
2018.09.06