Enjoying Giving and/or Getting a Good Flogging

Does anybody enjoy a good flogging?

Not necessarily to beat the crap out of you or to leave marks on yourself or your partner, rather just the sensation of the tails mashing or pounding against your body. Of course swinging the flogger with all your might is good for showing your submissive who's boss!

We have a collection of very good floggers, I rank from softest to hardest: partially unbraided heavy but soft rope, deerskin, buffalo, rubber, cowhide, braided leather. We have to be careful with our braided leather one because the edges of the braided tails can leave marks if you swing it more than moderately hard.

It's been way too long since I've been flogged. A good flogging actually feels great. Believe it or not it's helpful for depression as well.

My husband enjoys the full range of sensations from the painful sting of a hard flogging to the dull thud of a heavy, soft flogger.

I tend to prefer the thud of a heavy flogger, but that's not always what I get! 😉

The thought to start this topic came to mind because my older daughter, The Adventurer, mentioned it to me. I asked her what made her think of it and she told me the images of me flogging her naked, tied up father when she walked in on us when she was 15 die hard. She wants me to flog her. We will see how that goes. . . . .

She is a very lucky woman to have you as a mom, and you should be very proud of her. She is well balanced, open minded, and also knows if you do introduce her to flogging, that she will be safe. You'll teach her what she needs to know to safely be at either end of the flogger.

Doc

I know she is into S&M because when she was 18 she asked me to tie her up which I did (and posted about the experience elsewhere on zity-- https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=536113) and a couple of years ago I bought her a beautiful deerskin flogger and some marine line, but her request made me think she may not have used it with her bf or wants to know about harder flogging with other materials. I suspect she wants to learn her limits before she starts with more painful sensations with her bf.

That deerskin is so sensual and soft. Lots of goosebumps.

I'm with Suzie's husband. Unfortunately, either my late wife didn't have enough strength or my ass has become so desensitized that I could never get what I craved. Now that I am alone, I am trying to create implements for self spanking that will work for me.

I suspect she wants to learn her limits before she starts with more painful sensations with her bf.

That is smart.

If your mom is very experienced, highly qualified pianist you do not get your introductory lessons from an amateur.

Certainly enjoy the sensations here and enjoyed learning and discovering where my limits were.

I enjoy getting a good flogging with an experienced flogger in the right situation it can be both pain n pleasure mixed and very erotic

Does anybody else find that their nerve endings go numb before they achieve the desired results? If I'm looking for a painful spanking/flogging/whipping, I need to go hard and fast before the sensation turns into a dull thudding.

A good flogging for me starts slow, back butt, thighs. Love heavy flogger , deer skin is #1 then leather , thudding impact is amazing with a bit of sting. Short small flogger for pussy and or breast is great too. Slow build up to wake the skin, then warm mmmmmm, very very good! ?

@Wolfgirl66 if you want a male subject for testing I can help!!!!

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@zaboots I'll keep that in mind! Definitely!

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When giving i love to watch beautiful skin change from pale to pink to beyond. I love watching the buttocks flinch when think one is coming and relax again.

When receiving i love to hear it to feel it sting at my skin and knowing they are enjoying it