Domestic discipline

My relationship with my Master (who is also my husband) is very much obedient wife. We discuss my chores each day along with regular chores and I have other rules to follow. If I fail at any of these I am (quite rightly I believe) disciplined.

Do many others go in for similar roles of servitude or are most people more into mutual enjoyment through discipline and play?

Eloise

Hi Eloise My husband and I are also into DD ..Iam a submissive wife and he is the HOH of our home..I also have rules and chores and receive spankings and non spanking punishments.. ...Nice to meet another on here 😃

My husband is most definitely the HOH. I'm given a chore list that MUST be completed daily or I will face the ramifications (usually a harsh, bare bottom spanking). Corner time to reflect on how I can be a better wife is also practiced. I can only wear dresses or skirts (never panties unless its that time of the month) so he has immediate access to my bottom in the event that I get out of line at any time.... I'm instructed to lift my skirt, bend over and receive my swats even in public if needed. He is in charge of financial matters and all decisions (what we eat, where we go, who are friends are).

most severe punishment I've gotten was 3 months ago..... I was tipsy and called one of his family members (his mom!) a nasty name...... he lifted my skirt in front of his parents, brothers, their wives, etc... and gave me 25 swats....sent me to the car and drove me home. In the morning when I was sober he had me stand in corner time for an hour with my hands on my head, naked, nose to wall. He came in and told me to get on the bed on all fours, knees spread, head down for 50 swats with wooden paddle. Then he had me in diaper position, legs spread for 50 swats on my clit (while I spread it open) with the leather strap. Then I got a cold, hard butt plug inserted in my ass while on all fours for another count of 100 with the paddle. Corner time for 30 more minutues. No clothes ALL DAY!

He then ivited his parents over the next day and I had to cook for them and apologize for my words the other night. He then had me raise my skirt and swatted me 25 times while his parents watched. Then corner time with my skirt lifted while they had coffee and dessert. Humiliated,& sore but lesson learned. It made me a better wife and a more obeiedent wife.

BTW in our wedding vows I promised to Love, Honor and UNCONDITIONALLY OBEY.

He promised to Love and Honor.... which he does. My gratitude and loyalty to you always my Master. xoxox Your obiedent wife.

My husband punishs me when i deserve it and most of the time this means by spanking me. He is the Head of household and decides if i get spanked or grounded.

Punishment takes different forms depending on the Dominants preference as well as the sub's hard limits but it is an integral part of a D/s relasionship specially one in which they share the household.

My husband is most definitely the HOH. I'm given a chore list that MUST be completed daily or I will face the ramifications (usually a harsh, bare bottom spanking). Corner time to reflect on how I can be a better wife is also practiced. I can only wear dresses or skirts (never panties unless its that time of the month) so he has immediate access to my bottom in the event that I get out of line at any time.... I'm instructed to lift my skirt, bend over and receive my swats even in public if needed. He is in charge of financial matters and all decisions (what we eat, where we go, who are friends are).

most severe punishment I've gotten was 3 months ago..... I was tipsy and called one of his family members (his mom!) a nasty name...... he lifted my skirt in front of his parents, brothers, their wives, etc... and gave me 25 swats....sent me to the car and drove me home. In the morning when I was sober he had me stand in corner time for an hour with my hands on my head, naked, nose to wall. He came in and told me to get on the bed on all fours, knees spread, head down for 50 swats with wooden paddle. Then he had me in diaper position, legs spread for 50 swats on my clit (while I spread it open) with the leather strap. Then I got a cold, hard butt plug inserted in my ass while on all fours for another count of 100 with the paddle. Corner time for 30 more minutues. No clothes ALL DAY!

He then ivited his parents over the next day and I had to cook for them and apologize for my words the other night. He then had me raise my skirt and swatted me 25 times while his parents watched. Then corner time with my skirt lifted while they had coffee and dessert. Humiliated,& sore but lesson learned. It made me a better wife and a more obeiedent wife.

BTW in our wedding vows I promised to Love, Honor and UNCONDITIONALLY OBEY.

He promised to Love and Honor.... which he does. My gratitude and loyalty to you always my Master. xoxox Your obiedent wife.

That's pretty kinky getting his parents, brothers and their wives involved watching your bare bottomed spanking fetish. I'm impressed you were able to tolerate 50 direct swats on your clitoris with a leather strap as you held your labia open.

I just agreed to this type of relationship with my fiance. So far, so good. We don't argue or fight and I no longer have to worry about things that used to stress me out. He is HOH and everything runs smoothly now.

That's pretty kinky getting his parents, brothers and their wives involved watching your bare bottomed spanking fetish. I'm impressed you were able to tolerate 50 direct swats on your clitoris with a leather strap as you held your labia open.

The post from Lydia424 sounds like it was taken directly from Topix, Human Sexuality Forum where this is one of the topics. Don'5 know if I can post this link here. http://www.topix.com/forum/news/sex/TSGIFEH1MQ3FP3USF/p79#c1782

In our house my wife is the one that does all the spanking, and has me naked over her knee whenever she thinks I need it.

Any human relatonship, D/s or vanilla is based on meeting the needs of both in the relationship. When the needs of one of the partners is not being met, the relationship comes to an end.

The basic difference in a D/s relationship is that in such a relationship, the Dom takes on the responsibility of seeing to it that the needs of both He and His submissive are being met. He (the Dom. and yes it could be She, the Dominatrix) does not do this alone. He (She) depends upon input from the submissive regarding their needs. The submissive may speak, informing the Dom of her (ok, his) needs, which the Dom takes into account in His decision making. If He wishes to keep his sub, a truly rare and wonderous woman, He will see to it that He meets her needs as well as His. A Dom accepts responsibility for the relationship but lives in a partnership.

Love the idea of being a submissive wife. I would proably misbehave just to be punished

I am a switch, but my submissive side is stronger atm due to life circumstances. D/D relationships sound so magical and is right up there with what I want most atm. Boosts my productivity and gives me the closeness and discipline I crave.

Well said Helmsman!

I have a story in another section, my wife and I work well as a team we are both retired when I became a diabetic and incontinence set in she had me start wearing diapers to protect everything so I became the sub she is in control being a lot younger but no spanking but I have my place and don't rock the boat she has ridge rules but is fair.

I've posted this elsewhere, but having been in a relationship with a dominant female, I can only say that I was very happy. Here, briefly, are my thoughts.

In my case, a cane was employed by my lady to punish me for misbehaviour or for disobeying an explicit instruction. I would be made to bend over a wooden stool while she took her time methodically thrashing my backside - my 'seat of learning' she called it.

I have to say that in my case it produced some remarkably good and attentive behaviour. Our sex life was explosive as we both got off on the power exchange.

From a lady's point of view, it certainly gives you a far more well behaved, attentive, and respectful man, who will also pay far more attention to your sexual needs and pleasure too.

I have been living with my Dom/partner for the past two years. She is also the main bread winner in our home since I only work part time. So her expectations are for me to do all the house cleaning, laundry, cooking, grocery shopping, and all other chores. You can guess the consequences if these items are not done to her satisfaction. How about the others of you subs/doms that live together?

Living in an FLR my chores are started on Saturday mornings:

Weekly meal planning (she reviews)

Grocery shopping

Cooking all meals and cleaning dishes

All Laundry

Changing the sheets on both beds

Bring coffee and breakfast to her bedroom every weekend

BI-weekly cleaning of the house ( it used to be weekly but last fall she hired a cleaning lady to come twice a month due to our out of town trips)

Taking and picking up dry cleaning

Washing and maintaining the cars

Other chores she decides as necessary

If she is not satisfied with the results, I am punished by a sound spanking, loss of bathroom privileges, hours in the corner, not going out with my friends or going out and not being allowed to drink alcohol....She is a Princess and we have a fantastic relationship....

Although I do have an at home, part time, job I'm pretty much a "Stepford"

I currently have a lady frnd who is Domme in our relationship and she does practice domestic discipline .When we're together whether at her place or mine I have set chores to be done like the cooking and cleaning.. laundry if need be ,grocery shopping and any other errands that need be done.There is discipline involved for any infractions or misdeeds which will include spanking ,corner time,loss of priveledges...We both enjoy our time together with her in control.

How often do "females in charge" use the enema as the basic tool of correction? I talked with an older female who said she gave up the paddle long ago because the enema, the orgasm denial, then the orgasm while holding with a plug was the most gratifying methods for both she had ever found. I thought it was the most erotic thing I had ever heard. Thick nozzle, 3 hot quarts, and fast hand ... I asked her to marry me instead and she declined.

I am a bisexual male ,divorced. I only really found out I was more on the submissive side at my work place. I worked with warehouse workers and drivers, one of the drivers was approx 10 - 12 yrs older we worked for 1- 1 1/2 yrs together and then he retired. During that time we became rather good friends and kept seeing one another after he left the company. One Saturday afternoon we were together at his apt and he came right out and asked me why I had not had a girlfriend,(or a boyfriend).I told him that I was bisexual and found that really was not looking .

I asked him same and he said that he had been looking into the discipline scene and hard to find just any woman,his wife had died (cancer) and she never would go for any of that , He then asked me if I had ever tried anything Bondage wise,Discipline,etc, I told him I was more submissive then he asked if I would like/enjoy to become his sub nothing Heavy duty .I asked him if he was Bisexual and he told me no but had no problem having a man perform oral sex on him ,or for him to perform anal sex on sub, so me being Bisexual was perfect. perfect .

From that Saturday on I became I guess you could say his submissive . He had me perform oral sex 2-3/day on weekends, for discipline he was not so much into spanking it was always done with enema(s) and butt plug. He knew that I enjoyed swallowing cum his or mine so he actually made me (at his apt) masturbate into his ice cube tray making 12 cubes of frozen cum - one cube would take 3-4 x of cumming. He would have the cube melt and use for lubing the butt plug / dildo on me & have me lick off a saucer like a kitten

When he came to my place he would call and I would have to be naked and on knees as soon as he walked into my apt. I would have to service him orally right away. I was never allowed to wear clothes while he was there or I at his place. We at times would go out grocery shopping or for a coffee and he would make me wear a smaller dildo inside of me while we were out. It was very enjoyable I must say until I had to move due to an accident

Bruins59

I am a adult man but my wife spanks me it is always done in private she strips me from the waist down takes me by the arm or ear to the den where she scolds me like a 6year old puts me over her lap then the paddle the spankings are done for correction !

Definitely. I actually thrive on being disciplined if i have done something to non-standards. Outside of the role, I can be pretty dom with finances, long term planning, and non tangible things

Domestic discipline does have a place and many submissives need and want this. For those that need it works well. For those wanting to learn and to explore their curiousity DD is a way to do that.