Eye Contact:

When Im in trouble Poppie always makes me make eye contact with him while he lectures me, he says he does not wish to talk to the top of my head, its a hard thing to do when all I want is to hang my head . Do you keep eye contact or look down?

Eye contact is a deeper aspect of play on so many levels. One of the times I concentrate on eye contact most is when I have a patient hovering over the toilet as I slowly work a douche nozzle in and out of her vagina..reminding her that its an important part of good hygiene for a girl and she shouldn't be at all embarrassed..yea right 😃

Keep eye contact

Eye contact is important in most every intimate and social setting I can think of. Unless you're behind me of course. Even then a glance is imperative for me

I really love to have eye contact because eyes are a whole book of emotions.

It's makes it easier to know what the sub is feeling or thinking and it's amazing especially when they are embarrassed.

A Domme can use eye contact to her advantage.

I have often liked telling my submissives "don't look at me," because it is almost a reflex for them to look up at me, and slapping their face as I said it. If they don't look at me, I like to slap them in the face and say "look at me" when I am talking to you..

You just cannot let a submissive win.

A Domme can use eye contact to her advantage.

I have often liked telling my submissives "don't look at me," because it is almost a reflex for them to look up at me, and slapping their face as I said it. If they don't look at me, I like to slap them in the face and say "look at me" when I am talking to you..

You just cannot let a submissive win.

You are one sick puppy!!! 😄

You are one sick puppy!!! 😄

That's what makes me such a good Domme!

I really love to have eye contact because eyes are a whole book of emotions.

It's makes it easier to know what the sub is feeling or thinking and it's amazing especially when they are embarrassed.

I'm a male switch but loved when my real life Domme ex used to give me submissive enemas after dressing me in rubber clothes and sneakers. Both seeing and hearing our interaction during one of these enema sessions was a great delight and made it much more intense. And we both switched, so often I'd be giving her her own submissive enemas. Looking into each other's eyes as we did various kinky things to each other like telling me I was getting an enema after dressing me in rubber and also continuing to narrate the whole time really adds embarrassment and enjoyment to whatever kinks you are making your partner go through. It's very exciting and fulfilling to see the surprise, dread, blushing, embarrassment and other reactions as I did things to her. And listening to her sounds of moaning and begging are even better with eye contact.

Eric

I avoid eye-contact at all cost... only when the direct order come I relent and look up, but it's brief and I try and escape it. I feel bare... I feel naked even more than me being unclothed could make me feel. I obey with eye-contact... it's such a deep intimate exchange that I run from it...

I avoid eye-contact at all cost... only when the direct order come I relent and look up, but it's brief and I try and escape it. I feel bare... I feel naked even more than me being unclothed could make me feel. I obey with eye-contact... it's such a deep intimate exchange that I run from it...

Exactly. So think of how revealing and thus submissive and embarrassing and erotic it is. So I tell my sub partner to look each other in the eyes and then while we're looking tell her something's about to happen to her like putting in her butt plug or inflating her DBC rectal enema balloon or unclamping her enema hose or squeezing her Higginson bulb or feeling and massaging her plump enema belly. She not only has to experience the plug or inflating or water rush while you do it to her, but let you see every expression in her eyes and face too. And I think she'd likely be making a few sounds with her voice for you to enjoy, too. And for me as a switch, just as revealing and fun and embarrassing and erotic if she does it to me. So I think I agree with Susie - since you're doing it all consensually anyway, "you just can't let a submissive win," whether she or I is the sub getting the enema or fetish treatment. That's why I enjoyed my Domme ex pushing my sub limits anytime she liked, and I did the same to her. Great mutual fulfillment. And nice phrase, Susie.

Eric

Not being able to look, to see the person, when I'm facedown having my temperature taken or by bottom "inspected" is so powerful. I feel so helpless. She is in total control. All I can see is the pillow or the floor or the wall. The only sensations are the sound of the vaseline jar lid or the thermometer container or her comments about what she is seeing and doing to me, and the feeling of her fingers on the skin of my cheeks and my perineal and anal area.

Sometimes she'll put me on my back and tell me to hold my legs up and apart. Then we do make eye contact as she does those naughty but necessary things to me. When our eyes meet it sends a shock through me.

To me, eye contact during play is very important;

It speaks languages.

As a Dom, I prefer my Sub to maintain eye contact during play scenarios.

Why? Because it's not only respectful, but it also portrays how my Sub is feeling in that specific moment.

It makes the play both more intimate, safe and enchanting.

Eye contact During discussion inspection and pain can reveal what’s going on in your body in different ways than the physical application of the punishment. It’s also quite effective for me as a submissive to be required to look into someone’s eyes as I state my desires and willingness to submit to various activities. Or even to ask for them