Necessity to Eat Your Cum

In the world of Femdom, you will find many sets of rules, but they all seem to include cum-eating.

The problem for men is that, immediately after orgasm, they don't feel like it.

I suggest that - if you are even thinking about a femdom relationship, you will need to eat your cum at some stage. This is an essential submissive task, so learn it.

It is true that you can learn it by starting with a drop, the gentle way, but a mote affecting way it to make a major commitment to yourself, and JUST DO IT!

Collect your load in a suitable vessel, ideally one that can be licked properly, all over. Eat it as soon as possible after orgasm, and also learn to eat it cold.

Bear in mind that, if/when you are under femdom control, you might be orgasming once a month with eating demanded, so learn it now!

My wife and I love it when she makes me get as close as I can to sucking my penis, result is masturbating & shooting cum into my mouth, YUMMY! I have also made a cum sickle as a frozen treat! Not Bi, but I could easily be!

It has to be one of the ultimate acts of submission for a sub to be made to eat his own cum... perhaps even out of his Mistress, if he's been lucky enough to be allowed to pleasure her!!

I totally agree that when submitting, eating your cum (and even other men's cum) is a necessity.

Similar to what was stated by supple... For me it is difficult to eat my cum after I cum.

I have about an 80% success rate licking it from a woman (pussy, breasts, tongue, lips, etc).

I also have success while masturbating when shooting directly into my mouth (I don't have much time to change my mind in that situation). The tough part for me is learning to eat it from my hand after masturbating... and to have the ability to eat it without hesitation under ANY circumstances. I'm trying though!!

Any suggestions on how to get the state to eat it under ANY circumstance??

BTW... I actually think it will be easier to eat other men's cum as long as I have not had an orgasm yet (I have not done it YET though to confirm my theory :-) )

I recently had a mistress make me eat my own. It wasn't as bad as I expected and she didn't find it difficult to get me to cooperate

Not for me but if any one else feels the need to eat there own cum then thats all so well and good !!

Both eating it and eating it from an unsanitary receptacle (eg the floor) is essential to true submission.

Not necessary but certainly hot.

I hope all you guys who don't want to swallow your own cum don't expect your women to allow you to cum in their mouths either.

I hope all you guys who don't want to swallow your own cum don't expect your women to allow you to cum in their mouths either.

I've got no problem with cum gobbling prior to my own orgasm. This would really only be practical with another dude's jism as eating my own cum pre-orgasm presents a conundrum. i.e. I would easily be able and want to swallow when giving a man felatio so long as I hadn't recently cum myself.

I like it when a woman swallows, and prefer to cum in her mouth, but her preferences I would always respect.

I wonder about whether the proximity of a woman's orgasm would have effect on her desire the eat a partner's cum. Any ideas or experiences to share from the ladies in this regard?

I agree Switchablesusie. My motto is... If I expect my partners to do it, I need to be willing to do it too (or at least keep trying). This goes with anything and not just cum eating. This motto has exposed me to many new kinks that I end up enjoying! I don't think I ever tried something my partners are willing to do that I am not.

Yes...I too find this incredibly difficult. Once I cum I lose interest completely. Even if I am horny to the point that I am the little engine that could "I think I can, I think I can" - once it shoots out...I suddenly jam the brakes on full force!

Any suggestions on how to get the state to eat it under ANY circumstance??

I have had a few instances where I have had some success:

Try ejaculating on a small plate. As crazy as this sounds...if it is on a plate that food is eaten off of it has made it easier for me to lick. Remember - this is all in my (your) mind. It is mind over matter!

I have tried freezing it in saran wrap and then putting it frozen in my mouth.

Shooting into a shot of alcohol: vodka or wine. Was a failure. I blindfolded myself. Lifted the glass that held the beverage of choice and came directly into the glass. Immediately upon ejaculating my mind suddenly changed, I removed the blindfold, saw it floating in the vodka (or wine) and dumped it down the drain.

While in bondage play...I've had my Sir smear my cum on my lips. Have not had the entire amount dumped in my mouth. More concerned if I am on my back and suddenly start to choke on it.

I know my own cum will not hurt me but my mind just cannot get past it.

I've eaten pre-cum and licked some small amounts off my hand after masturbating; but, I never swallowed an entire load. Like many, I often thought about it; but, when it came time to take action I bailed out as I misguidedly thought I would be doing "a gay thing." Now, 9 years after having had my prostate removed and unable to cum, if given the chance in life to again ejaculate a load, I'd immediately get that gooey stuff in my mouth, swish it around with my tongue, and slowly savor every drop as I swallowed it in small portions.

Men, if any of you have the desire/curiosity about swallowing your own cum, JUST DO IT!!! Some day you may well regret the fact you didn't explore this part of your sexuality and it is gone forever.

Guys want their women to swallow it.

Come on guys, suck down a few loads.

Show your women it isn't a big deal.

Oh, I am so bad. I swallow my own all the time! I must be the odd man out. It started when I was young and I didn't want anyone to know what I was up to, so I "got rid of the evidence" so to speak. It wasn't so bad, so I kept it up and now I rarely waste it.

Am I a sick bastard? Thoughts?

Logan you are -

a sick bastard

but on zity you'll fit right in. As long as it doesn't harm you or anyone else - enjoy! Do what you enjoy.

I will often eat my own cum as it oozes out if my wife's pussy. I'm not doing it as a submissive, but rather because I love the naughty nasty aspect of it. She gets some after sex licking, I get to enjoy our juices mixed together, and it's bonus time I get to spend with my face buried between her thighs. It's the fastest way for me to regain my hard-on. It also makes it very clear to my wife that I love going down on her both before and after sex. I do this during her period too, which I find delicious. It took her along time to be comfortable with that, but now she just chalks it up to me being a horny freak and we both enjoy it.

Brain said

"Any suggestions on how to get the state to eat it under ANY circumstance??"

This worked for me. Not a big deal anymore.

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=782736

I love eating my own cum and the cum my GF delivers to me after one of her boy toys just came in her mouth. She loves to snowball me with mine or theirs and makes it a very sensuous act. Rolling her cum soaked tongue around in my mouth to make sure I get a good taste then kissing me deeply knowing she has shared some of her treasure with me. I also enjoy eating her out after she has had her kitty filled. The taste of her pussy mixed with cum is incredible.

I agree about licking eating cum. When I am arouse really a lot I will always do it. I see little difference in doing that as opposed to lick it from a pussy. I have atleast once followed specific instructions about jacking off and then licking it up. I found that it made for a very intense climax. I wondered if females would respond the same way if told to frig themselves and the lick their fingers clean not a chauvinist must wonder about what they feel and think.

Early on as a submissive I had to 'taste my own' as it were. Often I was made to come, either by me masturbating or having a vibrator used on me, standing in front of a dome and only allowed to come on command. Not always successful on holding back. One common punishment was to lick my cum off the floor on all fours. Also had to drink it from a shot glass a few times. Only had fresh and warm on an inversion wheel directly into the mouth (had a few facials that way too, poor aim). Swallowing immediately or playing around in the mouth is very degrading to me. I do not enjoy the taste or texture, which is kind of gummy like a thin paste in my mouth and slimy. Definitely a submissive act for me and something I only do if told to.

I don't see what is so complicated here. If I am told to lick, taste or eat it all, what choice do I have?

I have discovered over the years that Tasting/Swallowing CUM is a Very Sexual Pleasure for me! I've had my ERUPTING COCK Sucked Dry then She gets on top of me and with my Hot Cum Still in her Mouth we Share it in a NICE Long Wet KISS!! Try it and see what kind of reaction you BOTH have? I think it will surprise you BOTH!!

"In the world of Femdom, you will find many sets of rules, but they all seem to include cum-eating."

Dammit, I didn't know there were rules!! I've gotta go out and buy them right away, cause I've always just done things I enjoyed.

I'm allowed to cum a couple of times a month...I always ask for permission to do my clean up duty, and she always gives it to me. It makes me feel so submissive to my dominant wife. Life is good.

Yes...Mistress has me eat my cum when i am allowed to ejaculate. once a week, so far. i like the taste of it and how the taste changes from time to time. sometimes more salty than others...it is essential in my becoming Her sissy slut.

I agree that if you're in a femdom relationship you should be expected to eat your own cum and do so without issue. I've learned over the years to enjoy every drop and to thank my mistress for the opportunity.

I've been into Enemas since childhood and still enjoy them today bot giving/receiving! I had a fun endeavor with another Bi-Guy a couple years ago and would enjoy having a FUN/SENSUOUS/EROTIC "ENEMA ENTHUSIAST" Like Me? One of my Favorites is(Both Give/Receive)a HOT Spanking followed with a BIG Slow ENEMA while I Suck his Cock to Orgasm! I found that to be very satisfying for us Both!! Is anyone interested in Sharing/Exploring ENEMAS and SEX??

I wasn't in a few on situation, I wish, but my ex gf used to suck me and then kiss me with my vim in her mouth and make me swallow it. It was hot. I miss the sex but not her

It’s only polite to do what you’d expect her to do. That’s how I ended up with a dildo up my ass. I like that also!