Punishment for Disobedience

I was asked to do something for my fiance yesterday and I completely forgot. With work, being a mom and also currently pregnant...well, things slip my mind; however, I know the rules and because of my disobedience I was punished. Punishment in our house is fair and swift, doled out by fiance only, and then transgression is forgotten/forgiven. I enjoy life functioning this way. He never stays angry and we never fight. If I prove I am right, no punishment occurs, if I cannot, I submit and go OTK for a spanking.

Last night, I was guilty and he was waiting when I got home from work. I was asked to come to the bedroom, strip to panties (he enjoys pulling them down) and to bend over his lap. Because of my pregnancy he always takes my temperature rectally first (I am not punished if I have a temp), and since no temperature was present, I had to go and get the paddle he indicated was to be used. He thinks it the best way if I have to hand him the instrument he will be using for my spanking. I am spanked and then I am asked to apologize for my disobedience. Once that happens I am either released or additional things occur...last night, I was plugged after my spanking with jeweled metal butt plug and then we had sex. I came so hard and it was truly nice.

I'm thinking as soon as my butt stops stinging, I may have to disobey him again soon...

If I topped from the bottom, my Dominant would never go through that sequence as punishment again. I might still get spanked, but there would be nothing afterward. The punishment itself would become a spanking I did not ever want again, or some other alternative that I also would not want.

However, I sure can understand how you feel!

The punishment for disobedience is more mental than anything.She uses her mind to put me in my place I might add been in diapers for 20yrs due to medical reasons not being a sub she is younger and do most everything her way kinda hard to control things with my ego gone.

Disobedience in our home is an immediate bare bottom spanking with a paddle and diapering by my dom.

GinaGAL

I think that this will last only for a short time. In the case that a punishment for disobedience will be needed urgently, swallowing 2 oz castor oil will have really longlasting effects, for this will you urge for hours.

I love being spanked, the whole idea of it , the thoughts going thru my head leading up to it, the entire process of it is a real big turn on for me . But I had never been given a real punishment spanking (as an adult) until recently. I mean actual pain not just that yummy sting and "ouchie" that smarts kind of spanking .

I was asked not to do something, and while I knew I would have consequences If I did it anyway I can confess I did not try too hard . Not knowing what my " punishment " would be I was a little nervous but excited at the same time . In my head I was thinking hmmm a hard spanking ....yum .

I didnt really think of how I probably disappointed him until I was actually being punished . I can say that its not something I want repeated any time soon. Not on purpose anyway 😉

I will push the line so I get spanked.

A spanking is for discipline.....in my opinion. Keeping the submissive in line, reminding them regularly that I am in charge.

For punishment, they will not only get a good hard spanking, but some other punishment that does not come with the regular, weekly disciplinary spanking. That usually means either: an enema with a butt plug or diaper, or both; a bar of soap to wash out their potty mouth; corner time; or being punished in front of someone else as further chastisement. A submissive with learn the difference between regular spankings/discipline as part of their training/routine, and a punishment spanking for a specific offense.

Aaaaahhhhh! The age old discussion about spanking! As far back as time has been recorded the baring of a butt and slapping it with either an open hand or an implement has been the means utilized for discipline and correcting behavior. However, once into adulthood spanking often becomes an erotic desire between adults and very much a part of their sexual play time. While attending college I once had a girlfriend who openly said to me,, "when I was little girl I hated & feared getting a spanking. Now as an adult woman I look forward to getting a spanking & even desire them!"

It is really something what changes can & do occur within a person's life isn't?

If the butt plug stings, why not try a glass one with a rounded top? It doesn't scrape, no risk of tear like most and a very small amount of coconut oil on it is all it needs to eliminate the tiny amount of friction going in. You also won't feel any friction moving around.

My bf puts in it for punishment sometimes, and often before spanking, removes it for anal, obviously. Then I'm stretched out just enough for it, without pain, only discomfort. The discomfort is actually very arousing, especially when he gently thrusts.

I disobeyed a disciplinarian frnd of mine by doing something she had warned me about...not wearing a seat belt ...well I was stopped and received a $90 ticket....once I confessed and showed her the ticket I was soundly spanked then whipped out against a wall then whipped again she asked if I had learned my lesson and I pleaded that I have

I really enjoy getting a good hard paddling, strapping and/ or caning. It is an adult pleasure as I have said before.

If punishment is the goal then the sexual drive that makes a spanking pleasurable must be eliminated. It really hurts then but If I know it is going to happen I get sexually excited until the last spasm of pre punishment pleasure is over then I would do anything to get out of what is going to happen to my bare ass. There is absolutely no pleasure in being over someone's knee or bending over with butt held high for that.

Then the strangest thing happen after it is over and I remember getting an un pleasurable ass busting, I get aroused thinking about it. I have written about this phenomena before and very, very few people have had this experience. It is ALMOST worth the punishment to have the dread, the pre spanking pleasure and the exciting memory; or maybe it is worth it.

Rob