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Figging - Ginger - Male perspective

Has anyone tried figging? This is when you crea…

Women, do you enjoy a little rough breast play?

Women, do you enjoy a little rough breast play …

How to Cry, Whimper, or Moan?

Is there a way to learn how to cry, whimper, or…

Spanking Rapid Fire Fast and Furious Whacks

My girlfriend really like the pain of a good sp…

What is your pain fantasy?

I have lately a lot of pain fantasies which nor…

How often do you blend the line between pain and pleasure?

How often do you blend the line between pain an…

Nipples pinching

I'm a big fan of pinching a woman's nipples. On…

What is the best way to spank to create a stinging pain with no bruising?

I like to be spanked by hand so that the pain i…

Soap vs Ginger

I have seen posts about carving a soap supposit…

What does a real spanking feel like?

I have been into give and getting for many year…

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

Spraying hot water on my balls and cock.

I don't know if anyone else has ever done this …

How Do You Like to Have Your Penis and Balls Whipped?

I have had some dominant play partners, both me…
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Crying

Does anyone else on here need to cry when spank…

Clothespin play

There has been some mention of the use of cloth…

Ice in the Butt

Has anybody on here really tried the ice up in …
271 Replies

Ways to make a spanking more painful?

Has anyone used this product or a similar gener…

Ass and mouth stuffed at the same time

I have had my Ass and mouth stuffed at the same…

Am I a masochist?

I enjoy simultaneously being tied, wearing clot…

Shaken by Domme profile wording..

Has anyone else ever gotten weak in the knees a…

Figging - Ginger - Female perspective

Do you like to do figging? It is also an amazin…

Nipple clamps

When do you enjoy them the most? When they are …

Songs about BDSM

What are some songs you have heard about BDSM. …

Nipple play

Has anybody ever had nipple play with needles.

Intentional Misbehaving

I'm sure all of us subbies (at least the masoch…

Carrying on cock and ball torture after cumming.

Basically long story short... I am am 23 and en…

Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually aroused

Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually a…

Boyfriend wants to be gagged

My boyfriend wants to be gagged and to have me …

I love being spanked directly on my asshole

I remember reading some where of people enjoyin…

Using Static as a "Torture"

This winter has been long, cold, and dry. So w…

Does anybody else spank themselves?

Sometimes I feel the need to heat up my butt an…

Blue balls, orgasm denial & ruined orgasm

Personally, I love the frustrating ache that co…

Stinging Nettles

How do you use stinging nettles in bdsm ? I rea…

Physical vs. Emotional pain - which is worse?

(please note I didn't write this nor am I tryin…

Training my nipples with Snake Bite Kit

I just got a set of snake bite kits. My masacis…
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Punishments

What kind of anal punishments has anyone had.. …

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

Orgasms Through Pain

People sometimes say that when a true sadist to…

Scotch tape

Recently, I had the pleasure of the company of …

Candles

I was wondering if there is anybody out there w…

Pain vs embarrassment

How much do you like your shots to hurt and how…

Device for spanking balls

Hello, do anyone know if there exist a device f…

How many women are painsluts--or would be, if there was perfect trust?

I find that many of the activities I've partici…

Candle wax on genitals.

Hot wax from a candle dripped on my penis is qu…

Wax/hot wax

Paraffin bath....all I can say is that a rock h…

Going to try figging, and other stuff....

Ok so up until a week ago I had never heard of …

Needle play

My Dom had recently mentioned a desire to push …

Breast Whipping

I've noticed several personals ads recently on …

Spanking Fantasies

Let's discuss our spanking fantasy, to see what…

Cock tip biting..

Anyone enjoy having there cock tip Bit? My wif…

Pain... A primal need

Pain. A four letter word but one that conveys …

Sub-space

Subspace? .. I have only read about or heard ab…

Bottom Kicking

I have a male sub who likes to have his bottom …