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Are pain fantasies normal?

Is it normal to have fantisies about being rest…

Good pain versus bad pain

It is very difficult to explain to someone who …

Intentional Misbehaving

I'm sure all of us subbies (at least the masoch…

Boyfriend wants to be gagged

My boyfriend wants to be gagged and to have me …

Why do we seek pain for pleasure

I heard this today on the local NPR station I l…

I love being spanked directly on my asshole

I remember reading some where of people enjoyin…

Nipple play

Has anybody ever had nipple play with needles.

Soap vs Ginger

I have seen posts about carving a soap supposit…

Nipple clamps

When do you enjoy them the most? When they are …

Using Static as a "Torture"

This winter has been long, cold, and dry. So w…

Ice in the Butt

Has anybody on here really tried the ice up in …

Does anybody else spank themselves?

Sometimes I feel the need to heat up my butt an…

Blue balls, orgasm denial & ruined orgasm

Personally, I love the frustrating ache that co…

Stinging Nettles

How do you use stinging nettles in bdsm ? I rea…

Physical vs. Emotional pain - which is wor…

(please note I didn't write this nor am I tryin…

Training my nipples with Snake Bite Kit

I just got a set of snake bite kits. My masacis…

Ways to make a spanking more painful?

Has anyone used this product or a similar gener…

Punishments

What kind of anal punishments has anyone had.. …

Spanking Rapid Fire Fast and Furious Whacks

My girlfriend really like the pain of a good sp…

Ball busting with mistress !!!

I read an article about ball busting on net. On…

How Do You Like to Have Your Penis and Bal…

I have had some dominant play partners, both me…

Figging - Ginger - Male perspective

Has anyone tried figging? This is when you crea…

What is your pain fantasy?

I have lately a lot of pain fantasies which nor…

Orgasms Through Pain

People sometimes say that when a true sadist to…

What is the best way to spank to create a …

I like to be spanked by hand so that the pain i…

Scotch tape

Recently, I had the pleasure of the company of …

Candles

I was wondering if there is anybody out there w…

Pain vs embarrassment

How much do you like your shots to hurt and how…

Carrying on cock and ball torture after cu…

Basically long story short... I am am 23 and en…

Device for spanking balls

Hello, do anyone know if there exist a device f…

How many women are painsluts--or would be,…

I find that many of the activities I've partici…

Spraying hot water directly on my anus

How many of you people have ever sprayed hot wa…

Candle wax on genitals.

Hot wax from a candle dripped on my penis is qu…

Wax/hot wax

Paraffin bath....all I can say is that a rock h…

Figging - Ginger - Female perspective

Do you like to do figging? It is also an amazin…

Going to try figging, and other stuff....

Ok so up until a week ago I had never heard of …

Needle play

My Dom had recently mentioned a desire to push …

Crying

Does anyone else on here need to cry when spank…

Breast Whipping

I've noticed several personals ads recently on …

Spanking Fantasies

Let's discuss our spanking fantasy, to see what…

Cock tip biting..

Anyone enjoy having there cock tip Bit? My wif…

Pain... A primal need

Pain. A four letter word but one that conveys …

Sub-space

Subspace? .. I have only read about or heard ab…

Spraying hot water on my balls and cock.

I don't know if anyone else has ever done this …

Women, do you enjoy a little rough breast …

Women, do you enjoy a little rough breast play …

Bottom Kicking

I have a male sub who likes to have his bottom …

Intense S&M

Here are a few links of videos I have found to …

Being careful with spankings

Just sitting here thinking on a recent session …

Needles : need help and advice

Hello there! First of all, this thread may not …

Nipples pinching

I'm a big fan of pinching a woman's nipples. On…

Self Anal Punishment

My hubs is away for the week and I spent WAY to…

Obsessive Desire for Spankings and Larger …

When I was growing up, I was given enemas when …

Searching for cheap flogger to see if we l…

Hello all! I'm interested in getting a cheap fl…

Cock Slapping

I know very little about BDSM and have never gi…

Losing desire for pain after orgasm

A reader said he enjoyed ball crushing but want…