Does anyone else on here need to cry when spanked or is it just me
My gf cries while being spanked but I do not stop
I really really wish I could, but mentally I am not able to be that submissive yet. I know crying would be one heck of a great mental release, and one that is much needed too. Someday I hope.
I don't handle pain too well so I wouldn't be surprised if I cried a little but that would be a sign the spanking needs to stop! If I found out my Dom was doing it on purpose, I'd turn around and make him cry too! That's why I only like hand spankings, I think that is plenty. I find that my Dom should respect my feelings, if I'm crying that's too much, like a safe word almost. Pain is fine but to the point of crying is a little much. Maybe as a release though. Some people may like crying. It's just not for me.
Admittedly, i do like spankings that bring me to tears. It is a stress relief for me to finally let go and let the tears flow. The spanking does not have to be hard in order to be effective for me.
So far, I have not experienced tears when spanked. Not sure if it's my tough exterior or if it's my spanker.
Tears while being spanked is on my to do list.
I try not to bring my women to tears, but sometimes they are enjoying the spanking and want more, then they do tear up a little.
I want my sub to cry, but he is a bit tough and won't cry before I stop with the paddling. 😢
Legit tears really do this doctor good! I love for the patient to cry incessantly..just so I can pat her on the head and say..''Im sorry, it will be over soon'' then continue unmoved.
I only had my sub cry twice - and it was beautiful. She is so tough that it rarely comes to that. I had to comfort her so much afterwards.
My GF cries when I spank her sometimes, if it is too much.
I do cry because I cant take much pain. But the major reason of me crying are true reflection on what I have done wrong and humiliation.
It's good to cry during a spanking, as it's a necessary emotional release and you feel much better afterwards as a result. Obviously the spanker shouldn't be hurting you more than you can take, which is why you need mutual knowledge and respect and a safe word to stop. Don't worry about crying during it though, it's perfectly normal, just so long as you feel closer afterwards rather than resentful.
OK. You all have me convinced that this is beyond me. I just can't imagine spanking a girl to tears unless she begged me to do it during, not before..
To excitement, yes. To tingling, yes. But to tears is a bridge too far.
I must be about a century out of touch. Make that two centuries. I never did understand Victorian fascination with caning either.
I have actually tried to cry during a play session, and my dominant tried his best to convince me (Verbally, physically, and seductively) I could and I was allowed to, but to this day, it has never happened. When all I have to do is cry to make the pain stop, and I just can't, no matter how much I want to, it is just soooooooo confusing. This is probably the only thing my former dominant ever asked of me that I could't deliver.
I will spank a girl until she cries from embarrassment at being punished like a little girl or, occasionally use a soft paddle to produce enough stinging to bring on tears but never spank to break the skin or cause bruising or welts, ever.
Giving a girl a spanking while she is retaining an enema reduces her to total dependence and enough psychological discomfort to cause crying. She does not want to leak but the spanking takes her mind off of retention. I always use an absorbent pad over my legs so if she looses control of her bladder or bowel the mess is contained.
I am a crier during spankings. the age regression starts when I hear come with me young lady and my husband takes my hand.
The spanking is in two parts. One the hand over the panties and two hairbrush on the bare. The crying begins long before the hairbrush takes over and when it does crying escalates. When all is said and done, I feel a sense of true relief that I have atoned and yes tears do cleanse.
It took some convincing to get my Dom to try to spank me until I cried. She took me over her knee and spanked me with the hairbrush, actually a bath brush. I lost count around 120 spanks and had to use a safe word to have her stop; my behind couldn't take it any more and I never did cry. We're going to try again in the next session, maybe with a paddle or the bath brush again.
It has been a long, long time since my wife and I played spanking games but, as I recall, she sometimes cried but I did not.
Reading a spanking story recently started me thinking about erotic spankings again. It seems to me that the spankee's lose of composure and involuntary reactions, such as crying, are very arousing for both parties and a threshold that must be crossed to maximize the experience. I realize this is not desirable or tolerable to some, however.
I couldn't cry during a spanking if I wanted to...I have tried. Pain often makes me beg and plead and sometimes even makes me angry but it never brings tears.
I love a good cry while being spank ,paddle or caned. Unfortunately it dose not always happen, Do not why the punishment can be the same so it must be a head thing.
I want to be spanked to tears some day. But it will have to be with someone who cares about me and whom I can trust. and who is understanding, gentle and kind. I imagine it will be therapeutic once it's actually done. I have some things I need to get out but I'm a control freak and have buried some deep emotions. I need to release them and have someone safe take care of me while I recover. There are very few men I would trust with the task. But I'm open to meeting another should we have the same desires.
I agree with egirlky very much, I would liked to be paddled on my bare butt with a wooden paddle, say 20 to 30 fast hard swats, I have done self spankings as much as 50 swats but would like to have naked female preferable, administer the swats and not stop, would like to see if it would bring tears or not.
I have come close to crying but have not yet had tears. I wish i could cry. I think for me because spankings or any type of beatings on my ass are my most favorite form of pain, I usually fall into the place where the pain becomes pleasure pretty quickly.
I cry during spankings; it is both an emotional release and a sign of my humiliation.
I love it when a really good spanking brings me to tears as it such a great emotional release.
I have an adorable young subbie who can't cry. I have tried on many occasions to gt her to that point but she just can't cry. I think crying is a wonderful release and makes me feel so much closer to my sub. It is a great precursor to the necessary aftercare. However recently I blindfolded her and gagged her and tied her to the bed. When I started giving her the enema she pleaded and begged me to stop. She actually was whimpering and it was such a great turn on. Yet she sill can't cry. Go figure!
Hmm... I was the other way.
I was a crybaby growing up! the littlest kid tends to be.
I have a cousin (guy) who cant cry as a result of his dad beat the f+++ outta him if he did.
Yes I cry when my husband punishes me. First is that I cannot prevent it because of the pain for he uses a belt, but more important it is because of the shame of being spanked.
It's very hard for me to cry. There are many who tell me they can spank me to tears, but truly cannot get me to that point. It takes a long, hard spanking to get me to cry. Only one time I got to true subspace with one spanker. I've been wanting that again, but have not gotten that yet.
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