Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually aroused?
I do become aroused when I am in my diapers and rubber pants and I am teased by my SO and then told to bend over, as she spanks my wet diapered behind. In fact both of us get aroused.
As for me, I have not been spanked that much in a sexual situation. However, I did once get spanked by a female Dom in front of her husband who also got spanked by her. He was spanked before me and he did get very aroused and actually came while he was being spanked.
As for me, when it was my turn to get spanked, I did get rather hard, but did not cum. When the spanking was over, she told her husband to finish me off by masturbating me until I came. It was only about another minute or so until I did come and extremely hard when I did. Yes, she watched as her husband did this to me.
As for spanking we both got, they were with her open hand and were not that bad. It only made our butts a little bit red and no really severe marks. All of the marks went away in about a half hour. As for the redness, it took about two hours for our butts to regain their normal colors.
HOWEVER, I did spank a female one time, not with my open hand, but a ping-pong paddle. I tied her down to her bed face down stretched out very tightly. Her hands were tied to the bedposts and her feet tied together at her ankle and then to the bottom of the bed frame. She could not move. I sat down next to her and started spanking her with it. A first, she did not cry and only moaned a little in pain. As I continued hitting her with that ping-pong paddle she started to cry a little. I stopped and gave her a brake of about a minute and then I resumed the spanking. When it was all over, her butt was not just red, but a deep purple color and there was some really good welts on her butt. It did take a few days before she could sit down comfortably again. Even then the marks and welts lasted about two weeks before her butt started to return to normal.
As for her liking it, she did tell me after it was over and while she was still nude, that she knew she deserved it and was not about to ask me to stop before I decided to stop. A few months later, I did it to her again.
YES, she consented to it in full both time that I did it to her. After the second time she told me that if I ever wanted to do it to her like that again, she would willingly submit to it. She liked to be hurt that way.
When I was growing up around age 12 when my stepdad would tell me Im getting a whipping I would get an erection I believe mainly because of the fear. It would go away during the whipping but would come back as soon as I got back to my bedroom and looked at my bottom in the mirror. My stepdad was at least decent enough to allow me an hour private time following a session with his belt. As a husband and father I never administer the belt without cause but do get aroused when administering it. I believe this Is fairly normal and that it helps certain people to administer necessary correction.
Not the actual spanking, but the anticipation and the humiliation are are real turn on.
^^ I agree. Before the spanking I start getting hard. During the spanking it usually settles down a bit. Then after the spanking and embarrassment, I am rock hard and so horny.
Some years ago I visited the Chalet in LA- probably 1984. I was a real neophyte when it came to spanking activity, but I was determined to experience two scenes. I wanted to spank a willing woman, and then I wanted a second session with a dominant female who would spank me. After checking in with the gentleman at the front desk, he said “I have just the partner for you.” In a few minutes a slender blonde woman appeared, very attractive and provocatively dressed, low cut top, short skirt, garter belt and black nylons. She took me to a private room, where we chatted, and she let me know right away how much she craved a good spanking. She told me she’d attended a party where all the guests, male and female sat on chairs in a circle, and she went all around the circle, laid over each person’s lap for 10 of their best spanks, panties off. I was afraid I’d hurt her cute butt, as she kept wriggling and moaning and telling me “harder! Harder! I doubt that she was aroused, but I was rock hard after the session. She led me back out to the lobby, introduced me to a tall, red headed woman - a beautiful amazon! She said something like “now it’s your turn to receive some punishment“ which only turned me on some more, if that were possible. She lead me to a different room, made me undress completely, took me over her lap, my erect penis trapped by her thighs. And rest assured she new how to punish. She used her hand, then a variety of paddles, and my butt bore the marks for a few days. She told me that I should “man up“ and she would introduce me to punishment being tied to a cross and whipped. Never made it back there, and I wasn’t sure I’d enjoy anything more severe that that second scene. All in all, very interesting- wasn’t long after that The Chalet and the Sherema Clinic closed.
YES, I get wetter and more aroused with every step, from knowing I'm to be spanked to being put over the knee, to finally having my panties pulled down for a hard bare bottomed spanking. I feel almost delirious!
You’re sick. But deliciously so. 😜
I definitely get excited by spanking now. I had not been spanked at younger ages and started getting spanked at age 12 by my mom and stepdad and at school and friend's parents and a few others. I was definitely NOT excited getting spanked the first times. Scared and embarrassed about stripping naked and it hurt so much. But about the time I was fourteen years old I started getting an erection during spankings and sometimes ejaculated too. Which was embarrassing but made it so intense and enjoyable.
When spanked with the back of wood clothes brush bare bottom over the knee, I often get aroused. I end up Kicking squirming,
and clenching and putting my hands in the way, anything to try and ease the pain of a spanked bottom! but i sometimes get the small thin cane over the knee for doung this and have been known to ejaculate on my spankers lap getting the cane on the sit spots otk has me howling!
maybe i need a lesson in control been told I am a challenge?
As a adult naughty school boy when roleplaying is anybody made to ejaculate before being spanked?
this sometimes happens to me the pain is awfull has me yelling!
YES! Well not so much any more @73! 50 yrs ago I bought my GF ( very soon my wife) a paddle to use on me!Yes I got hard and she fot WET!!! From foreplay spankings! Even punishment spankings would get me hard at the beginning and then after my spankings were over. The really severe spankings, only qbout 5 in 50 years, the next morning and for about a week long when I woke up I would think about it need to masturbate 😃 LOVED my severe spankings after I stopped sobbing & gasping for my breath.
I would give a definite YES that an otk spanking given to me by my husband is a total turn on for both of us. A hot pink to red bottom can really light up the intensity and durability of erotic moments together. Denise
Agree. Once the real pain happens, the embarrassment takes a back seat. (No pun intended).
When I was younger it sure did, every time. It was a great stress reviler. All was well until I had to undergo Prostate surgery which consisted of my Prostate being shrunk by a lazer beam. Since that happened I can't get stiff and I can not cum. I still need and get stress relief by being spanked at least once a week.
Yes I defiantly get sexual aroused when bare bottom spanked over the knee especially, when getting the back of the wood clothes brush on my bare bottom I sometimes ejeculate on my spankers thigh, due to all my kicking clenching and wriggling! When this happens I sometimes get the cane standing up with hands on the wall ! The cane after ejeculating and the clothes brush is a agonising. Been told I am a challenge and hard to control! Maybe I need discipline in how to behave when disiplined!?
No. I happen to be a ‘little’ and a spanking is a need for the ‘little’ because that’s how she learns best. The ‘other me’ just happens to have to share in getting the punishment because the spanking is administered to both of us. There is no ‘want’ for either the ‘little’ or the ‘other’ … but it has been explained to me the the ‘other’ will learn and grow, just as the ‘little’ will by the consequence and the discipline provided by the spanking. I have to admit that truly works … even if I would prefer it to not.
There is nothing sexual, for me, in having my pants and panties pulled down; it’s humiliating, and being spanked while over a knee is embarrassing. It’s just the method of discipline used with me, and my consent is simply to meet the need. Of course, prior to consent, there has got to be a bond of trust established because the authority to spank me has to exist.
@miss_chievious may I ask, why do you submit to it? Do you like, desire to be spanked?…
In answer to your question, eeetime, I submit to it because the ‘little’ within me needs it. The ‘other me’ doesn’t but if I don’t have somebody, an authority figure, to handle the ‘little’ … then the ‘little’ can not come out to play. It’s a struggle for the ‘other’ me because I am easily carried away by the antics of the ‘little’ while at the same time, the ‘other’ me has to accept what the ‘little’ needs because neither the ‘little’ or the ‘other’ wants it. I guess for the ’other’ … it’s like the lesser of two …
At first I dont't rember that far back but as A child when I was spanked it was scary and vicious.. As an adult I rather enjoy the sensation of being held down over an erogenous zone and having my arse and or cunt spanked . It is a big turn on. I like bare handed spanking the most. Taking a paddle or it sounds sillly but the fly swater realy sets me to auto drip.Just looking at it makes me hungrey. I just bring that thing over and bare my arse when I am realy wanting some.
I fantasize about being beaten by my mother while I'm in front of her, bathing with her and torturing me in various ways.
Very much, but I have to be in the right headspace of being a naughty little boy being punished. I've had orgasms just from being spanked (not even from friction from squirming) when I'm feeling this way. My partner and I are starting to explore this kind of play, which I've fantasized about for almost my whole life!
@cos: Does getting spanked cause you to be sexually aroused?
More so thinking about it than it actually happening.
Not really. More scared. Spankings hurt. When going over someone’s knee, it’s going to hurt, and in many cases, a lot. Not exactly fun, but, understand completely that sometimes, especially with little boys, it will be necessary, like it or not. It’s how it is. Ouch.
No that does not get me aroused. They inflect a bit of pain.
When I was younger and my stepdad first started spanking me they were scary and not fun experiences. They were always over his knee and bare bottom and he’d use his hand, a paddle or belt.
After I started to enter puberty I started to get mixed feelings regarding them. They were still always bare bottom and over his knee or bent over and they still hurt but I felt for lack of better terms aroused and excited before they even started. I guess it was the anticipation of and knowing what was about to happen mixed with the humiliation of having it on my bare bottom. Then during the actual spanking those feelings would get really intense. I was young and naive enough that if I hadn’t been spanked for a while, I’d talk back just so that I could get spanked. I guess that’s where all the magic started for me.
Being a nipple freak, if you play with my nipples and spank me, yes it turns me on.
Flogging, paddling, spanking, yes, a turn on and if you rub some other areas, if your fingers stray between my folds, most definitely.
A straight spanking and nothing but? I don't know.
I enjoy a little bit of pain, so yes, spankings can arouse me.
Sounds like a science experiment might be in order.
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