Does anybody else spank themselves?

Sometimes I feel the need to heat up my butt and spank myself. Enjoy it and would love for others to watch. Anybody else do this?

I have a nice used construction board in the garage and have used it on myself on occasion. On the two recent meetings with Z members I was given the pleasure on my bottom and I want more.

Before I was able to convince my wife to spank/whip/flog me, and after her death, that was my only outlet. I have produced bruises, welts, and bleeding. I have since been spanked by a couple of Zity members who did a very good job. Spanking yourself is hard to do and you don’t get the impact you can get from others.

I love spanking my bum by myself but, I wouldn't be comfortable doing it in front of anybody watching me.

Plus, when I'm in a good mood I can tolerate the pain as much as I can.

I really like to spank myself

I am not ….. or was not much into spanking……or self spanking……but last time my Lady Domme could see me at video I slapped myself and she said a loud YES….. I liked a lot to hear that from her……excited me a lot!, So if she wants to, I could do that for her at next plays.

Za

Gave it a try a long time ago, back when “this thing we do” started for me. I wasn't able to get the “impact” I desired, and of course the “element of surprise” was ruined as well. This was WAaay before the internet, and I felt like the only person in the WORLD who had this “fascination.”

I have tried self spanking on a number of occasions and have to agree with friscokaty that I never got the “impact” desired as she described it either. I have been fascinated with spanking since quite young and liked giving as well as getting (although you would never know it when spanked for real). My poor teddy bear was over my knee for quite a number of times for a sound spanking!!! lol Denise

Gave it a try a long time ago, back when “this thing we do” started for me. I wasn't able to get the “impact” I desired, and of course the “element of surprise” was ruined as well.

I guess it can work for some. I know of one submissive that is required to spank herself and show her reddened results and it seems to work for her. I would agree it would be hard to get good results when you know it is coming.

I have tried a few times. But it is frankly very disappointing and feels ridiculous and silly. Tried it by hand, with a ruler, swatters of various kinds.

None give any effect other than to make me wonder why there are so many tales of religious nuts flagellating themselves and going into spasms of ecstasy. Sure doesn't work for me at all.

I do once in while since I have been unable to find someone of like mind to do it to me…sigh

But I keep looking

Elaine

I have done this many times ( for 60 years) BUT it is NOTHING like a a spanking from my wife, either for Fore Play OR punishment!!!! Really wish for punishmant she would restrain me with NO safe word, No mercy, Spanking even harder when i beg or plead, till well after i can no longer struggle or resist, just accepting a spanking that i will never forget 😃 BUT only once or month or perhaps less!!!!

I certainly enjoy being spanked by my wife more than spanking myself but I do spank myself sometimes. I just finished a good long session whipping my bum with a belt. Took my time and tanned it from waist to mid thigh. Feels nice and warm.

Yes I spank myself prior to masturbation sessions to warm up my butt and cause extra tingles to enhance orgasm.

Ni , i dont personally, but i woman i used to spank did, when we were on line together or on phone , but when we met, i did give here a good doing, she said her bum was sore 3 days later !

When I can't get my partner to spank my naughty bare bottom, then I do it. Once or twice a week I will bare my bottom, then using a large Paddle-Ball paddle,I will give myself a minimum of 300 to 500 medium to hard swats. The paddle is large and wide enough to cover both ass cheeks. I've been self spanking for over sixty years and I am here to tell you, that with practice you can achieve a throbbing pain and bright red bottom. Butt again I have to emphasize that it does take practice. I am 76 years old and here to tell you that it works. I did it this afternoon. { Monday 9/20/2021}

I used to, but I can't spank myself hard and long enough. Never find the ideal implement.

I could not agree more with the post of agracier, every single word of it!

I did it once, not that long ago.

I agree I would much rather be spanked by someone else. But as I filmed myself, I felt extremely humiliated and turned on.

Not having been able to connect with a local male spanking partner, I have often turned to self-spanking, by hand, with a paddle and my favorite, the razor strop. None of it is nearly as satisfying as having a “dad” in control of my spanking. With self-spanking I find it too easy to back off as the pain gets bad…as it's supposed to. Yet somehow, self-spanking still fills a void for me.

I have been a self spanker for years, usually while holding a 2 quart enema, I have two wooden paddles one with holes and one without

I self spank when I can't find a woman that will spank me. I have self spanked in front of girlfriends and my ex wife. It adds another degree of humiliation especially when they make comments like, “Spank harder, faster, don't stop”.

Somewhere else I mentioned how I tried self-spanking, and compared it to self-enemas. Self-enemas work for me because of the delay in filling myself with strong soapy and having to wait a bit for it to kick in. So I can innocently blow up belly full of hot Ivory soap and then once done, it's only a matter of time till I “explode”. But with self-spanking, there's no delay; it hurts as I do it, so stop too soon.

I have tried to…. But it is not the same, as to be told to take your pants down, you are getting a spanking…. Then to get a good ass warming.

I don't get how anyone can do it right to themselves.

I don't get how anyone can do it right to themselves.

Agree - unless they got one of those fancy spanking machines - but they would still be missing the interaction and emotion that goes along with a good spanker.

@Secret_sub that is a big part of it all to feel humiliated….. which makes easy to get off

@Secret_sub:

I see you have a new Avatar. Did you take me up on my suggestion to wear no panties and a short skirt that would show your bare bum when you bent over?

It’s a shame you live across the pond. You look very spankable in your picture.

@GreyDesigner you and a couple others suggest the same thing, what is a sub to do. 😳

That would be a film I would like to see @Secret_sub . You spanking yourself. 😃