What is the best way to spank to create a stinging pain with no bruising?

I like to be spanked by hand so that the pain is stinging and is a turn on when done for 10 minutes or more. How do I get a dom female to do this type of spanking so that there is no bruising and so that I can lay there for a longer period of time as the pain slowly builds up?

Bruising is a moment to moment situation..What feels good this minute may end up bruising you the next. As El Jefe pointed out, talk to the top and discuss what you want before the spanking begins. But remember, there may be bruising anyway.

The man I am seeing right now told me a book does a good job for spanking without the bruising. A hand will always bruise especially because most of the time I get more than one spanking at a session. Use the book idea and tell us how it worked for you.

Try a ping-pong paddle or a riding crop. I have had good results with both.

Doctorgene ir right, try a ping-pong paddle. 😉

I had a friend who like to be caned on the tops of his legs, immediately below the buttocks. This used to bruise like hell, but it is what he wanted. He claimed he didnt get enought stimulation if the buttocks alone were caned.

Ping-pong paddle good stuff

Hi folks, a heavy Latigo leather Tawse will sting like wildfire with even light strokes. Leather will take a much longer time to bruise the flesh. If it's stinging you want then I suggest exploring leather implements.

My treat bag is loaded with variety. And even the same person on a different day may react differently to the same toy that day than the last time. So as a Top is it good to have a well equipped toy box.

Thanks for sharing the info on the book. I bruise if I bump into a counter so it's hard to hide intentional bruises.

The ping pong paddle or a large smooth plastic spatula will give a good sting and minimal marks.

A sail batten from your local West Marine store is very good. The come in different widths and thicknesses. It's a good idea to sand the edges smooth before use.

I use a variety of leather straps of different lengths and widths. They stripe up nice but rarely bruise and do a world of stinging. I like the 2" wide one the best but the 3 and 4 have their places as well. And the narrow leather tipped crop is always fun for striking those very special hard to reach places as well.

Bruising can be lessened by generous doses of Vitamins C and D. Be careful with D, as it can be taken to excess. Vitamin C is hard to get too much of, as the excess is simply excreted.

I know that after sitting in the hot tub and then being paddled, the stinging was tremendously intensified, I'm guessing this was probably due to the blood circulating at the skin surface. Just my experience.

Ping pong paddles work very effectively

Hand or hairbrush

I usually start with my hand over her panties while over my knees, then panties down and the hairbrush. I want to see an even glow across her bottom cheeks. The last few spanks are on her sit spot right at the crease where her bottom meets her upper thighs. Lots of sniffling and crying for my 40 year old Missy

A good warm up hand spanking first always helps minimize bruising.

A lot of good ideas here. Soaking in a warm tub softens the skin and makes it more sensitive. A ping-pong paddle is an excellent too to get the bottom nice and pink and warm. Following the paddle, the bristle side of a nice stiff hair brush can be applied gently to the reddened area to produce massive stinging. Forceful swats are not needed or recommended. You do not want to break the skin, just set off as many pain receptors as possible. Expect that you will not be sitting comfortably for a few days.

I use a paddle made from a thin piece of plywood approx 1/4 inch thick, i can receive very hard and fast swats the sting very good and only leave marks after 50 or so to my bare bottom

The ping-pong paddle seems to work best for us as it provides a good sting over a large area. I enjoy hand spanking but for the misses she is receiving as much pain as she gives and she is a real wimp when it comes to pain.

We have found that a Lexan paddle (don't remember where we got it) produces what is a really screaming sting even when used fairly gently. Virtually no thud. It ought to be possible to make one from Lexan from a hardware store. Sand the edges round and prepare for something unforgettable!

I purchased a black silicone paddle that really stings and so far no bruises. Although it stings so much that I had to stop before any bruising could occur.

I agree that lexan creates a lot of stinging with very little bruising. Should work great for this application.

Nettles and a few injection needles. They are really the best 😉

I have found a belt works well, stinging is a definite effect, and the speed of the blow also matters; a swift strike stings more I find as giver and recever.

A belt needs a lot of practice to spank without bruising. It is easy to hit with an edge and make a mark. Looped leather straps with wooden handles are much easier to control.

According to some erotic literature (I first read about it in an old reprint of "The Pearl"), donning an old-fashioned panty girdle or open-bottom girdle before the spanking will minimize bruising. I haven't tried it, though...

Your domme may also like the idea of you wearing it!

If you want no bruising and extreme pain, spanking is not your best choice--electric current is. The Taliban knows it, the Nazis knew it. It works.

The et312b set on high with small electrodes on delicate areas, or my husband's favorite, the piezoelectric furnace lighter/sparker.

No tissue damage, EXTREME pain.

I purchased a black silicone paddle that really stings and so far no bruises. Although it stings so much that I had to stop before any bruising could occur.

A rubber strap would be similar. A very thin belt. A switch rod.

Try rubber... I have a "Turro Terror" paddle I bought years ago (like a Spencer but made of heavy rubber). Sting is like nothing else on the planet.