Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

For me it depends when it is done. My wife always gives me a hand job in the morning when we wake up because it is quick when we are in a rush. In the evening or at weekends it is always a blow job. She normally starts by sucking my balls into her mouth and really stimulates them by rolling them around with her tongue, and then proceeds to my cock. When giving me a blowjob she never uses her hands, By licking around the rim of the head, she can drive me crazy. If she wants she can bring me to an ejaculation in a minute or two, or keep me on the brink for 15 minutes. She enjoys sucking cock, and very often to be able to delay ejaculation I fuck her first, and she then follows with the blow job.

My chioce is always good blowjob. If it done with a experienced girl/lady, it will be heaven for me.

They are both great, but I prefer having a blow job. She can play with my balls, I can watch her, and sometimes a finger in my butt always make me orgasm.

Bj mostly but I have received few heavenly hand jobs that

Was 100% better than Bj

Actually never felt really comfortable with either and have always preferred being on the giving end - with women and translating "blow job" to mean "oral."

I prefer handjobs and blowjobs to fucking. also some of the biggest orgasms have been wanking myself.

Often, guys receiving a blowjob near to cumming grab their cocks and finish themselves.

Both are great, but if I had to pick one over the other it would have to be a hand job. Something really sensual about watching my dick being rubbed by my other half and seeing the cum spraying all over my chest as I orgasm and even getting towards my neck if I'm really turned on. She then licks it off with her tongue and it's fantastic being cleaned up that way. 😃

Whilst I love having my dick sucked on, a hand job beats it - just!

I'd like either... But what I love is getting a hand job through my pyjamas and making my mess inside.

Guess it goes with my abdl thinking.

Weird, huh?

Winning edge to hand jobs. Like others have said I won't turn down either. But it can be situational. Spontaneous in a car or theater or somewhere you might get caught: blow job. On a massage table after the flip: hand job definitely especially when gazing into the pretty eyes of a skilled masseuse. Also depends on skill. Some women just can't give good head due to mouth size, distaste for the act, aversion to swallowing, gag prone etc. But hand jobs always deliver, and some if not most gals like watching you spurt, bonus!

My girlfriend was always ready to give a handjob, but I really had to coax her into her first oral sex. And moreover, I was not her first boyfriend, nor was she a virgin, but I the first she had oral sex with ...

I really prefer a hand ... you can kiss and she can encourage you, tease you, and delight you.

I prefer a blow job however I rarely request it actually, but I do find it highly erotic.... With that said I have actually turned down blw job offers before

I'll take a hand job every time.

Yea, it really depends. I had the best blow job from a hooker, she knew how to get the job done....... That said, I have had some some great hand jobs by strong men (what a grip). My favorite is when I have panties wrapped around my cock and someone jacks me off using the panties mmmmmmm

I like both. What really matters is skill and most of all ENTHUSIASM!

Either one. Just depends on the mood

I prefer a good handjob. The challenge here is to find a woman who is willing to learn how to please.

I like either and some girls are better at one over the other. A good blow job is heavenly if the girl is good at it. The same girl can be no use at blow jobs but give a good hand job. It's fun to find out how good a girl is at both. I'm with a girl now who is good at both but if I had to choose I'd get her to give me a blow job.

Blowjobs. Every girl I've met seems to intuitively know how to give one, even those that never have before.

Personally, I prefer to give blowjobs, partly because I know they feel better and partly because I feel more submissive doing it - I swallow, as you can probably guess.

Definitely blowjobs. My wife was the my first for everything. We started off with blowjobs and it was easy for me orgasm. After we got married and started having a vaginal intercourse the feeling of it is much more stimulating than a blowjob so now that my wife wants to give me a blowjob every once in a while I can't orgasm because it's not that as intense feeling. Hard to explain.

I love both if accompanied by a finger or toy in my ass rubbing my prostate. If no finger or toy, then blowjob is best for me. 😃

Aw geeze, do I have to choose?

A blow job for sure. I can give myself a hand job!

This is a hard one to answer (no pun intended). I love to suck cock and to have my cock sucked. This though is an activity I will not do with a stranger. I have several good friends, even one from my high school days that get together and give and receive head. We are all married and monogamous so there is little danger of STD. A hand job on the other hand (no pun intended) and mutual masturbation is a very nice activity indeed, completely safe and when done by another man who also owns a penis a thing that really feels good. If I had to choose one, it would be a good blow job from my old high school friend Bobby - he knows my dick as good as my wife does.

A blow job, hands down. (Pun intended) Nobody's hand, mine included, can give me the same pleasure as my wife's lips, tongue and mouth have. I especially like a slow, deliberate, encircling of the head with her tongue.

I'm going "to split hairs." I enjoy a blowjob as foreplay. But then to climb the last few yards to the top of the mountain and to reach the promised land, I enjoy experienced hands, one working the shaft and head and one fingering my ass and massaging my prostate.

Start with a blowie but when it starts to get close I like her to pull off and finish with the hand.

I honestly won't complain either way though.

But if I had to choose one? A woman recently that I'll never see again damnit lol, sat between my legs with me on my back. She positioned herself so that she could give a hand job with her feet in my face lol. I loved it

Hand job is great!

I have absolutely zero interest in blow jobs..... and it is a constant frustration to have to fast forward that dull boring part in every single porn video ever made!

my quote of the century regarding the blow job; "wrong end dude"

"wrong end dude"

You might say "are you sure?" i would say "yea, I'm pretty damn sure that's the wrong end, if you don't believe me, here is a biology book for you"

"wrong end dude"

I love both (why do we have to choose?), but I would say that if we're in for a marathon session - I feel a lot more control with a handjob. In terms of edging and wondering fingers, a blowjob would be the winner, for me!

It depends on the skill and the enthusiasm of the partner providing the pleasuring. While a blow job is highly stimulating and provides a very visual image a hand job done skillfully allows for prolonged arousal and verbal teasing as the orgasm can be denied or granted at will. Now a combination of both...well that's a whole different story!