Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

Blow then hand. If solo, hand of course, never had the flexibility to complete a self blow job although I tried many times when I was a lot younger Had I been able I probably won't have left the house for days

A blow job because of the intensity of the orgasm, plus it's something quite special because we cannot give it to ourselves, while a hand job is quite easy to reproduce.

Handjob.

I've never been that into a blow job. I really love when a woman is in total control of my orgasm. So a hand job with anal play is the best in my book...Might even like it tied up

I've never been that into a blow job. a hand job with anal play is the best in my book

I have had a number of hand jobs done by a woman following having her insert a butt plug in my anus. She manipulates the plug, alternating with playing with my balls, while beating my meat. She remains fully clothed.

I met a Brazilian shemale pornstar Escort last week. We spent most of the time 69'ing . Fantastic but as we both got close we ended up wanking each other without planning it !

I enjoy a good BJ, but I like my wife's hand(s) better for three reasons:

1. We both love to watch me cum. When I explode spectacularly, she squeals and giggles with delight, especially when I squirt all over her or myself. She often likes to do a verbal instant replay. "You suddenly got really hard, I could feel a quivering in the base of your penis, and I knew you were starting to cum. Your first pulse was just a little squirt that only went an inch. Your second pulse was big and hit your chest. I pulled you toward me on your third pulse, and you hit my ..."

2. She can actually cum herself just from giving me a hand job. When I'm getting close, she almost always starts moaning with her own pleasure like she's getting into my head and feeling exactly what I'm feeling. If rub her clit when she's moaning, she almost always cums, usually repeatedly. It's fun to give each other simultaneous hand jobs.

3. When I want to fuck and I can't get her in the mood, she'll sometimes say, "Let me play with you." I love those words. I've never turned her down. When her hands have put me into a state of ecstasy and she's moaning in pleasure along with me, she's usually ready to fuck if I want to, and we usually do. Every now and then she'll get hot that way and want to fuck, but I'll just want to lay back and have her finish the hand job. This sometimes makes her jump on top of me, straddle me with her legs, pull me inside of herself, and hump me like crazy. I don't mind a bit. Those interrupted hand jobs are the best.

When given the choice between a handjob or a blowjob, I'd pick a hand-job.

I've had both, and just prefer manual stimulation more 😃

I like both a hand job or a blow job. I never ask either but leave it upto my partner as which she wants to to.

Both! But I would choose a hand job while sucking her breast!!!!!

This one is simple to answer, I prefer blow jobs for the simple reason I can give myself a hand job any time. I can't bend my back and suck my cock.

Prefer a blowjob myself. Hard to beat(no pun intended) a nice soft pair of lips.

Best of both worlds - a blowjob finished off with the metacarpus. For me, it's more intense that way.

Plus my wife doen't like the taste. Maybe if I ate more pineapple? 😉

Blow jobs for foreplay. Other than when I was very young, orgasming from a blow job was difficult for me. Hand jobs (Hmm, baby oil) were excruciatingly sensuous and always resulted a fine mess. Those are some fine memories!

Never had a good BJ but loved the hand jobs my girl gave me so I think it has to be a hand job.

I enjoy both, especially if the girl is taking my rectal temperature at the same time.

I enjoy getting a blowjob more then a hand job !! Just getting someone’s lips wrapped around my cock awesome feeling !!!

I like both, i find it hard to cum with a blow job as much as i love them.

Definitely enjoy a hand job more than a blow job! I do enjoy incorporating oral sex into sex play, but enjoy giving much more than receiving. I have only cum twice in my life from a blow job....once from a guy and another time by a woman.

I'll take the hand job. I say this simply because I have had the most satisfying hand jobs from every woman I have been with. Nothing beats getting a nice warm hand job while going down on a woman at the same time. As she gets closer to her orgasm and begins to writhe and moan, I can't hold back and come in her hand! my goal is to have us both finish at the same time or very close. Full disclosure, I haven't had too many blow jobs and the ones I did have were not too good. It seems the women I have been with, just didn't know how to give a good BJ. They all could give an incredible hand job!! This is just my experience with both situations.

It amazes me that some men on here can't cum while being given a blowjob, I guess it is psychological and they are worried about ejaculating in the woman's mouth?

Personally I enjoy both. The sensation while being given a blowjob is much more intense and for me I will reach climax quickly. But the hand job is slower and the sensations gradually build and I particularly enjoy the woman watching while I ejaculate...

I'll take a blowjob over a hand job any day. The old gf gave GREAT ones and used to tell me she needed her protein shake. 😜 LOL 😄

Hand job better be told to many times by women

Don’t cum in my mouth

Get very self conscious then it’s no fun

Reading through this entire thread, I'm surprised at the results! Some good reasons for both sides; I thought there would be a landslide victory for the BJ. Personally, that's the way I lean, because it feels more intimate, the sensations are stronger, and the environment of a mouth is closer to that of a pussy. Furthermore, I can give myself a satisfactory handjob while I can't blow myself.

With the partners I've had, their BJ's have been higher in quality than their HJ's, by far.

Back in my active days, mutual fondling with the guy I was with gave an unmatchable sensation.

But orally, if my partner was uncut, I always made it a point to concentrate on his frenum....lots of moans and a quick climax! He'd usually be sure to treat me in kind, even though I was cut.

When very young , My girl friend who lived with me would use "me" as if I was a pacifier . When in bed she would hold me/it in her mouth sometimes lightly "chewing " on me . Hard or soft , it didn't matter . Although it seamed she liked me soft most often but if I "firmed" up she would suck me off but not let go and still kept me in her mouth sometimes until she fell asleep . Then again My late wife almost commanded that she could hold , touch , play with , or just have her hand on me if we were not doing or engaged in anything else . It was a comfort thing for her . Like me getting up from my chair to get something to drink she would reach out and run her hand over me as I passed her chair . It was almost like it was an unconcise thing , As she did so she surprised any visitor's with her actions . Most other men envied me . Some ladies were embarrassed when they saw that others were watching them watching us . { hay it was an ego thing}

Sadly there was more then 50 years between the two . I didn't just go from one to the other . {damnit} After all these years I miss that kind of comfort .

When very young , My girl friend who lived with me would use "me" as if I was a pacifier . When in bed she would hold me/it in her mouth sometimes lightly "chewing " on me . Hard or soft , it didn't matter . Although it seamed she liked me soft most often but if I "firmed" up she would suck me off but not let go and still kept me in her mouth sometimes until she fell asleep .

What a nice description. Must have been pleasant for both to fall asleep in that manner.

But I do have a practical question, and this is important to figure out considering the cold climate I live in: how did your blanket/duvet/covering fit in? Did you gf fall asleep under the blankets? Or did you sleep uncovered from the waist up?

@agracier

We lived in Yuma Arizona at the time . You could , and we did fry eggs on the side walk in the summer . In the winter we slept nude mostly . Wasn't unusual to go swimming in the Colorado River for Christmas . clothes , when out , wasn't much ,,,,, If at all ....... Us teen's {good god that was long ago} had all sorts of places , river , sand dunes , dune buggy trips , dirt bike rides , off road mountain buggy trips , Glamis sand dune party's , All or most overnight trips . Mostly excuse's to shed clothes and party down with who or what ever . Our favorite game was for a couple with a 4x4 to take all the beer , and take off to get lost , Every one had C.B. radios , You would call out over the radio "rabbit , rabbit" , they would answer and you look at the S.W.R. meter on you're radio to judge how close you were to them , driving on until you found them ,,,,,, AND THE BEER....... Now that was a party .

If it's without a condom, I prefer a bj - especially if it is a deepthroat bj. If a condom is required, I'd rather have a handjob.

We lived in Yuma Arizona at the time . You could , and we did fry eggs on the side walk in the summer . In the winter we slept nude mostly . Wasn't unusual to go swimming in the Colorado River for Christmas . clothes , when out , wasn't much ,,,,, If at all .......

I feel I have wasted my life living in a cold climate ... missed out on so much pure physical pleasure due to not always being able to feel warm enough ... being warm enough almost never happens here ... 😢