Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

I love both of them. Ideally, getting a blow job/hand job combo is ideal.

My wife does not 'deep throat' so the 'blowing' part is sucking the glans with lips and tongue. This stimulation is usually insufficient to bring me to orgasm, but lubricates well my glans for masturbation. So the alternates sucking and the hand.

EQueen: The first handjobs I received were terrible: inexperienced young women that rubbed thr glans very harshly or did not pay attention to their fingernails (ouch). I suspect I was equally awkward with their genitals.

Also we do anal stimulation during HJ/BJ. BJ just needs a little washing of the penis, external anal stimulation just needs a little washing as well, but rectal stimulation needs a glove lubrication and probably a little enema before. More complicated.

I prefer a blow job to intercourse, especially if by someone who's good at it. Even though I enjoy masseuses giving me happy endings, I give myself the best hand jobs because I can control the grip and the stroke speed just right to suit what my cock feels it needs to maintain stimulation. But it does not compare to a blow job, unless I start to feel the woman's teeth

A blowjob for sure, but it's best while touching my balls and the are between them and my anus. Love it!

In my experience a great blow job has always included the deft use of hands at points along the way. So I want to say both in combination.

I really enjoy the eroticism and surrender of a blow job and love to come in her mouth, but 9 times out of 10 I finish in hand (hers or mine) or in her pussy, and that's fine too.

If I were pressed into choosing only oral or only manual for the rest of my life I dread the choice. I'm finding it hard to believe as I type it but I would have to say hand job. I know I always blast off that way, and there is a lot of room for creativity. Perhaps there is someone out there that could pleasure me better orally all the time, but I've yet to meet them and really don't suppose I ever will.

A little OT, but I love a good tittie fuck. That is of course closer to a hand job and often is more like me jacking off with her fleshy boobs and arroused nipples. We both enjoy the resulting pearl necklace. Whereas she doesn't hate experiencing my semen in her mouth whether she spits or swallows, she obviously enjoys rubbing my come into the skin of her breasts much more when I lay it there.

I guess I prefer handjobs, especially if they turn out to be mutual. There's no decision to be made as to swallowing, and it's probably safer from a health standpoint that oral sex.

I'm a blowjob guy, but a little hand action worked in there is good, too.

BJ by far - the build up to the O is much more intense for me than a HJ. I give myself handjobs all the time (LOL) but would suck my dick if I could!

I like the two together. The stimulation of the glans alone is not enough to make me have an orgasm but when combined with the pressure of the shaft of manual stimulation it works. If I had to choose just one it would just be a hand job.

I prefer a BJ warm wet mouth feels better

Hand job - I like to see myself cum

A combo is always nice; being licked & sucked while a slick finger is spreading & playing with my sphincter 😃

If i had to choose I would prefer to be wanked off, there is something very erotic about a woman taking a mans penis in her hands and watching it as she stimulates it to squirting

When I was younger I loved both now I have found that if the other person doesn't know just how I like it I get board even if it does feel good and I really want to be with them I lose my hard on and feel let down .

I'd rather have a hand job by a woman. I enjoy watching her looking at and stroking my cock as she has control of it in her hand. I also prefer a hand job because she can apply more pressure and tighten her grip on it as I get close to orgasm.

My wife is excellent at both, so I'm quite happy whatever she does. She has several styles of both hand job and blowjob that she can choose to apply for variety, and a blowjob can be a combination of both blowjob and handjob in different ways.

I think for me the blow job wins out, but i love both equally when done with a prostate massage at the same time, absolutely the best way to cum, ever.

Totally a blow job especially if the guy swallows

I'd like a lady to try both on me, then I'll tell her which I prefer.

Nothing beats a good blow job. I have had blow jobs better than intercourse.

I refuse to pick one - they have such different charms. A skilled hand job can give some of the most intense orgasms possible, especially when combined with prostate play. Watching it happen, seeing the partner's face, and having him/her respond to all the involuntary responses to building pleasure, and finally a vigorous finish that continues just to the point where pleasure turns to pain - what could be better? Maybe the intimacy of oral, feeling the tongue's caresses, the massage in the back of the throat, struggling not to move and let him/her control the intensity and the pace, or gently fucking the face, being taken and received at orgasm instead of just squirting into space, and swapping cum and swallowing together. As many others have already posted, active hands - fondling the balls, massaging the prostate, caressing the shaft while the mouth works the glans makes it a very close second to the total handjob when it comes to intensity. The intimacy and bonding that oral love can give make it a deeper experience, and more enriching, but the skilled hand job is unsurpassed for sensation overload. I won't give up either one!

My wife loves to give me a handjob. But I love her blowjobs. The orgasm is very different because it doesn't involve gripping and thrusting. It builds in a different way and when it finally happens, I feel the orgasm throughout my body and it leaves me light-headed. I've been having handjobs since I was a boy, so they aren't so special, but my wife is very turned on when she has my hand around my cock and makes me ejaculate. She has fantasies about having a penis, so giving me a handjob is her way of connecting with my body.

I prefer blow job, but it has to be with a girl that knows how to do it. Why?It makes me cum a lot.

I have to give the edge to a good blowjob...., the ability to apply suction just intensifies the build-up to orgasm. It also results in less "wear and tear" on the penile skin as saliva provides natural lubrication to cut down on chaffing.

Hand job, i like watching my partner rubbing my cock and seeing her face when i cum, mmmm

Both equally, I love blowjobs, but if it's few a day, after the second day I feel my penis too sensitive, so I want handjob after that (to relax it a bit), than again. My ideal way is one time blowjob, one time handjob, with the handjob I love how far a spray my cum 😃

How do you pick just one. If I have to pick it would be a blowjob they are the best with a girl that knows how to give a good one will make me cum in a hurry.

The best blow job is about 40% hand job. The best hand job is about 20% blow job.

The best blow job is about 40% hand job. The best hand job is about 20% blow job.

Can't you be any more precise? 😁

Both are wonderful, of course, but if I had to choose I would go for a good handjob. The primary reason for choosing the handjob is that the giver can talk and provide verbal, as well as manual, stimulation. I love for the giver to create erotic mental images, by indulging me in a favorite fantasy, or just talking dirty, while she jacks me off. Even though she can theoretically do the same thing while sucking me, as a practical matter, I think the giver can do a better job of stimulating my balls and anus and, even, prostate while giving me a handjob. Done well, handjobs are among the most powerful, satisfying orgasms I ever have. In fact, I could use one right now!