Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

I kind of like the hand job myself.

Blow job anytime! Its all about me and my pleasure.

Oh man..... this is a tough choice. Gotta go with blow job. Women, at least the ones I have been with, can't seem to get the right rhythm or proper pace in my experience. BJ just barely "edges" 😃 out handjob.

I think that women should pay attention to how a man pleasures himself or ask the man in their life to show them how they like to have it done. If women don't get feedback from you guys, more than likely we will always get it wrong because every man likes it differently. I love giving hand jobs or blowjobs, but I always expected input from my partner if I was not getting him to his happy place. I also read up, years ago, on how to give a blow job. Let's face it, none of us come with the built in knowledge on how to do these things well. We have to be taught how each individual man likes to have it done for him.

I recently found with the hubby that he likes me to sit between his thighs and lube both hands. I then wrap both hands around his cock and lace my fingers together on the side closest to his abdomen. I then tighten my grip and place both thumbs side by side so they rub the frenulum on the head. With good lube and this hand position, due to the constant, fast stimulation of the frenulum, he will come in a short time and his orgasm is much more intense. It only took me 11 years to find that this was a sure way to get him to a happy place. Of course, I am not totally sure that he knew how he would react to this when I did it. He had a bit of a look of surprise on his face when he exploded. I personally loved every moment of it, but then again, I am a perv.. 😉

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I much prefer a hand job. There is much more versatility available.

Most men, in my experience, give better hand jobs because they understand the sensations more intimately. There are plenty of women who are great and the emotional connection more than makes up for technical issues.

The best hand job I ever had was from a woman with whom I had a relationship AND she took the time to watch me masturbate, tried to base her technique on that AND set her ego aside to take suggestions.

We practiced the same thing with her. It was hot!

Hand job, with practice and feedback.

Got to go with a blow job. Nothing beats a nice warm mouth around me. Tho as much as I enjoy them it is very hard for me to get to the promised land. Usually need to switch to a hand job to get me off.

I enjoy a hand job better, and one while the giver has on latex gloves.

I gonna go with the blow job

Tough to decide. The hand seems to be the more foolproof method, but a well executed blow job trumps all. I must say th BJ.

I have found a time and place for both. When the time is right and they are well executed, I can't say that one is better than the other.

Whilst each will get me there, and both feel totally different, I would lean towards a hand job.

Generally a good hand-job with lotion. Surprisingly, I've only experienced a couple gals who were really good at BJ's who could bring me to climax. The rest just seemed to lack the nack, so to speak. Not sure why, but that's been my personal experience in years past. But I'm not selfish when it comes to oral.....I like giving as much as I enjoy getting.

I like both, however I have never been able to cum from a blow job....

It all depends on the partner. Blowies are the best in my opinion ,yes its harder to cum but there's nothing wrong with prolonging blowing your load and the heat from the mouth is like the pussy, but in saying that I've had great blow jobs and discraceful ones(attempts). In my experience women normally grab it and go to hard and fast and momma always told me if you want something done right your probably better off doing it yourself lol.

The only thing that can make a blow job bad is teeth.

Several things can make a hand job bad, including excess pressure, insufficient pressure, rushing, inattention, excess lotion, fingernails, and many other things.

But with all of that said, either are generally pretty good. It's a bit harder to cum from a blow job, but only a bit. And both can be enhanced with anal penetration, ball fondling, vibrators and many other creative ideas. Most important is an attentive partner who really wants me to enjoy it. And my current subbie does a wonderful combo that somehow she makes a bit different every time.

A blow job is best for me assumming the giver knows what they are doing. I think they need to enjoy giving head in order to do a good job. Hand jobs are good too, especially if a warm lotion is used. And of course anal penetration during either takes it up a notch.

A blow job is best for me assumming the giver knows what they are doing. I think they need to enjoy giving head in order to do a good job. Hand jobs are good too, especially if a warm lotion is used. And of course anal penetration during either takes it up a notch.

Wait - anal penetration DURING a hand- or blow-job? Draw me a picture, please.

Hand job

Boy, that is a tough question. Both are really great. And more often than not I wind up with a mixture of the two anyway. It is pretty rare to just get a handjob with no mouth or to get just a blow job with no hands. Or are you defining the kind of job by where your cock is when it goes off? Even in their pure state, I find both enjoyable, though I have to say I think giving a really good handjob is somewhat of a lost art. I also think that a so so blowjob is better than a so so handjob.

A handjob is much better. A girl can put her thumb and forefinger around my head and catch it on just the right spot.

I like blowjob better it feels great and I love the suction feeling it has on my dick. Every woman gives head differently and some are better at it then others. My ex girlfriend was not very good at blowjobs because she didnt really like doing them and didnt put any enthuasium in to it. However she was excellent with her hands and could give the best handjobs. But I do prefer blowjobs especially if the woman is talented and put some effort and enthuasim into it.

Both are wonderful but a handjob always gets the job done whereas a blowjob may not. It seems everyone knows how to use their hands, but not always their mouths.

Blowie, more intense.

Handjob

For me a hand job, but that is probably because I have never gotten off with a blow job. This is probably because my wife is not good at blow jobs. Nothing wrong with good old vaginal sex, however.

Bill

Hand job from a girl; blow job from a guy.

Personally I prefer a hand job but I guess the preference is based on personal experiences and who was giving the hand job or blow job. My partner has provided both and she is just so much more in control with her hands and knows key moments to apply pressure or ease pressure and what spots to hit. Blow jobs were definitely not as pleasurable because she didn't seem to have the same amount of control. The hand jobs are normally carried out with lotion but I've had some very pleasurable experiences where she's taken my clock in her mouth to get it wet and then used her hands to finish me off.

The only thing better than a blow job is...........two blows jobs!!! So I think you know my answer.

I like a handjob until I am at the edge and then a blowjob to completion with the cocksucker swallowing the semen. What I am writing about here are not romantic encounters where mutual affection is involved, but, rather, encounters during which I am receiving service from an obedient and eager worshiper who wants to serve and be given orders. I like the visual stimulation of seeing my penis being serviced in his hands. Seeing the scrotum fondled, the testicles felt, massaged, and stimulated, the entire penis displayed, shaft head and meatus stroked, fondled, and explored. I like some oral work mixed in at my command to vary the degree and type of stimulation, but primarily stroking by hand of the penis. I also enjoy nipple and anal stimulation during the handjob. When I am ready to ejaculate, I want to just lightly push the cocksuckers head down toward the head of my penis and watch him take it down and bob his head a couple of times while I pump a few good squirts down his throat.