Guys: Which do you like: A hand job or a blow job (pick one) and why?

Blowjob takes the cake, hands down!

While I would never turn down to either one, I really love a nice slow, very slick hand job. Nothing builds a slow orgasm as well. Of course, a blow job as its good points as well.

Handjob, as much as I enjoy blowjobs, its nearly impossible for me to orgasm from oral sex. Not sure why that is *shrug*

Like both, but the hand job done slowly and massaging underneath my balls is an all time favorite

Handjob all the way. The SO is magnificently talented at them, and loves to keep me edging. Add anal and prostate play and it is beyond compare. Being stretched and stroked so close to cumming is just mind blowing. And then the post orgasm stimulation of the super sensitive glans. Wow.

Nothing wrong wih BJs, but they just don't offer the same sensation as someone who has mastered the other.

A blow job with a finger up my ass will make me cum.

Blow job

A hand job most of the time. It is best on the stairs so she can slide a finger of her free hand in my butt to massage my prostate. If a lady has nice full lips though a blowjob is a close second!

Wow what a tough question.

I guess I would give the blowjob a slight edge but only slightly. But the way to really double the pleasure of a handjob or blowjob is the finger(s) up my ass during either one. The most sure fire way for a huge orgasm.

Either, so long as she is relaxed and comfortable with it and enjoys it. Even better if she likes to provide anal stimulation as well.

I have done my own hand job for years. However my wife does a blowjob that blows my mind. after sucking and licking me to get aroused she starts massaging my balls and blows my mind, Wow!

A blow job with a couple fingers massaging my prostate will make me explode!

The variety of stimulation during a blow job just beats the heck out anything I've experienced with a hand job.

Tough call to make as both have their merits.

Hand jobs are easier to give and can be pulled off (so to speak) in more situations. BJs feel better but depending on the partner can lead to an awkward finish.

All considered I'd have to go with BJ as my preferences to receive. In short I can give myself a handjob but giving myself a BJ is something I've not yet mastered.

I haven't got many blowjobs lately, side affect of being separated/divorced, but I used to back in the days we where together. She used to give me a combination of the two, and that was a great joy. Stroke with her hand and her mouth on the top, she never did deep troath, but it was still nice.

So the big Q was which one of the two... I will say a hand job. When the strokes are controlled in motion and timed right it calls for a great climax, also the view I will have greatly adds to the pleasure.

I prefer a hand job. This may well be my wife does not know how to do a blow job.

Bill

There are things that can be done with 10 fingers on 2 hands that just can't be duplicated with 2 lips and a tongue. True, the level of intimacy is greater with a blow job, but the variations available in a hand job just can't be beat (off).

I wouldn't want to live without one or the other.

I've never had a blow job in the true sense - my wife of 33 years has put her mouth on my cock only a few times - and then only briefly.

She has turned cold to intimacy and we only have intercourse once a month (or longer). To compensate, she will give me a hand job once in a while using baby oil - but even those are usually pretty routine and uninspired. This did lead me to developing a bit of a hand job fetish. If I want to view porn to get aroused by - hand jobs are usually the ones that end up doing the trick. And since I can give myself hand jobs it works out well that they have become my preferred method of getting off.

I'm sure if I ever got a good blow job I might change my tune. From what I can tell, a decent mix of hand and really wet oral (along with some anal play) would be the perfect way to go.

A kiss is so much more intimate than a handshake. Definitely a blow job

Definitely a hand job. She can use the other hand on my sphincter all she wants also.

My preference is a blowjob when she swallows.

To me, a warm, wet set of lips doing a BJ is much better then a hand job. Why, it just hits the spots better and maybe because it's not often that I get them !!

I prefer a blow job although, I will not complain (to much) if it is a hand job

The way I see it, a crucial part of being attracted to someone is that I want to "get in her pants." And the thing about that is, "getting in her pants" could mean fucking/lovemaking, or going down on her, or fingering her. Whatever floats her boat and gets her off the most is what will be the truest sense of "getting in her pants."

If she gives me a hand job or a blow job, this is just her getting in my pants, not me getting in hers. So as for hand jobs and blow jobs, I could take them or leave them and they might as well be masturbation.

Of course, these are just a few of my own personal feelings and need not apply to anyone else.

I love both if accompanied by a finger or toy in my ass rubbing my prostate. If no finger or toy, then blowjob is best for me.

Neither - there is nothing like a hot face fuck. Gently pressing in deeper and deeper till gagging occurs with the lovely production of lots of warm saliva. Fucking in and out in the warm vault with some gagging adding excitement. Heaven. Like vaginal? Sure but the gagging and the submission make it hotter for both parties IMO.Clearly a safe word would be a good idea here so I tell the lady that slapping or banging my leg will be her safe word. I think the only downside here is that I always must remain aware because minor gagging could go south real fast. FWIW I do know how to do do CPR which includes artificial respiration, and happily I have never had to use that ability.

I would say handjob because a blowjob seems kinda gross, plus the noise that you hear when a girl is sucking back and forth is a turn off for me. I can't even watch a blowjob porno. PLus a girls smooth hand or even a glove feels amazing. But I have only had a few blowjobs so I have less experience, maybe someone will change my opinion on it.

Different strokes for different folks, I guess. Both are nice if done correctly, For me I feel a hand job is better, I like it if it is done slowly, it is not a race to see how fast you can make me come. Be gentle, use both hands and a lubricated finger up the bottom is the best. The longer it last the better the orgasm and please don't squeeze as it happens and stay low when it happens...

At the end of the day, I'm happy I'm getting something! Given the choice, blowjob hands down.

I will prefer a blow job but it can also be combined with a hand job - if I may say it in this way