Do enemas make me gay??

My wife was disabled by a stroke. She can no longer help. Due to my arthritis, I need help with my enemas. As a Professional Engineer, I do not see it as a gay or straight thing. Men appear to outnumber ladies in the enema community about 99 to 1. I will take an enema from a man if offered.

I would perfer that it be a married straight man to avoid any complication. I looking for an enema, not a lover.

Pear Bottom

If a married couple is able to give to each other (even if it is playful), they are helping nature. It is amazing how a simple physical can be so confusing to so many people. I remember a comment from Mark Twain, "If you want a moving experience, take an enema."

Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?

Of course not! Why would anyone even think that. It would only be considired gay if it were part of a gay relationship.

Like somebody else said it is neigther gay nor straight. A fetish is a fetish. I as a guy like the feel of the nozzle in my anus. It presses the prostate and that feels good. Hey, head down butt up what difference does it make.

No it is not gay to enjoy an enema. I know both gay and non-gay who enjoy enemas,anal play and prostate massage. 😮

Men appear to outnumber ladies in the enema community about 99 to 1.

This seems to be the case for just about every fetish, sadly...

Hell no enema fetish isnot gay, what makes u gay is to suck on a man's dick other wise u not gay, all the men have a prostate and all of them would love a prostate massage from an enema or a nice girl, at least that what i like ,

No, of course not. We all do it for a range of reasons.

Just because a guy enjoys Enemas, that doesn't make him gay. Myself, I am gay, and only enjoy solo or Man2Man Enemas. However, I have an older friend who is in his 60's, been married for years, grown children and grand children. He is married to a nurse, who is just totally "death" on the idea of anyone taking an Enema for any reason, and certainly not for pleasure, though she knows he does. He has been asked to leave a couple of irrigationists offices simply because he became semi-erect during the procedure. He certainly didn't want to have sex with the irrigationist, it was just a normal reflex. Partly because of this humiliation, he comes to me for Enemas when he needs a good deep cleaning out. He knows I enjoy giving them, I know he enjoys getting them; and it is simply a case of a buddy helping a buddy. If he becomes erect or semi-erect, it is nothing to be embarrassed about, so he can relax and let the Enemas do a better job. I do not put "labels" on people, but do not even consider him as 'bi'. He is simply a Man who is not ashamed to admit he enjoys Enemas. There is no sex involved, we talk about farming, electrical, plumbing, whatever during a session.

Hope I haven't offended anyone on here, but it is just another view from both sides of the bag. New member here, and slowly working on reading every posting on here. So far, everyone seems to pretty much get along on here, which is great.

Dan

Hi ilffer,

I like your reply and detailed comment. While I'm not gay, I don't mind those who are, and it's nice to hear from all persuasions on this great site!! I would much prefer an enema from a female, but I would consider an enema from a friendly male, one that I could be confortable with.

Rolf,

Thank you for your nice comment. I'm new on here and still

trying to learn my way around the board.

Dan

Ain,t gay here

but i do have a pic with my enema nurse in ARK with her strap on in me

I am a gay man and I can assure you that I would never consider another man to be gay just because he liked enemas! In my experience even having sex with a man does not necessarily mean he is gay. There are a lot of men out there who are simply curious and may have one or two experiences. But then they go back to their regular hetero practices.

People are all over the sprctrum and I think it is very simplistic to try to cram everyone into one of only two slots!

So, get yourself a nice anal dildo and/or enema bag, or a girlfriend + dildo/enema bag, and have fun!!

What a great group of guys we have here - I for one am heartened by such sensible insight and advice.

Karma for you!

No I think not. I have fantisies about women giving me enemas. It hasn't happened yet since I was 14 and brought to a hospital where 2 young nurses gave me a couple with a metal jug and hose.

It's a weird concept not being gay, but being turned on by something going up your butt. i guess its something i will have to get used to. lol

I don't think anal erotic is necessarily gay. Ilffer and aer offer some good perspective here.

Gay or straight, male or female anal stimulation feels too good not to be explored!!!

😃

I am male and I would give or receive from a man. I am not gay... now hand me my purse

Hey, I can relate. Since I was a teenager I questioned if my arousal and curiosity about enemas and fingering myself meant I was gay or bi. If i get real with myself the label of "gay" or "bi" has more to do my fear of social acceptability, ego,identity, or something.

I don't know what the rush is to label myself, its not as if I figured it out, that i would have no more self-discovery left. When I think about it extensively, I come to the conclusion that I don't know, that's about as honest as I can get, I am not sure. What I do know is some things i've learned about myself, that I like being with the women i've been with so far, I like enemas, anal play, have had many fantasies about taboo things, try to be open to new experiences, etc, etc, there's more but that's the point and that i'll try to accept myself what ever I learn about myself. Label or no label, I will try to be true to myself

You are what you think you are, plain and simple. Others can label you but you are the one that has to feel good about who you are, regardless of preference. If you want to call yourself bi, gay, or straight, pick the one that YOU feel most comfortable and to hell with everyone else.

I'm male and I feel like I'm doing something unnatural. Please say it isn't so 😢 I have a fetish for enema, but I'm afraid to tell my lover. Cause I'm a male, and anything in the rear is considered gay? I'm straight! Is this bad? 😢

Its just different. Exploring new areas of the body and safe things you can do with the area is completely normal. Relax and have fun but go slowly and try an enema on your left side using warm water and maybe some castile soap. Remember that the enema can be erotic which is the most fun; needing it because of constipation is very rewarding in the end but you have a different frame of mind for a variety of reasons. Enjoy!

Haha, we do 'unnatural' stuff all the time 😉

Do you wear clothes?

Do you drive a car?

Did you ever fly?

Used condoms?

You probably don't mean 'unnatural' but more something like 'uncommon', 'weird', 'gay', etc, didn't you?

Its only the stigma that comes with enemas, people don't talk about them and they don't want anybody to know they are doing them.

your actually keeping your body healthier buy cleaning your colon and well the intimate part is a plus that comes with it so go on and enjoy 😁

No! It only means you are anal erotic.

I my self am not and will never really want to be with guys.

I think you are just thinking to much and that you should just enjoy it for awhile.

being gay is not a bad thing. and being gay means you look at guys in the way that I look at women so ask yourself this, do I check out men or women and you'll have the answer 😎

No, I love enemas and I'm not gay, You may or may not be gay and you may or may not like enemas but I don't think they have to go hand and hand,same as letting a girl play with your ass. She is FEMALE I am male. Being gay would mean I was attracted to other men, since I'm not.

Do whatever you like to me baby is what I say and I don't feel any gayer. I'm comfortable enough in my sexuality that even if I was gay I doubt I'd hide it.

To me gay means being attracted to other men so nope not gay. I love enemas and toys. Since I don't like other men I think I'm a straight guy.

I'd have to agree--there's a difference between anal erotic and gay-- I'm with you

I'm male and I'm a complete heterosexual,but I love enemas.

Listen, I had the same thoughts. My ex-wife even accused me of being gay(please, no offense to anyone). Trying as hard as I could to feel secure in my choosen sexuality, it hurt. But in your case, it's your lover, and I'd tell her. The sooner the better. Get it ironed out. This is still a huge nutshell of moral concern though, that needs to be cracked open! This wedsite is doing just that.

No you arent doing anythign unnatural I went through the same mind games. just enjoy who you are and the pleasures