Do enemas make me gay??

Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?

I wouldn't define the enema fetish as gay or straight. In fact, because of the various uses made of the enema I am not even sure I would call it a fetish. In the art deco period it seems it was more popular amongst women than men. Lately, it seems it attacks slightly more men then women, or at least those that will chat about it. The enema bag/bulb was ubiquitous during the childhoods of the 40's and 50's. All in all I would just call it a "Human Endeavor"

I've been highly aroused by the thought of enemas since the age of 6. In all the time growing up, I had lots of wicked fantasies, but a male figure never played a part in them - not even on the outer edge of the fantasy. It was always women.

As an adult my sexual fantasies - and they mainly center around enemas and clinical sex - have never included any other males 😎

It is most definitely NOT gay for a man to want his ass filled, be it with water or a dildo wielded by a woman or whatever. And it is highly erotic for us women that you guys like that.

My definition of gay is sexual attraction exclusively to the same sex as yourself.

I believe enemas to be very festive 😁 Here is a question, HmS... If you question enemas being gay, do you question masturbation to be gay too?

As a gay guy I don't think of enemas, masturbation, dildos, spanking or most other sexual activities/interests as "gay" or "straight." In fact it seems that people attracted to the opposite sex, those attracted to the same sex and those who may be bi are all aroused, depending on the individual, but a great variety of sexual paraphernalia and activities.

I agree that enemas are not by definition a "gay" activity. Sexual activity that is solo or between male and female can not be homosexual. More power to gay folks who enjoy enemas.

I am as straight as can be but, still like to have my butt played with. A prostate massage takes me to a different world!

I don,t beleive it is gay.I have been into enemas pretty much all my life.I think of it morewith giving my wife enemas and imagine giving other women them then i do men!I think if you grew up in the 50,s and 60,s you grew up with enemas and it just stayed part of your life.

Mat, if a person has fantasies about a person their own gender, but is in a passionate and loving hetero relationship without the desire to stray, they are automatically gay?

One more question... If you are having sex with your girlfriend/wife, and you fantasize about another woman, are you an adulterer?

Hmmmm.

I don't believe you can assign any practice as gay or hetero. It depends on who you are attracted to in relation to the practice. I have gay fantasies sometimes and might even someday experience gay sex, but I have never had a gay experience and I don't consider myself gay. I just like enemas as well as lots of other kinds of butt play either to myself or with my wife.

I don't think that any kind of sexual act makes you gay. Gender affiliation is what decides that issue

Jimbeaux

If enemas are festive-why don't we all get together and have a party?and no one can be a party "pooper"!lol!!!THE "END"

No, don't think that you can attach sexual orientation to enemas. Men enjoy enemas for the stimulation of the prostate and the pressure from the enema as it arouses erections.

We are too hung up on putting names on activities thet are enjoyable and natural. If it feels good why not enjoy it with out worring avout what others think. I'm Bi so enjoy the best of both sexual worlds and really don't care what you call it.

As a straight person myself, married with 5 grown children. I don't think I would say it is a gay thing. Most times the one's who make a statement like that are just scared and are looking for an excuse not to try.

Nah, i don't think is gay,

i mean if your girl friend poke her finger in and rub your prostate and made you cum.....still doesn't mean you're gay

I am developing an enema fetish and I also have a love of anal sex and I am not gay. I prefer women and though I might entertain the idea of being with a man if the situation were right, I still prefer women most. So to answer your question, I do not think that makes you gay, just open minded.

"Gay" is more a lifestyle than an action.

I am gay, and proud of it. I was born gay and have been this way all my life. I got weekly enemas from my mom till 15 but never thought of a woman giving to me.... only men. In this day and age I thought everyone KNEW gay is NOT a choice.

I'm straight and I still fantasize about a woman doing enema/anal play with me.Just a curious thing I guess.Don't know if it'll ever happen but it's sometimes fun to think about. :😃

My take on this is that the labels "straight"and "gay" are a drastic over-simplification.

Couple of cases in point from my own values. During hospitalization as a ten-year old, I received several Fleets from male nurses, with much resistance and little relief. I was then "initiated" by two middle-aged female nurses, who provided great relief by injecting a quart of mild soapsuds from the traditional metal "irrigating can", and who seemed to enjoy the process, although no overt sexual activity took place.

Since that time, I have always found a large, mild soapsuds enema to be a desirable prelude to a long, hot soak and a good night's rest, and upon those occasions when I indulge in a colonic, will only do so with a female therapist.

An example in the other direction:

I was raised in the 1960's when all-male swimming classes and groups at both YMCA's and some high schools and colleges were conducted in the nude. Having a minor spinal deformity since childhood, as mentioned above, I found this "locker room camaraderie" to be beneficial once the ages advanced enough to eliminate the "dumb-bullying" element common in Junior High. As I've mentioned in another thread, I take a very dim view of the "feminization" of the young American male by Politically Correct women out to deny their sons' sexuality.

But I have no desire whatsoever to engage in sex with a male of any age.

Sexual motivation is far too complex to define within a couple of "one size fits all" categories.

Is it gay? Hmm...

The way I see it, "to be gay" means that you are sexually attracted to that of the same sex AND it means that you wish to pursue a relationship with a member of the same sex.

"To be straight" is the same, but with those of the opposite sex.

"To be bisexual" means your just confused 😜

Bisexuality and actually being with both sexes implies a certain amount of polyamory ("multiple love"), and that's all an entirely different subject.

But, to answer the question "Does being a male and enjoying ass play make me gay?" the answer is a resounding "hell no". Dating, moving in with, and having sex with (and so on) another of the same sex makes you gay 😜

I don't think a practice Gay can be considered...I am for example an impassioned...but I am not Gay

Ditto, there is absolutely nothing gay about having a fetish for enemas, I mean absolutely nada... people into enemas come from all walks of life, both sexes, straights and gays 😎

It's only gay if you're taking an enema in preparation of some sweet butt lovin' from your boyfriend.

Both genders can enjoy anal stimulation. Lots of nerve fibers there, not to mention a fun little prostate gland in there to play with and entertain. Millions of men out there enjoy anal penetration and they're not gay. It just feels good to them. I'm glad to see men becoming more open-minded about anal pleasure. I've introduced several men who subscribed to the "exit only" notion and now they're firm believers in anal play. It's an intimate act that you share with someone you care about or at least with someone you want to fuck. It enhances the sexual experience and feels incredible, so just go with and have fun. Don't worry about social stigma or stereotypes. They have no place in the bedroom.

In my opinion, you're only gay if you are attracted to and have sex with people of your own gender.

I would say that "gay" or "straight" is not related to what you want to do but rather who you wish to do it with. Anyway, as kingkayaker so aptly puts it, who cares?

No, not for me

It's only gay if you're taking an enema in preparation of some sweet butt lovin' from your boyfriend.

Hmmm, help me do the math on this one... Does that make egirlky gay? 😁

Ooops. I didn't mean you in the general sense, but in the individual who first posted the question.

As far as me being gay, no, I love men far too much to ever give them up. But, a woman can be fun to play with every now and then.

I do not think it gay.....but i do think if sooooo intimate and soothing......