Do enemas make me gay??

I agree. I wish more men were more open to the idea of enemas and anal pleasure. It is so sensual to watch a man's sexuality explode and to see him reach plateaus he never expected. It rocks!

My advise would be not worry at all wondering if enemas are a gay activity. Enjoy them for great sex fun and good health. No need to pigeonhole your activities.

I don't know which I like more, LadyDi's post on the first page or egirlky's pic on the last. But no, I don't dig dudes but find a little anal stimulation from a woman to be very hot.

Its not gay, just honest.

It's pointless to try to put labels on our love of enemas. Straight, gay, bi -- who cares? Folks of all sexual orientations are anally erotic and love enemas.

My suggestion is, if you are anally erotic and/or love enemas, just lie back and enjoy. Don't worry about putting a name or category to it. It's fun. So enjoy it.

ldb

Is it gay to have enemas?

Not for me, definitely not.

It is one of the most arousing heterosexual practice when done with someone of the opposite sex.

It is one of the most arousing practice when I do it alone in order to masturbate and have a strong ejaculation

Short answer...No...it does not make you "gay" or "bi" (like me). I have been "bi" long before I tried enemas. Fact is although I've had sex with both men and women, I've only had enema-play with a woman, and it was fun. However if you have been to see Elton in concert several times, and enjoy his show as much as I do, then you are definitely bi and possibly gay.....😉

Mat, I totally agree with you. Until I discovered enema information on the internet a few years ago I also wondered if my private enjoyment of enemas outside my straight marriage meant that I had subconscious gay feelings. Your answer truly hits the issue head-on. Lancer

Whenever I take an enema, I think exclusively of women. My fantasies are with women only. Thinking about another guy just doesn't get into the picture. Not my thing!

I've wondered if it would be considered gay, just because it is us males being penetrated instead of a woman. Also, the anal stimulation could be considered gay by those that don't know any better. However, I can tell you that at least from my perspective, gay for me is nowhere in the picture.

If others want to think it's gay, hell, it doesn't take much for them to think that anyway, more than likely.

I remember seeing some 60 minutes show, or something, about gays, and these two women were being interviewed. You should have seen the sour looks on their faces when they explained the subject in question (a gay man) would take an enema before going out to cruise the gay bars!

I'm sure there are a lot of gay men into enemas. But I'll tell you, as far as I can tell, there are plenty of straight men into them too!

E.B. Waterman

It has NOTHING to do with being gay or not. Women who enjoy enemas aren't gay, so why would males be gay when they do lol. There are gays who don't like enemas at all or even don't like any form if anal sex!

There is no chance that enema is gay just because of the anal stimulation. I am not saying that gay male aren't using enemas, but there are 1000s in the world that are straight and enjoy enemas. I am one of them and so far I have no interest in gay sex nor gay relationship. i am only 42 y/o and I may change my mind one day, but so far I have not the slightest will of going down that road.

cheers

GG

I think it has nothing to do with being gay.I grew up in the 60,s and grew up with enemas all my life.That just the way it was back then.My momwould give me an enema for just about anything.I,am not gay been married for 25yrs.Isuppose there are a few but enemas did not cause it!!

:😃 Say What???? Enemas for therapy and recreation are gender neutral! Maybe also enjoyed by cyber aliens.

I don't think enemas are either gay or straight. But while probably not identical, they are a sensual activity that is the same for either sex. For me (heterosexual male), one of the ideas that makes enemas sexy is that they are the same for each of us.

NO it is not gay to like enemas even if a man is giving you one take it any way i can to get a good ENEMA, Its hard to fine some one to help with a ENEMA :😃 Bob in Spreimghill , Fl

No, it is not gay for men to have enema feitshes.

No its not gay for a guy to want to either give or receive an enema. I'm also going to agree with some of the other people on here who mentioned how arousing it can be for a woman to either watch or join in on anal play with a man wether its by an enema or a dildo....It doesn't matter if your a man or woman the anal area is a very sensitive and erogenous zone. So enjoy if you so please! 😉

If it is....then there are alot of us men who are closet gays........and i can tell you i am not the least bit gay. 😁

I also don't think that enemas have any thing to do with being gay or straight. I have always loved enemas since I was a teen. When I fantasize, it is always with some lady that I love being with, even though I have many more male friends, I would never want to play with them in any sexual situation. 😃 redrub

It's only gay if you're fucking someone of the same gender and do not fuck anyone of the opposite gender. It's not gay to enjoy anal stimulation. There are a lot of nerve endings in that area; it just feels good.

What's "gay" to me are men who won't even allow anal play. Those who have to defend their masculinity and heterosexuality by constantly affirming that they are STRAIGHT and that their assholes are EXIT ONLY! Those men just need to lighten up and get over it. Men who are open to anal play embrace pleasure and are comfortable with their sexuality and don't feel the need to justify their actions. It just feels good.

It was originally asked...

Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?

Of course not!

The question is why would anyone think it is gay? Which gay are you talking about? Gay as in a man's sexual orientation towards other men? Gay as in the pejorative use of that word to describe something the speaker considers to be unusual and undesirable???

Either way, it's not gay.

No, definately not. Many men enjoy enemas only if administered by females. It is very arousing and intimate for a man to allow a female to penetrate him rectally. There's also the prostate stimulation involved. My boyfriend loves for me to give him enemas, but is absolutely adamant about not allowing another man anywhere near his backside.

May not be so today, but most men growing up in the 1950s first sensual experience was with other boys. I would put enemas in this class. This was not considered gay at that time.

The Kinsey Institute Studies have found that men range from completely heterosexual to completely homosexual with 80% to 90% of us falling someplace in between.

The fact is even it it is gay for you, and there is no impact on your significant other, why not go ahead and enjoy the action. We are only talking about an enema here.

I'm gay, but do not consider there to be a correlation between enjoyment of enemas and sexual orientation. When you read about the fantasies of men on this site, they are predominately heterosexual in nature.

Straight and gay men have the same plumbing and the same nerve endings in the anus and rectum. So, both straight and gay men get the same physical sensation from an enema. It is the context in which the enema is enjoyed that is different.

It is true that only a minority of straight men enjoy an enema. However, I believe that to be true for gay men, too. Many of my friends have used them for sexual hygiene, but consider them to be a chore rather than something pleasurable.

Through out history anal play has always been taught to be a sexual no-no by religious zealots who want only men and women relationships.Gay,Straight etc are all mind control by both religious'; and now governments are getting involved.If it f*cking feels good and doesn't physically or mentally damage you or someone else why do we have to constantly justify our happiness? Just enjoy!!!! and stop worrying what every one else feels about you. 😮

I totally agree. What takes place between consenting ADULTS in no ones business but the people involved as long as there is no health risk to the parties involved. What a wonderful world this would be if everyone would mind their own business, if politicians would pay their income tax and church leaders would not molest youngsters.

I dont think liking enemas makes a man gay. Its just another way to get off.

I don't think that it is gay just because you like enemas. I have had many enemas mostly solo because it is very hard to find a female that will administer enemas. So I had a few with male companions. They were very nice and I enjoyed them very much. It seemed they knew where all the good spots where. I don't consider myself as gay because of this reason. I still like women but will always love a GOOD ENEMA administered by either sex. I hope I explained this the right way.

I know a guy who says that he would never consider putting anything up there bottoms because gay people do that. Well, this same guy just loves to talk about receiving oral sex. Gay people do that as well. So, the question is, is it what you do that determines your preference or who you do it with? I think I have finally come to terms with my "perverse fetish" in that it's my body to enjoy in whatever way I choose that brings me pleasure. I think there is a lot of lip service "out there" to appear normal (whatever the heck that is....) and go along with the rest of the herd and the more they can abuse someone else and their predilections the more "normal" they think they make themselves feel. Well that's just enema expulsion! Quit worrying about things that don't matter and start enjoying life which as we all know is way too short!

Many of us guys enjoy anal stimulation and I'm lucky enough to haev a wife who enjoys helping me out. Along with the enemas she's fingered me and does me with a strap on every now and them but I have no desire to have another guy do this. I just enjoy having my ass played with.

I think that all men have this fear ... not of enemas, but of anal activity at all. It is ridiculous! The nerve endings all culminate there, so of course it feels good. Just because you like anal pleasure does not make one gay. If you like anal/oral/sexual pleasure EXCLUSIVELY with men, well, then you might be gay 😃 Sexual preference is much different than sexual activity, and I agree with the previous poster, life is too short to worry about all that.

I myself like both sexes, because I see no reason to limit my options 😃

And as a woman, it is HOT when you guys let us play with your bottoms ......

J.