Do enemas make me gay??

Anal activity is not gay, ANY sexual activity with one of the same gender is gay... I do anal sex once in awhile, and enemas... last time I checked (very recently!), my wife still owned a vagina and I don't. Therefore, not gay!

People who don't understand just like to run there mouths.

Somewhere in the 70s PLAYBOY published a "Sexual IQ Test". The first question read something like this:

1. Are you ____homosexual or _____heterosexual?

(Don't be too sure, big boy. No one is 100% anything.)

Labels like "straight" or "gay" are black & white pigeon holes for small minds. Just flip the clamp on the enema syringe and relax.

I do believe that when this article was written it was intended for a little hummer as well.

being gay is a total life style and you know when your gay.

Guys that have hang ups about being gay some time fight the thought of being gay but the head doctor says the person denies being gay it is the first sign that they are gay 😎

Personally, I think people worry too much about what so-called "society" thinks. Anyone who uses and enjoys Enemas should continue doing what they enjoy and not worry trying to pin labels on it. The majority of people who are against them, are full of shit. I'm gay, and into Man2Man Enemas, and in very good health from them.

I personally don't think an enema fetish has anything to do with being gay or straight. I'm straight and find enemas very erotically stimulating, but have never desired a gay encounter, and have no desire to be given an enema by another man. That wouldn't appeal to me at all. Nor do I have any desire to give another man an enema. Sadly, and misguidedly, I suspect that there are people out there who associate an enema fetish with being gay, which is why so many people are uptight about enema play.

I must agree with Floater and others. I am straight male and enjoy anal stimulation and penetration. I am not anti-gay. Everyone has one, anus/rectum. So if the person enjoys the stimulation, so be it, male female, gay or straight.

I wouldn't want a male to do any of it, but hey, if it floats yoru boat, enjoy. Walt

The terms Gay and Lesbian have nothing to do with taking recreational enemas. They are in fact lifestyle orientations, either by birth or choice. Taking enemas is better related to masturbation; getting off and whether it is self administered or administered by another man or woman, the enema is just that. Let's not confuse the issue.

😉Enemas do not make a person gay or straight as i think sexual preference is a thing you are born with not made into, Its worse today as everyone is also sort of homophobic and the news media in my opinion is to blame and now even the medical field disses on enema use as some dr,s say it leads to abnormal behavior, I have read some stuff on the subject were some of these shrink dr,s said that a mom giving her son will cause him to be gay or become a sex pervert later on in life, Its all a bunch of BS in my opinion,, Its like saying every kid who plays with matches is going to become a pyromaniac and burn the town down. Let,s face it, Today we are living in a world of fear and even the smallest thing that happens the news media jumps on it and plasters it all over our tv sets and by watching it over & over we start to believe it as if it,s on tv news then it must be true,The news media does this for only 2 reasons,,Ratings & money.

No, I do not think it is gay in the homosexual context to enjoy enemas or anal stimulation.

No, I do not think it is gay as in the 'weak or insubstantial' context to enjoy enemas or anal stimulation.

Yes, I do think it is gay to enjoy enemas or anal stimulation as in the context of the word as it was used for many centuries until the early twentieth century. Until then, the word 'Gay' was a commonly used descriptor to give verbal expression to a state of general exuberant happiness.

It is interesting the original poster is now listed as an ex-member.

G.N.

TRUE, the original and classic definition of the word "GAY" means HAPPY.

With that in mind, I agree with G.N.

GAY=HAPPY

thats it

enemas are fun, I like them, I'm definitely a lover of ladies

I know ladies who like them--they are definitely lovers of men

I know men who like them--they are lovers of men

I know ladies who like them--they are lovers of ladies

I know both genders who mix it up

so there

badger

Anal eroticism is anal eroticism. For me it is something completely separate from gender preference.

Nuff said 😁

G.N.

Not gay indeed, but what if it is? Does it matter? I say do it all. Freedom of choice is a wonderful thing!

"Do what thou wilt shall be the whole of the Law. ... Love is the law...."

...and try not to hurt anyone as you enjoy your great life!

“Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?”

Definitely not!

My lady gives me an enema, fucks me hard with her strapon dildos; all of this excites me almost to the point of madness.

Still, I can't do anything sexually with a man...

"Do enemas make me gay?"

Would say no, but the chance is higher that you can deal with it better if you're gay (or experienced with anal sex) and have to face an enema for medical reasons. Especially when you regularly give yourself a cleaning before xxx or even if it is your fetish, a medical bowel cleaning isn't probably that problematic.

"Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?"

In my opinion there is a difference in being gay or straight or bi and so on, and having a fetish to e.g. enemas or anal insertions.

Does liking vegetables make you a vegan? Neither does anal eroticism make you gay. Vegans like vegetables, most gay men like anal stimulation, so do a lot of straight men - but one doesn't imply the other.

Do enemas make a guy gay?

Hmmm.... Is your enema nozzle a pastel colour? Do you have a pride flag coloured enema bag? Do you watch Oprah or The View whilst taking your enemas??

If so, you are DEFINITELY gay.

JK!

I find this thread quite interesting, as I know several gay guys that absolutely hate enemas. The only time they have any water anally is to prep for anal sex.

At 70 years old I enjoy and get off on receiving enemas. Whether it is from a mistress or self administered it doesn't matter. Though it is much more fun with the mistress. But I am not gay. I do not eye men in public, but certainly appreciate looking at women. I never look at a man and think "I'd like to get intimate with him." Can't say the same for females. So liking enemas has nothing to do with sexual preferences. It has to do with whether you enjoy something up your butt or not.

NO

I'll take it a step further besides enema I love getting pegged by lady's/mistress love being doubled and had few double sessions took a strapon in my mouth and ass and I'm not fantasies about man

One mistress had a man join on a session (with my approval) we both got pegged by her and her lovely assistant next session she took it a step forward and suprises me with her sisy boy shoving his cock in my mouth and even though I was deep in to the session I pushed him away and stopped the session

Not at all. Anal eroticism is something that is liked or not liked by everyone that has tried it regardless of sex or preferences. Lots of people like riding roller coasters too but it doesn’t change who they are, they just like roller coasters.

No, They take away the bloating in your belly and it makes you feel better.

I do not believe that liking enemas makes one gay. At least I haven't noticed my sub having an attraction to another male(s) because he likes enemas.

Enjoying anal stimulation is not limited to just gay men. Anal toys can be just as enjoyable while in ones anus when being a straight male, female, or gay.

I’ve loved anal stimulation and plugs and especially enemas since my first at age 15, now nearly 72. I’m not a handsome man, but even so over the years knowing a number of gay men I’ve somehow unwittingly attracted at least 3-5 invitations to sleep with gay men, including a wife with cuckold husband (twice for them).

Results:

1) absolute NO to the 2-3 single gay men invitations - no contact of any kind including a date.

2) Now I thoroughly enjoyed our 2 threesome evenings with the married cuckold couple who invited me as a real doctor to medically examine the wife thoroughly, followed by enemas for her and then my giving her vigorous PIV for the husband to enjoy watching. I really enjoyed it all except when the cuck husband started suggesting that he and I have a physical sexual interaction as well. That was also a NO, not for me, thanks, which probably ended our threesomes at only 2 evenings, though we parted on very friendly terms.

So, for me, strictly heterosexual 100%, no exceptions, but Enemas yes, yes, YES, as erotically as possible. Especially pleasant and useful for me at 71+ with serious ED and since the blue pills have stopped working.

TL/DR: In my >55 yrs of enemas, never a hint of desire for men.

Eric 👍🏻🍑💦❗️

Pretty sure enemas do not make a man gay; but how about predisposing him to bi activity?

"Do enemas make me gay??"

i like this theory better than the religious go to that gay is caused by a dominant mother and weak father. Butt, there is no evidence that i know of that points to enemas making one gay.

i wish more gay guys were into enema as a kink, there's so much mind fuck potential, but i don't think enema kink is any more prevalent in the gay community than it is in the straight.

This notion just reflects one of the silly misconceptions that (some) straight people have about gay guys, that we are all fixated on the anus and anal sex, and so anything connected with the anus must be gay. Anal sex is just one of many possibilities, for both straights and gays. And it’s not everyone’s preference, whether gay or straight.