Do enemas make me gay??

At least in my case, it served as a gateway to curiosity about anal sex and consequently bisexuality

....no more than eating some lettuce makes you a vegan.

If your fetish involves sexual arousal from getting enemas from men and you're a man, you need to accept that, at minimum, you're likely bisexual. It is what it is.

If you get or give enemas to another man (and enjoy this activity), then I'm pretty sure you are on the bisexual spectrum - but to be what I consider gay, you have to prefer and enjoy kissing, hugging a man, and find the shape of man's body more sexy and lovable than that of a woman's.

For myself and probably others the answer is NO. Growing up receiving enemas from Mom and my sisters made me enjoy the sensations from the Vaselined finger lubricating my anus to the insertion of different nozzles to feeling the liquid being squeezed into my anus or slowly flowing through the douche nozzle 's holes from a very full red bag. The pleasure and discomfort that a warm soapy water enema caused giving me more and more cramps while I was told to wait and retain it longer until I finally was allowed to sit on the toilet and let it all gush out caused me many a pleasurable erection and orgasm.. But I only want to receive enemas from women and to give them although I would not be against doing both from a beautiful transsexual.

I think you got your answer here it looks like a resounding "no". Certainly not any more than me being a lesbian because I enjoy a good enema from time to time. I assure you that I am not.

Of course not, it doesn't. If you take enema yourself or get enema from woman, that why it would make you gay?

When you masturbate do you think that you are gay, no you don't, just because you explore your body and learn something about yourself.

I’ve enjoyed enemas followed by analplay my entire life😍I have never felt that is “gay”🙈

Absolutely. I was straight as an arrow until I was filled to the brim with an enema, and just like that I can’t stop chasing dick.

Absolutely. I was straight as an arrow until I was filled to the brim with an enema, and just like that I can’t stop chasing dick.

LOL

This gift of life is way too short to worry about such things - if you like enemas; be happy you have something special. 👍🏼

Why do we feel compelled to hang tag names on ourselves and others? If you must, at least try being about the activity not the sex organs of others. It’s about respect.

Man or woman if it feels good I'm going to go for it. don't think that is going to make me gay,straight, or anything else that rolls around.

I’m straight and have been married to my best friend and sweetheart for 44 years. I have loved enemas since I was five years old and started self-administering them at age 10 or 11. I like enemas for the pure pleasure of having water and various solutions in my intestines.

I also love to push various objects up my caboose. Actually, my wife pushes most of the objects up my caboose and love it more with her doing it over my doing it.

Prior to putting anything inside me, I like to be completely cleaned out. For years, I used a Fleet enema with a few refills just to make sure my sex toys didn’t come out covered with poop.

Three years ago, I installed a handheld bidet sprayer with a hose and a 2.5-gallon water heater next to our master bathroom toilet. The tank and hose connect between the cold-water pipe and the toilet. The hose and handheld bidet sprayer hang on the wall. The tank heats the water to a maximum of 105 degrees and when it cools to about 95 degrees, it kicks in again and heats it up to 105. It works just fine as a handheld bidet to spray off the anus after a bowel movement, as it should. But (or butt), even better than that, it is excellent for spraying water up into my rectum for an extra easy clean out before my wife inserts sex toys, especially the long ones.

Also, I hate using public restrooms, especially for pooping. So, before leaving the house, I do a quick clean out so I won’t have to use a public restroom all day long.

For quick and thorough cleaning, I love my handheld bidet sprayer with a hose and the 2.5-gallon water heater next to our master bathroom toilet. It is extremely quick and convenient to both fill and empty in one sitting on the toilet. No need to waddle from the toilet to the sink to refill the bulb, only to refill the rectum and waddle back to the toilet to empty the rectum, only to repeat the waddling back and forth until you have clear water when you empty. I can fill and empty five to ten times in less than a minute without even leaving the toilet seat.

Ok I have not posted to this old thread which has come back to life. I read the OP's question- do enemas make me gay?

I must confess I did not plow through all the posts on this thread and I would imagine there was a consistent theme in response to the question from the OP- no enemas don't make you gay.

OK now that we have cleared the air, the question coming from someone who is clearly troubled by being anal erotic and thinking that must make them gay. This fear is indicative of those that harbor physical sexual desires and thinking that anything having to do with anal stimulation causes them to be of a particular sexual orientation.

Once and for all the methods you use to achieve sexual satisfaction is not linked to your orientation. Instead, it's who you choose to have sex with is really the most defining way to describe your sexual orientation.

That said, don't freak about your sexual orientation. You can be out or discreet but at the end of the day own who you are and stop worrying how you will be judged. You have the moral high ground when you have self-acceptance of your own sexual orientation and not apologizing for it or hiding it.

And if enemas made you gay who here cares

Well, let's face it. Anal sex is really just a cum enema. With a larger nozzle.

Ok I have not posted to this old thread which has come back to life. I read the OP's question- do enemas make me gay?

Not to be flippant, but I found a cure for being gay in an old magazine:

https://en.zity.biz/gallery/image/262658

I can honestly say “NO!” I am now 70. I love taking enemas and I enjoy the feeling of water going up into my intestines. With that said, I will say .. I am not gay and will never be..

Seems like two questions are asked; the thread subject line asks "Do enemas make me gay??", whereas in the the first post of the thread question is changed to "Is it gay for men to have an enema fetish?"

No, enemas don’t make you gay. Being attracted to the same sex makes you gay. I’m a male who loves enemas but is only into women. Simple!

Enemas do not make you gay. Wanting to snuggle with a guy after enemas makes you gay.

Oh and to paraphrase something a long gone enema pal of mine used to say "A nozzle knows no orientation."

Definitely does not make a person gay.... but, perhaps and maybe belies a hidden, denied, latent potential.

No, I don’t think so.

I am a straight male and I enjoy enemas, suppositories, RT and anal play, solo or with my female partner.

I have had people in the past call me weird, gay or not normal but just ignore those people. Be confident in yourself, be good to yourself and hold true to yourself. Everyone should be what makes them happy and not feel judged for what they like. 🙏

What you enjoy has nothing to do with sexual preference in my opinion.

Take care and best wishes 🙏🙏

Ekid22

No not at all! I do them for the enjoyment, relaxation, and playtime. 😜😉

No.

Like most here enemas were my thing at 8;y.old, I’d had constipation issues. Because my mom would sit on the edge of the tub while “encouraging” me to go. It was my only shot at undivided attention from my mom. Of course being unproductive would bring the red bag, by the time I was 12 I was doing enemas my self when alone. Once this became erotic my mom backed away. I

think that my mom encouraged that experience by ignoring it.butbshe knew everything, mom’s do.

UJ

I loved my mom for the abdominal palpitations and the finger to test my push.

Am gay? Probably.

Wassman at https://en.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;msg=1341599 seen above...

I have 3 Toto Washlets in my home, I ‘d like a nozzle extension so I could get some water past the inner sphincter. But just the oscillating pulsing spray is enough to get me over if I have been edging, hands free. It does’t make me gay but I’d consider a real penis a pleasant distraction.