What Happens In Zity, Stays In Zity

@Meat_Monster you are positively puritanical. 😇

@Meat_Monster you were being a good Dad and husband and so you didn't stay too long so you weren't away from the kids or letting @Dahiana and me have our private time together. You can't leave kids the age of what we have alone for too long knowing that they are capable of. 😉 But I did get the feeling that you were more willing to talk about what you went through and it was just scratching the surface. I'd definitely like to hear more somehow and have a conversation with you about all this and the enemas. Thank you with what you shared during that short time and I would love to hear more. 😃

My husband “Ted” just put another plant hanger above our bed on his side.

These enemas just got real for us. ❤️

@TrinaStarr 🌹

My husband “Ted” just put another plant hanger above our bed on his side.

These enemas just got real for us. ❤️

“Ted's” Excellent Adventures

Go girl. . .and you will …lol

My husband “Ted” just put another plant hanger above our bed on his side.

These enemas just got real for us. ❤️

@TrinaStarr now you just need to learn how to go down on him and I know a few tricks. 😉 @Meat_Monster loves it when I go down on him while I give him an enema and I love it when he goes down on me when I have mine. 😈

@TrinaStarr, NOTHING like a hot tongue or even better, a throbbing piece of hot meat being put to good use while receiving a filling!!! Or you can try out one of your favorite pieces of electronic orgasmic heaven and ride that wave of pleasure to your content!!

@TrinaStarr now you just need to learn how to go down on him and I know a few tricks. 😉 @Meat_Monster loves it when I go down on him while I give him an enema and I love it when he goes down on me when I have mine. 😈

@TrinaStarr don't rush anything and enjoy doing the enemas first before you add anything else like oral sex. @Dahiana had to work go slow when she was learning how to do oral sex and some women don't like the taste of semen. DD would taste mine a few times and get used to what to expect before she even let me cum in her mouth. We did some research on the internet and some experimentation about what was written,

The alleged items that may help make the flavor of semen a little more tolerable include:

• celery.
• parsley.
• wheatgrass.
• cinnamon.
• nutmeg.
• pineapple.
• papaya.
• oranges.

We mostly tried the celery, cinnamon, pineapple and oranges to see if it made me taste a little better and it seemed to help. That was in the beginning and she says that she has gotten used to my semen as time went by, but I have to be careful about what I eat if we think a blow job is going to happen. Just take your time and get into the enemas before you open up for something more. I'd rather do enemas with DD and have them a lot more than I would a blow job.

@Meat_Monster as others have suggested here, “Ted” and I are busy with our enemas and life in general and we haven't talked about oral sex per se as they would pertain to our enema play. Your wife, @Dahiana and I do engage in oral sex when we have enemas together and that started fairly early on with us and I love how it feels.

But I will keep your post in mind. 🌹

@Meat_Monster, sorry but I had to cut my reply short because I forgot that I had a meeting to go to 🙄 which I just love 🤢 🤮 NOT! And I also wanted to thank you for fixing up a spot in your basement so that @Dahiana and I can “do our thing” where it is warmer rather than in the Mother Ship. So, thank you for that. 🌹

We timed moving to the basement just right @TrinaStarr and it was a lot more comfortable. @Meat_Monster did a good job making it more private by making over the basement bedroom and bathroom. 🌹

I also like that you and I have worked it out to have long T-shirts or jerseys if you want to talk with MM if he stops by. If or when we ever do enemas at your place that will work out for us too if your husband wants to talk.

From what you told tonight is that Ted has bought into enemas in a big way. 😎 I think it is a lot better for all of us to not hide what we do. Those secrets MM carried around for so long worked on him big time and what you and Ted and also @Ms_Lila and @Night_Pilot are doing is the best way. 😊

Tonight was good. ❤

“Ted” and I are getting very comfortable with our enemas and I am thoroughly enjoying being given a morning enema without even having to get out of bed to make one for myself. I am finding that I like to be almost half asleep when my husband pulls up the covers just enough to slip my enema nozzle into me and start me off slowly. We will make me an enema before we go to bed and let it hang above us until he gets up in the morning and I feel him get out of bed and come around to my side and lift the covers and then slip the nozzle into me.

Sure the water is a little cool but it is refreshing and I love feeling it trickling into me and filling me up. Right now I've had enough enemas to know what to expect and I haven't felt that urge to jump out of bed and run for the bathroom like I first did when @Dahiana gave me my very first enema. I've stopped wearing any bottoms almost completely unless it is that time of month or close to it, but I usually have enough warning, but not always. Nevertheless, it's one of the best ways of waking up and Ted and I have enjoyed not only some good sex during my enema but the pillow talk and planning the day, and that closeness, is something to die for. ❤️ And the sex with my enema nozzle in me is something else again. 😈

When DD gave me my first enema, I felt like I had given all of my trust and then some because she was going to be controlling my body. It felt strange being all naked with everything showing that first time, but then again we had been doing some very heavy petting and oral sex, so it wasn't like we didn't know each other or have each other when it came to sex. But with her calling the shots on giving me my enema, it was just that I had to lay there and let her do what she needed to do to give me my enema. I think that is called submission in some form but I liked it and I like the whole first enema from her.

I wrote earlier that Ted was now getting into enemas mainly because he loved giving me my enemas and how I reacted to him when he gave them to me. He said that he liked me trusting him to give me my enemas and that it really made him feel good to watch me respond to him the way I did. We kept talking with each enema he gave me, especially after we put the hook on the ceiling, and I basically was giving myself over to him whenever he wanted and he really liked that. I did start bringing up the subject that I would also love to give him an enema sometime and so we ordered a couple more enema kits.

You have no idea what a rush it was for me to give Ted his first enema ever. ❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️❤️

I thought giving DD an enema was hot, but giving Ted his first enema was a trip and a half and I felt so in control. Everything about giving him that first enema, and the ones that have followed, is fantastic and hard to describe. After my giving him four enemas he was buying into them and that is when he hung a hook up on, or towards, his side of the bed. Not only are they great for the sex, but they are a great stress relief for us at the end of a day or that time at night when we turn in for the night and we cuddle. He has been putting the enema nozzle into my butt some of those times, and I do end up getting an enema before we doze off, but I'm so ready to drift off after the enema and cuddling with him. Both of our jobs are pretty stressful and a lot of detail work, but I think we've found something to help kick that stress.

And as for DD, her @Meat_Monster went to a little bit of trouble fixing up their downstairs bedroom so that DD and I don't have to freeze our butts off in the Mother Ship. He really probably just wanted to have his shop back without a couple of freaks doing enemas out there and having to work around our antics, but moving into the downstairs bedroom is a great move. DD wrote that we keep or wear our large football jerseys or something long just in case, and it makes it easier for us if MM drops in to see how we are doing or if we ask him down so that I can talk to him about his enema experiences. Most usually I'm pretty well covered when and if he can spare the time to talk, but it's not where I try to hide anything but I'm not showing it off either. My husband knows about this and has seen, and given me, enemas wearing a football jersey or one of his large T-shirts.

If and when DD ever comes over to our place to visit and have an enema, she said that she would follow the same rules. ❤️ I've got an enema kit for her when that day comes and I'm anxious to show off the hooks above our bed. They are perfect.

I now know, for sure, who @Cedar is but I had seen him around for years but I wasn't aware of the role he played in Aunt @Lora_C's life since I was away for most of that time. I of course, know @Meat_Monster from before and I was at his and @Dahiana's wedding and when I was away DD kept in in the loop with what was happening but no where near the degree like we do now. I am not sure why I am writing this or where it is going, but with MM and Cedar I get a feeling that I need to be careful and not read too much or, maybe, assume too much about them to just go up and start in talking as if I know them or that they will feel comfortable talking to me about what I have read here or even if they want to talk to me about what they are here.

I've become a FAN of more than a couple of people here just from what I've read from their posts now and in the past. There are some that I follow around and read what they post, such as @Wolfgirl66, @Nurse_Phillips, @Moppys_jalopy, @gwhap, @DrFn and for sure @gibby and @Ms_Lila. That being a FAN makes me feel for the celebrities in this world when people walk up to them while they are out doing something and start butting in and talking to them like you really know them. Just because I “know” them from here or the movies, or Broadway plays, and they have touched me in some way, it doesn't mean they know me or want to open up and let me in on their personal lives. And I can see why they hire body guards and live in mansions behind walls and security gates to keep the crazies away 😜 🤪 and seek restraining orders against them so they can't come within 150 yards.

There are some people here that you feel would be open and approachable if they knew you were a fellow zity member and that would break the ice with them, to a point. For example, reading Cedar's introduction I saw that he was here for a specific reason and he seemed to be very caring and friendly and open. But knowing who he is in real life, he's very outwardly friendly and outgoing, but only so far and then you feel him put up his guard and you know you don't push. With MM, the man is huge and scary looking but his profile tells you about him and DD making it work for them and since DD and I have a history, and now I am doing and understanding enemas, he indulges me with my new found wonder. With Wolfgirl66 and her intro, I feel that she is open and willing to listen. I may have caught a glimpse of Gibby and her profile and posts say a lot about her and I love following her and her dog, Skuter. Because of her, I look at pencils in a different light and I have tons of them here at work if I get that urge. And the guys, gotta love 'em. ❤️

Then there is @Sailing_Master and his posting pictures of what he thinks certain women here look like in real life. He's come real close on the two that I know or see around here. Right now he seems to have this thing for aliens and that is so DD and the Mother Ship and I'm not sure if that makes him nuts, too. And that brings me to Nurse Phillips which is one woman I have a feeling that I wouldn't dare walk up to her table in a restaurant and ask for an autograph. Knowing her here is fine, but, what happens in zity, stays in zity. I could find myself on the receiving end of a restraining order or being called in as a crazy woman and end up in the back of an ambulance to be taken in on a 24 hour mental health evaluation. Her profile says it all and I am just fine with liking her posts from afar.

But with Ms Lila, or Beth Anne, I do now know who she is in real life and she's the last one I would have ever guessed has a rich but very private life here and at home. After I found out she was here at zity and she found out I had come to zity, I make sure that I keep my thoughts to myself unless I am asked by her. I was in her shop the other day to get some flowers and she was snipping at an arrangement she was standing behind. She was looking at me from behind and through the arrangement and for a moment I thought she look a lot like a tiger hiding behind some flowers and waiting to pounce if you made a wrong move. Don't get me wrong about her, I really like her and love what she writes, but I got the message that I'm at an arms distance until she says otherwise.

These are just some ramblings from a newbie.

Thank you for the mention and the ‘fan’ing. I understand and am a fan of many here too. Hope you don’t mind me rambling a little of my own on your thread. I’m a compartmentalizer. I’m pretty organized in my daily life and love organizers. Planners. File folders, drawer dividers, gadgets and gizmos aplenty. If it’s an organizer I’ve either bought it or drooled over it. Remember Venn Diagrams? Mine would be wife/mom/grandmother as a circle, Public persona as another and kinky Bitch as a 3rd. The intersection of the 3 only contains my husband and maybe 1 other person.

Zity is smack in the Kinky Bitch circle and I like that it doesn’t spill into the other 2. It’s liberating to be able to be yourself with a group of individuals where there is zero – or close to zero – chance they will spill over into any of the other circles. I can say and do things here I wouldn’t be able to do if there WAS a chance of spillage. So for me, at least, it’s not a matter of keeping the riff-raff out but keeping EVERYONE out. If any of y’all became ‘real’ I don’t think I could enjoy this experience in the same way and I’d hate to lose that. It’s the same reason my husband doesn’t play here anymore. He’s aware of everything that I do here and can read/see anything at all involving me at any time he wants but this is MY space. He has a space with the same rules. It works for us.

Remember Venn Diagrams? Mine would be wife/mom/grandmother as a circle, Public persona as another and kinky Bitch as a 3rd. The intersection of the 3 only contains my husband and maybe 1 other person.

He’s aware of everything that I do here and can read/see anything at all involving me at any time he wants but this is MY space. He has a space with the same rules. It works for us.

Venn diagrams? There is nothing to remember because I use them all of the time with my career. I was anal retentive before it became fun and I am organized to the point of making someone with OCD look like a slob. The only reason anyone else has any idea as to what I am and am wanting to do is because I bought into zity.biz before I knew there were others I know or know of in real life.

But it's just going to be my cousin and her husband and of course my husband. I had no idea there was so much out there.

The only reason anyone else has any idea as to what I am and am wanting to do is because I bought into zity.biz before I knew there were others I know or know of in real life.

@TrinaStarr just stop bitching. 😒😣 You're starting to sound like @Cedar and I'm surprised you didn't say something about the “whole damned town being here". 😤

Get a grip. 🙄

@TrinaStarr just stop bitching. 😒😣 You're starting to sound like @Cedar and I'm surprised you didn't say something about the “whole damned town being here". 😤

Get a grip. 🙄

Ah @Dahiana that was very diplomatic and tactful of you. 🙄

Wow! I have a fan here! I am humbled and honored @TrinaStarr, that you (or any others here) would like my ramblings here on Zity, let alone say they are a fan. Thank you for the mention!

I thoroughly enjoy your thread here and your other posts. You and your Ted have it going on! Thank you for sharing with us.

I just came from spending some quality time reading a few posts between Aunt @Lora_C and @Cedar and while they did fuck, they mostly made love. ❤️ Sweet, passionate, deep, and beautiful love and I remember why I “bought into zity” like I am doing. I am looking and reading something my Aunt Lora lived and wrote without any input from me. It was totally her story about her love and no interference from me. This was ❤️ hers ❤️ and hers alone to be herself and her love of Cedar was before “the whole damn town” showed up. I can feel that she believed she was alone with Cedar here in their early writings and I wonder if they will change when she comes to know that the rest of the town has arrived?

I had been thinking about if and when my husband “Ted” realizes exactly what I am doing on the computer when I am typing. He does know I am on a site called zity.biz and that @Dahiana is here, too, but it's still new to me and I'm not sure, or WASN'T sure of what I wanted from here other than to read about Aunt Carol. What if he wanted to join? How would I feel?

To be absolutely clear “Ted” is going to be able to read everything I write about him or people and things and those things that people may write about me, but like a new friend has said, this is MY place and he is welcome to watch and read, but if he wants to do the same, he will have to find some other way on some other site, just not here. I don't keep things from him. I love that man with everything I've got and every time we have sex, every time he gives me an enema, I just melt more and more and I want him to see what I am becoming for myself, him, and us. And right now that is a sentimental woman who probably should have waited to get over the emotions of reading about her Aunt Lora making love and fucking her best friend ever. 🌹

Up to what I've read of her love, she was writing with the knowledge that it was only her and the man she loved seeing how she felt about him. 🌹 I want Ted, when I'm ready, to read and ONLY read and see what and who I am here without him feeling like he has to say something in return. IF and WHEN I decide to let him look at this, I am going to make sure this is the first post he goes to. This is my story about me and us. 🌹

This post is so sentimental.

I may want to delete it.

@TrinaStarr , I would leave it. No need to delete it.

@DrFn

@TrinaStarr , I would leave it. No need to delete it.

I second your opinion

I'm liking @TrinaStarr missives of her love of her man & that of a sentimental woman as it places the human element in perspective.

@TrinaStarr

I just came from spending some quality time reading a few posts between Aunt @Lora_C and @Cedar and while they did fuck, they mostly made love. ❤️ Sweet, passionate, deep, and beautiful love

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I had been thinking aboI love that man with everything I've got and every time we have sex

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IF and WHEN I decide to let him look at this, I am going to make sure this is the first post he goes to. This is my story about me and us.

Point well made

@TrinaStarr, leave what you have written here. If you get more into enemas as time goes on, coming back to read some of the things you wrote will be a lot better. Especially if Ted is giving you an enema while you read through your memories.

Keep this place for yourself just like @Nurse_Phillips laid it out there. You can be yourself here.

You can be your other self in the Venn diagram out there.

We are a different person to different people. No matter how much someone thinks they know you or how much you have given them, it's yours to give when you want, how you want, and why you want. It is something you share in the moment, but keep your boundaries once that moment has passed.

I told my husband “Ted” about my giving @Dahiana a “random enema” Tuesday night when I was on my way back home from the office. That alone piqued his interest but I let him think about that while we made sure the kids were asleep and we had the rest of the night to ourselves. I have to say right here that I was “HAWT” after what I saw over at DD's house and really in the mood for an enema myself and I couldn't stop blabbing away while we got undressed and made my enema and he hung it on my hook above the bed. I was blown away by what I had seen and I think that one of my lasting impressions of that night was watching the look on @Meat_Monster's face and the way that DD reacted and how she just took off all of her clothes and, it was spectacular! 🥵🥵🥵

I could tell that MM was aroused but he was sitting towards the head of the bed and DD was more or less laying diagonally across the bed. I was behind her and I had a clear view of her “pussy” and she was definitely into the moment. I really didn't know how it was going to go and I hadn't expected MM to be there when I gave her a “random enema”. I had envisioned the two of us giving her a random enema followed up with a little sex between us before I went on home. If the hot water hadn't been working downstairs, MM probably wouldn't have been there, and I think he would have left us alone, but DD got into the scene and took off all of her clothes and I was there to see it all. 🥵🥵🥵 I've had a few quick texts with her since then and brief chats, but she tells me this was the first time she had really been given an enema as the subject of the enema. I think, no, I KNOW, she loved it and I can tell just by the way she talked.

As I'm telling my husband this it is OBVIOUS 🤭 he is liking what he hears and we shut off my enema about a quarter of the way in and had some great sex. GREAT! SEX! Then he wanted to hear some more but by then I had told him the whole story, but the questions he was asking centered more on how MM was taking it all in seeing DD getting an enema from me. He was also asking how DD was handling it and got more and more into how I took it all in. Did I like what I saw? What or how would I react to being given an enema by someone else while he watched? That led me to ask him some of my own questions about how many others would be there watching and other things along that line. We both know where we were going and I was fresh from reading some other posts about exhibitionism and being watched or examined.

Ted was pretty “stoked” and neither one of us wanted to let it go and he gave me another enema with a sex break before I took the rest of the bag. We are actually getting pretty good about having sex during my enema and are thinking about trying one of those “soul kiss enemas” I've read about here. That random enema with DD was eye opening.

Something I've noticed is that I do have to pee a lot sometimes after an enema or two.

It's amazing how your journey has evolved over a relatively short time, @trina , Ted, @Meat_Monster , and @Dahiana. Sexual, emotional, love and friendship. More power to all of you! You guys have entwined some beautiful threads!

@gwhap it really isn't that short of a time because I've known @Dahiana all of my life and we were pretty much raised together. We've been really close and I was at her wedding when she married @Meat_Monster so he isn't a stranger to me but I'm finding out a lot more now. The only person that might be thinking it is happening so fast is my husband “Ted” who isn't from this area and is finding out about the family history.

But what is new and moving very fast is my using these enemas and how they aren't as gross as everyone says they are. My husband and I have done anal sex and those little Fleet enemas to get ready, but the types of enemas that I have started, yes, it is going pretty fast as far as those are concerned. I'm also able to get around here a lot easier because I have DD to help me out there. It is also a lot easier since I am not covertly spying 😶 on Aunt @Lora_C and being all sneaky and shadowy and can be myself and not have to play games or be cryptic.

I have integrity. 🤨

Something I've noticed is that I do have to pee a lot sometimes after an enema or two.

If you add salt, a teaspoon per quart it will make it isotopic and you won't absorb water. Look forward to your continuing adventures and thanks for the shout out. I am enjoying your continued progression into full fledged “Enema Girl”

If you have time stop into TGIF and say hello, today at 3 pm Pacific, 6 Eastern and I think 5 where you are. Hope to see you there!

I have integrity. 🤨

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@Dahiana Love your emojis!

So I've been thinking, so has my husband “Ted”, about my giving @Dahiana a random enema which turned out to be giving her one in front of her husband @Meat_Monster. I'm not sure how or if I can put what I saw into words, but it was something awesome and I've been looking here to see if either DD or MM were going to write something about it, and so far I haven't seen anything. I can't stop thinking about it and the looks on MM's face when I was putting the enema nozzle into DD or the first when she just took off all of her clothes in front of us both and got into the moment. She was definitely the center of attention or the main event and I wasn't sure if she was feeling humiliated or turned on or both and I was expecting either her to start masturbating right there while we watched or taking on MM and not caring if I was there holding her bag or not. It was that close and I have to admit that I was hoping for either of those things to happen. I know I was turned on and like I said before, I saw, from behind, that DD was definitely into that scene in a big way.

There has been a couple of times on the Mother Ship, when DD and I were getting into our enema relationship where MM was doing something in his shop and checked in on us. One time in particular was when DD and I were on the bed he had fixed up for us and we were doing enemas, but we were wearing oversized football jerseys and pretty well covered up for the most part. But at the same time, another confession here, just knowing that MM knew that I was basically naked under the jersey, and able to see my enema tube descending down from my bag and disappearing up under my jersey had its moment in the OH WOW category. And then to be carrying on a conversation with him while doing that enema did turn me on, too. I admit it, I was covered but we all knew what was going on and some of the talk was definitely about sex and finding out about MM and his enemas. That was weeks ago and seems like forever now.

So Ted and I have been talking about that whole incident and he's been asking all sorts of questions about what went on, how I felt, how did DD feel about it, and what do I think MM thought about it. But without really reading anything from either DD or MM about that 👻 Night of the Random Enema 👽 (good title for a scary movie) 😉 (( I came back to put in the “title” and the emojis, I'm partial to ghosts and DD loves the aliens. )) The bottom line, literally, is that Ted wants to watch someone give me an enema and we've been talking about what kind of scenario we would like to have this done in. I already know that DD will be the one to give me a enema in front of Ted because she owes me for the great sex she got after I gave her a random enema that night. Yes, they haven't written about what happened afterwards but the way that those two were looking at each other, and as wet as DD's “pussy” was when I was giving her that random enema, and you know that there was some fantastic sex afterwards. By the way, I had to let myself out of their house after the enema was done and they probably did it right downstairs after I left.

Just talking about giving DD that random enema has led to some great sex between Ted and me and more than a couple of late night or early morning enemas. Also, I'm getting very comfortable with having sex with Ted while I have the enema nozzle in me and it's awesome after he climaxes, and me too, he will open up my enema clamp and stay on top of me and inside of me while I fill. It's amazing and when I'm almost full the enema seems to press onto my sweet spot and I have a couple more orgasms, small ones, but really nice. We're working up to the time when we both can be doing an enema during sex and have the enemas at the end of our sex.

But there are some details that Ted and I have to work out and get comfortable with before we go beyond me getting an enema from someone else, (DD) in front of him while I'm naked. It's not that he has any problem with me being naked with DD or the two of us having sex and doing the enemas. It's the logical “next step” that we may find ourselves thinking about when we open up Ted's and my fantasy play to include someone else. Talking to Ted and he is really good to go with me being the only one naked (OON - something that is real on the internet as well as CMNF and the different combinations) with just DD there. Now, here's a part where DD and I have been talking to each other over a couple of enemas, DD says that she wouldn't have any problem with me being naked around MM when she and I were doing enemas, and she wouldn't mind Ted being around when she was naked and / or doing enemas with me. We're both pretty sure we would be good with that but we can't speak for our husbands on this. There wouldn't be any sex with MM and me and none from DD and Ted because I don't think DD and I are there yet, but still, maybe we are and it would depend on our husbands. I think we are getting ahead of ourselves in that area.

To be honest, the time MM was there when I was doing an enema I wasn't trying to hide anything at all. I almost wish he would have walked in on DD and me when she or I were going down on each other, especially if we were both doing enemas. To be accurate, DD and I do go down on each other, now, when we are doing an enema but not with it running, we wait until we are done and then open up our enema clamps.

I really don't know where this is all going but I think, speaking for myself, I'm into this enema scene too far to let it drop. And the sex and enemas with Ted is just getting real and I'm all but certain that he is into enemas now. Sometimes I wonder if he's been interested in them before because he took to them so easily.

Anyway, I'm fairly certain DD would be willing to give me an enema in front of Ted if for no other reason than she owes me one and she is a slut. 😅 😂 🤣