As a matter of fact, as you read this just know that what I've been writing was being discussed as I was slipping the nozzle of a bulb enema syringe into DD's behind and taking time putting it in, leaving it there while something was being said, and taking time squeezing the water into her and even slower taking the nozzle back out.
This is a long post and you may want to consider going past the rules. 😉
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It was a big night last night when @Dahiana came to visit me and “Ted” so that we could continue our conversation about hers and my relationship and our use of enemas. DD and I had been texting back and forth all day long about how we were going to approach our discussion and what we were formulating as the way we want to make this work for us. For those of you with a life to live and want to know the cap notes version of what happened with hers and my future conduct and involvement with our, now, sexual relationship I can sum it up with these;
A. If one of our husbands is present when we want to have our bulb enemas, we will either take off our own clothes and neither of our husbands will “strip” us. She might strip me or I might strip her, but that is between the two of us.
B. DD and I will always have the privilege of giving each other bulb enema nozzle insertions or bag enema nozzle insertions as a default measure. However, our OWN husband may insert the bag enema nozzle us, but not the others husband. This is only for bag enemas.
C. Bulb enemas are DD's and my thing ONLY as far as the insertions go for the enema.
D. Our enema time, if our husbands are present, can have either DD or myself nude, or both of us nude, depending on our mood and what we are feeling at the time.
E. We won't be having sex with each others husbands but this one depends and can be amended if ALL, DD and me, and our husbands find this might be desirable sometime in the future. Just not now.
You'll have to bear with me about listing out things a putting letters by each item, because I am a forensic accountant and basically bat-shit crazy after looking at so many numbers, columns of numbers, off shore this and off shore that. I like things clear and above board because what I have to deal with is anything but clear and above board. My husband is also a forensic accountant and therefore, bat shit crazy for lists and clear cut guidelines as well.
But he's also a saint and a great Dad and has been very accepting of my deepening reconnection with DD. 🌹 Her husband @Meat_Monster is a saint, too, 🌹 and probably bat shit crazy because it would help him cope with being married to DD. 🌹 I'm just kidding 🙄 she is a great friend and woman.
By the way, I love the term “bat shit crazy”. 😜 🤪
Last night - DD came to the house and Ted had put the kids to bed and knew that DD was going to come over for a very serious talk about where she and I were and what it means to our marriage and also her marriage. I've been talking to Ted about not wanting him to feel left out of the enema scene and knowing where it is all coming from. Ted and I are super cautious about anything dealing with the “outside world” and we let very few people in. It's what we want and we don't want what we have to deal with getting into our lives unless we can understand and control it.
Ted knows about my bi-sexuality and my girlfriend(s) in college before we met and that I still am attracted to women. He also knew about my schoolgirl experimentations with DD but we had moved apart, started our own families, and now I'm “back home” and he knew when DD and I started to pick things back up. Then we started the sex and I kept him in the loop about that, and then the enemas. I have to admit that enemas were new to me when DD suggested them and when I gave them a try I naturally told Ted about that. His main question was his wanting to know if I was kidding about it being enemas because, like I was, they were something nasty and taboo and just something as a last resort. I was curious too, about where DD picked that up and after a few times, I knew I liked what they meant and did for me and that's when things became gray for me.
The gray area was because DD told me she got into enemas because of MM and she was conflicted about how much to say because she didn't want to betray his trust. I so get that and when I realized that MM had a big influence on her turning to enemas, I didn't want to pry too hard because he is a great guy and I know how I feel if someone is talking about me and finding out things that are very personal. But human nature being what it was I wasn't going to cover my ears and go “la la la la la la la” to block out what DD was saying. She wasn't talking behind MM's back because she doesn't do that to him, but the enema connection went way deeper than just another bedroom sex trick. Then there was her bat shit crazy obsession with aliens 👽 the fear factor sex 😱 she was into and all of a sudden her taking up with enemas seemed the one sane thing she was doing.
As I said before, I don't like keeping secrets from my husband and I don't want to be a secret kept from someone else's husband, and this scene with enemas tied right straight into DD's and MM's marriage and I didn't know how much I could share with Ted. But I was going to share and that is why I was not all that concerned with making sure everything was covered if MM popped into the Mother Ship or if there was a nip slip or a beaver sighting when DD and I were first getting into enemas. Fair is fair and I was hearing some things but I wanted to be honest with him and get the courage or decency to ask him myself straightup. If he had balked at saying anything or became defensive that may have been the end of the great enema experiment. But he wasn't and I got to learn a lot about him and him about me. There are no regrets there, but how much could I tell Ted?
I was annoying the hell out of DD with my “ethical” questions but not really. She's just as protective of MM as I am of Ted and it was to a point where we quit doing what we were doing or go for glory and include our husbands in all of this so we didn't feel like we were cheating. But enemas were doing it for me on an emotional level and everytime DD would insert my enema nozzle into me it was as if she was tapping into my soul and conscience as well as turning me on like crazy. The night before last night when DD was giving me a bulb enema in front of MM and I was crystal clear and sincere in wanting MM to know as much about me as I was getting to know about him. I want to keep my relationship with DD going strong and keeping guilt and secrets out of it is the only way I can see this working.
And then last night it was DD's turn to be naked in front of Ted, for the first time, by the way, and me giving her a multiple insertion bulb enema while we talked about everything I've written above. As a matter of fact, as you read this just know that what I've been writing was being discussed as I was slipping the nozzle of a bulb enema syringe into DD's behind and taking time putting it in, leaving it there while something was being said, and taking time squeezing the water into her and even slower taking the nozzle back out. Before I go, I'm going to copy some of this paragraph and paste it up there somewhere to give you an idea of what we were doing, so if you get to here and haven't clicked out, this is where I first thought to write this.
At some point during the enemas, there was more than one bulb enema that I gave to DD last night, we had said pretty much what we wanted to say. DD had her phone with her and sometimes would text MM to let him know how things were going and Ted asked if it would be permissible to give her a bag enema or just insert the nozzle. It was a good question and DD took it that way and sent a text to MM about that. To us, DD, Ted and me, it seemed like MM was thinking about this and maybe needed more time and it was the right thing for him to do. Ted understood and after I put the last bulb of water into DD and she was ready to release, Ted excused himself and said he was going to go check on the kids and for DD and me to lock up when we were done.
And that's when she and I both wanted to cap off the night with our “traditional” side by side bag enemas. This is where we came up with the rules or guidelines, if you're Pirates of the Caribbean fan. Bulb enemas are going to be something only DD and I give to each other as part of sex play or tapping into our inner exhibitionist to an audience of one or two men we both happen to know. 😉 Of course our husbands can give us bulb or bag enemas when they want, but if there is is just me and DD and either or both of our husbands present, then only she or I can do the insertions on the bulb enemas. But the big relief for me is that there are no secrets and none of us are left out of anything and no one is talking behind the other one's back.
As to Ted coming here to zity.biz with his own account, I think I'm going to be a little selfish about this one and ask that he not join but he can read whatever he wants and see whatever I've posted. I know it works for DD and MM, but I feel like I need to make this my own before considering asking Ted to join. I have no idea why I feel that way.