What Happens In Zity, Stays In Zity

@TrinaStarr you are going to love it and welcome to the club! ❤️❤️❤️🌹🌹🌹😁 😁 😁

I'm liking it because I can “watch” what I am making him feel and not be all caught up in it myself, like when we are having sex with each other. I should have done this a long time ago.

And a very adept “cocksucker” by the sound of it. Kudos to you for going for it, and enjoying it too. 😃 I can only imagine how happy Ted is.

I know I really enjoy being felated as much as I enjoy going down on a woman and seeing her enjoying what I am doing. I guess there is a certain amount of a control thing there.

I'm liking it because I can “watch” what I am making him feel and not be all caught up in it myself, like when we are having sex with each other. I should have done this a long time ago.

@TrinaStarr … if you haven't already done this … go down on your husband while you are doing an enema. Take your time … and I like doing it … AFTER … I've made love with or fucked my husband and I get the taste of both of us when we were both hot. It gives him … us … time to enjoy the afterglow and I love to watch his face as I bring him out of the … mist … and he is touching my face or hair. There's nothing like it … and I'm right there … with him and our taste in my mouth and I can feel his body … begin to fade back into the mist. Only there isn't any rush … and I go slow … I float him deeper into the edge of the mist and then let him float back out. I can tell when he wants me to send him all of the way in … and I watch every part of him react to what I am doing … he's the … 🌹 why 🌹 … I am sucking his cock and he is letting me see the real him. It's as much for me as it is for him. ❤️

I float him deeper into the edge of the mist and then let him float back out. I can tell when he wants me to send him all of the way in … and I watch every part of him react to what I am doing … he's the … 🌹 why 🌹 … I am sucking his cock and he is letting me see the real him. It's as much for me as it is for him. ❤️

@gibby you write some of the most intimate things about enemas and you have a very lucky husband. 🌹

@TrinaStarr read everything you can about how @gibby works her magic because she is one of the best when it comes to making a man happy. She's also pretty good at making a woman happy, too, according to my wife @Ms_Lila.

A lot of things have been happening since I last posted here before Christmas and my husband “Ted” and I are feeling as though we are getting in over our heads with our new found sex life with the enemas. It's a “good scary” kind of feeling and lines are getting blurred more and more each day as to what I, personally, am more comfortable with doing. I've been given enemas in front of @Dahiana and @Meat_Monster as well as Ted and DD and I are spending more time with each other doing things way beyond where I ever thought I'd go. Yes, I'm bisexual and have been, but I've been “true” to my husband from the beginning and moving back “home” and reconnecting with DD has really done a number on my morality meter.

Our husbands are aware and even supportive, of DD and me reconnecting and now I've got Ted into enemas and he loves giving me them. Ted has surprised me with how he grasps the concept of enemas being more than “just a sex thing” even beyond our using them before to clear the way for our anal sex. Since Christmas, Ted and I have had many long midnight talks while, mostly me, have an enema. The more we do those kinds of enemas the more I appreciate @gibby's insights into just what enemas are and can be. To be honest, mostly with myself, I thought Gibby romanticized enemas and that her history with them made them seem more than they are. I was wrong. 😶

And the enemas between DD and me? 🌹 Well they are breaking down any inhibitions or boundaries I may have and watching the videos of Aunt @Lora_C and how natural it was for her to be so open and approachable just amazes me. I no longer feel the need to cover myself if MM walks into the room where DD and I are having an enema or going down on each other and I don't feel embarrassed to be seen like that by him. DD also tells me that she feels the same way if Ted walks in on us doing what we do and wants to sit down and talk. The only “rule” DD and I haven't broken is having Ted give her an enema or MM to give me an enema, and no touching. But speaking for myself, and only myself, if MM did touch me or want to give me my enema instead of just watching me do it or DD doing it for me, I would not say no. And being real and up front and honest, that is not all I would not say “no” to with MM. I haven't told him that, but I have told DD, but seeing that MM is here on zity.biz, well, I guess I just did tell him that. 🤨

BUT, for absolute sure, Ted knows how I feel about “blurring the line” and taking it further. 🌹 The midnight enemas when the kids are asleep and it is just the two of us make for some very deep conversations and soul to soul talks. I love and adore my man ❤️ and I get that feel from him too, by the way we make love and how he touches me. ❤️

There was a reference in my thread or somewhere else about “poly” which I believe is,

pol·y·am·o·ry

the practice of engaging in multiple romantic (and typically sexual) relationships, with the consent of all the people involved

I really believe Aunt Lora was deeply into this and may not have called it that or thought of it that way, but I'm not sure the “romantic” aspect is there for me but I don't know enough about this to sound halfway intelligent about the subject. But even with that, there are rules and boundaries and priorities that I need to feel right about before taking anything further with anyone. And this is something DD and I have been heavily discussing between enemas and having sex with each other, both of us know there is a lot more to work out before we take it any further. As my husband says, “It could go sideways real fast.” He says that about a lot of things. 😉

Trust your gut instincts @TrinaStarr and keep the lines of communication open. Whether a relationship is poly, or anything else, it is all down to communication. Make sure you and Ted and everyone else who is involved, is fully aware of everyone's feelings and/or concerns. If you think things are going over your head, back off a bit and talk about it.

DD also tells me that she feels the same way if Ted walks in on us doing what we do and wants to sit down and talk. The only “rule” DD and I haven't broken is having Ted give her an enema or MM to give me an enema, and no touching.

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Trust your gut instincts @TrinaStarr and keep the lines of communication open. Whether a relationship is poly, or anything else, it is all down to communication. Make sure you and Ted and everyone else who is involved, is fully aware of everyone's feelings and/or concerns. If you think things are going over your head, back off a bit and talk about it.

Just our being able to think about this has taken quite a few enemas and lots of time and talk. And @TrinaStarr and I hear you @LordJim2 and want this to be something that lasts. 🌹🌹

I haven't written much lately because I have been DOING it and I can understand why some people can't always post every time they do something. 😉 And by something I am talking about learning how to perform fellatio on my husband and it isn't as easy as it would seem. It's not like when I am performing cunnilingus on @Dahiana where I know where to lick and just how to insert my fingers and what the little tells are that mean I am getting her there. And the pussy rolling technique is awesome and thank you @Cedar. 🌹

It's different with DD and me because we are “just playing” although I have deep feelings for her, we are just having fun and enjoying the sex. We go way back and when we reconnected, it was about us wanting to do more and give more. With Ted it's different, and I don't want to sound sentimental, but I am and at the same time it gives me a rush.

It's all about being at the source with him with his penis in my hands and mouth and I understand about being able to be more of an “observer” because I am the one controlling the scene. I love how Ted will “give up” and lay or sit back while I touch him and explore his penis up close and I see things in the details. Things like the veins along the shaft of his penis, the intricate and delicate patterns of the tissue on his glans penis and how “spongy” it seems, and on down to the many, many small wrinkles and hairs on his scrotum and I am there in control of this wonderful “love machine". ❤️

He is feeling my touch and I see his body giving in to what I am doing and how his hips press forward at times when maybe he wants me to “cut to the chase” and put him in my mouth. The looks on his face and in his eyes are all over the map and I am able to see and observe what I am doing and what I am causing. His erection, that's me making this happen. 🥵 Those little involuntary movements of his body and as he melts away to giving me full control, that's me making this happen. 🥵 And I get to watch and control and I love it. But then it sets in that I want to make sure that I “do it” ❤️ for him and give him what he deserves. ❤️❤️❤️

Oh yes, there sure is a technique when you are sucking and feeling Ted's power in his legs and hips and torso is nothing short of awesome and I AM MAKING THIS HAPPEN. ❤️❤️❤️ I can watch this almost with a detached view or even scientific but it is Ted's penis in my mouth and I am tapped into his mind and soul right then and there. Although I think it will take some time to “acquire” a taste for his ejaculate, I have learned how to take it “straight back” and not taste much. BUT ❤️ it really isn't that bad and the more I do it and the more I feel him ejaculate, I have admit that it isn't bad at all and it has a different taste sometimes depending on what we eat that week.

But here's something I am beginning to understand better, especially when @Ms_Lila makes those remarks that she now has her husband @Night_Pilot or her “EB” down inside of her and “digesting” their ejaculate. I have to admit I never really understood what the big deal about having swallowed their “cum” and her body taking out what nutrients, vitamins, or minerals and making it part of her own body, however small that may actually be in reality. But now I do understand ❤️ and I don't think she is a card short of a full deck, which is one of Ted's favorite sayings. 😉 And after Ted “lets go” and I swallow his ejaculate, he's with me the rest of the day or however long it takes for him to go through my body. Wow, "…however long it takes for him to go through my body…” now I'm really getting sentimental and it's time for me to get back to my day.

@TrinaStarr 🌹

I'd gamble that it's not only “Ted” that's feeling your ministrations😜

Thats quite a “tail” . . .er picture of times had

@TrinaStarr Oh yes, there sure is a technique when you are sucking and feeling Ted's power in his legs and hips and torso is nothing short of awesome and I AM MAKING THIS HAPPEN. ❤️❤️❤️

Yes, and when you have a husband by the sound of yours is like mine, who have thighs that you can bend crowbars over and crush coconuts with, it is quite a feeling to be surrounded by all that muscle and power. BUT YET!!!! Here we are turning them into a quivering mass of babbling mindless massiveness in the palm of your hands and mouth, is QUITE the feeling of womanly power over them just as you feel when they are between our legs doing it to us!!!!

@paula @TrinaStarr Proof that women aren’t the weaker sex! 😁. Good posts, lucky guys!

My husband “Ted” and I are really getting into the enema scene, but with me more on the receiving side, which is fine with me. On my part I have totally abandoned wearing any underwear when we go to sleep at night which makes it easier for Ted to give me an enema in the morning. About the only time I wear any undergarments is when I have that less frequent menstrual cycle, and they are getting rarer and rarer.

Now, I love a morning wake up enema but we're finding a little issue with that pertaining to completely evacuating my enema beyond the two or three times I usually experience after a morning enema. It sometimes interferes with getting the kids off to school and the whole morning routine, but nothing serious, just urgent. 😉 But we are getting over the “newness" of enemas and we do need to cut back on the number of enemas we give each other. As it stands I am having about two enema sessions a week consisting of three enemas per session in addition to “wake up” enemas that are spur of the moment and usually coupled with some fantastic sex. 😈

Ted and I are thinking that my morning enemas will be switched to a bedtime enema and any sex 😉 that just happens to take place during that time. Enemas and sex are practically made for each other and I am very comfortable, now, with having sex and an enema at the same time. The position we prefer is the good old fashioned missionary during the “heated” portion and then me on top during the after sex cuddling. 🌹

I like enemas and enjoy being on the receiving end and don't mind if it isn't a 1 to 1 give and take. The bedtime enemas are something I think I will prefer because we have more time and a morning schedule during school interferes with the whole purpose of enjoying an enema. This is an evolving process for Ted and I and I think that enemas are here to stay with us. 😉

I am going to have to get accustomed to, or learn to adapt my approach to real life, and learn to separate my “zity side” from the world I live in. I was on my way home and stopped by @Ms_Lila’s flower shop to pick up a birthday balloon for one of my children to take to a friend’s party. I don’t run into Beth Anne very often at all and I may see her in passing once or twice a week and that is just seeing her out in the community or making a delivery.

She is a very attractive woman and carries herself with poise and dignity and is very graceful. To talk to her, she is polite and cordial but has that reserve and keeps her distance without making you think she is keeping her distance. She is approachable but only to a point and before I came to zity I would never have dreamed that she is so passionate and open to exploring. But today, I had a reality check when I went into her shop to get the balloons and even though we are members here and read the others most intimate thoughts and experiences, I realized that there was the real world and then there is zity.

As I said, she was cordial, business like, and friendly but she didn’t even approach or mention a single thing about zity or act like she knew all about me and my budding sex life. And to make me feel even more awkward, I was standing there talking to her and wondering if she was wearing anything underneath her smock and I was checking out to see what kind of pants or leggings she was wearing. There I was standing out in the shop area, getting the balloons and paying for them and I am looking at the door to what I presume to be the back offices, wondering what it was like and if that was the area that Aunt @Lora_C and @Ms_Lila had some of their intimate times.

In other words, I was this close to making a fool out of myself and thinking that just because we write about what we do and think in here, it doesn’t mean that it is just fine to be that open in public or real life. It was like we were two different people, doing business, making it work, but not letting the lines blur between our private lives and who we are at home, with how we act towards each other in public. I had to curb my enthusiasm and take a deep breath of reality and not go all sophomoric with someone I barely know in real life to someone who lives and breathes here in zity.

Ms Lila was very professional, very friendly, and made me feel at ease, but I could feel that there was a very definite boundary and what we share in here, stays in here. She is a beautiful woman and I want to be just like her when I grow up.

In other words, I was this close to making a fool out of myself and thinking that just because we write about what we do and think in here, it doesn’t mean that it is just fine to be that open in public or real life. It was like we were two different people, doing business, making it work, but not letting the lines blur between our private lives and who we are at home, with how we act towards each other in public. I had to curb my enthusiasm and take a deep breath of reality and not go all sophomoric with someone I barely know in real life to someone who lives and breathes here in zity.

@TrinaStarr I wish I had seen this before posting on the other thread. 🌹 I am sorry that you felt that I put you off and made you feel this way. I myself, failed to ‘curb my enthusiasm’ with another member and made her to feel that I had crossed a boundary with her and it was not my intention to do so. As a result my own failure to properly express my feelings or intentions caused me to lose a friend or put her off to the extent that she felt the need to distance herself. I reviewed my own conduct and see that my actions and words triggered something that told her I was violating and not her boundaries and she reacted in her own best interest as is totally within her right to do so. That was not my intention in the least but what was done was done and I didn't think trying to further explain my intent or context, would have made a difference. It was my fault and I have learned from my mistake.

As for yesterday Trina, I wasn't expecting you to drop by but I was glad that you did. 🌹 You obviously were going home straight from your work and in your business attire. I didn't think you had the time for us to chat each other up and our delving into our ‘zity side’ might have been too much and too soon. Again, I learned from my mistake and don't want to repeat that and put someone off of me by ‘coming on too strong’ or not ensuring that my intentions are known. IF you have the time some evening when I am closing up shop and would like to drop by, I would love to give you a tour of this building and show you were it all began for your Aunt @Lora_C and me. 🌹

She is a beautiful woman and I want to be just like her when I grow up.

❤️❤️❤️

Wow, Ms Lila and TrinaStarr (messages #225 and #226 ), what a lovely exchange you've just had online for us all to share with you both, and applaud. 😃

That's real human-interest stuff (for want of a better term).

I had just come online after a pleasant-enough telephone chat with a lady friend - she's no more than that, but she always looks great in jeans! - and now I'm all bucked up!

Thanks - Ken

My husband “Ted” and I always thought we were pretty sexually active and spontaneous but since being corrupted by @Dahiana and brought to zity.biz, I so amazed at just how much we were lagging when it came to our sex lives. We are having to make little adaptations to our lives and redo our schedules to allow us some more “us” time to follow up on our whims.

So here are some things I have learned.

✯ Plan for spontaneity, I know, sort of self defeating but -

Quickies are supposed to be spontaneous but it doesn't hurt to carry panty liners for that time when my husband bends me over the table, or chair, the front seat of the car with the driver's door open, and gives it to me.

OR

Learn to love the “squish” as @Nurse_Phillips calls it. 😉

✯ Morning “blow jobs” are easier and easier to do once I get the hang of it and I am well on my way to earning the title of “fellatio artist" a.k.a. cocksucker. 😈

✯ It's OK to call it “fucking” instead of “sex” or “making love." That will make the nuns back in school “lose their shit” 😱 and confirm what they always suspected about me.

✯ Sex on demand OR sex on request is just a state of mind, like someone else has written here several times.

We've got a lot to learn and a lot of catching up to do.

Embrace the squish.

just think of us a a crop of naughty aunts full of good advice

just think of us a a crop of naughty aunts full of good advice

There's a pun in there somewhere. 😈

I got home this afternoon and my husband “Ted” had our kids out doing something and I found myself with a couple of hours with the house to myself. It was a stressful day full of numbers and useless Zoom meetings and I was reliving it as I was changing my clothes.

I was down to my bra and panties and seriously considering ditching the bra. I let out a heavy sigh and reached my arms around my back to take off my bra and feel like a human again. That's when I just happened to glance up at the ceiling oover my side of the bed and saw my hook for my enema bag.

So, what the hell? 🙄🤔 I just felt like it. I wasn't particularly horny but my attitude was all about getting some “ME” time so, why not a nice long warm enema?

Without sex. Just because I am really getting into them for sex, so why not just try one for “just because”? 😕 Then there I was on the bed having an enema and just getting into the whole experience of feeling the warm water trickling into me, warm, filling and relaxing. The sounds when it was filling me, that warmth, time to think and be by myself and think about what part enemas are taking in my life. I may have even got lost in though a little.

But mostly it was about my enema, my “just because” enema. And as I am releasing it I feel good, tranquil and the day went away when I flushed the toilet. I wanted another one. 😊

It was just as good but I wanted to share my thoughts and experience with Ted on my new view on enemas. I'm looking at them from a stress release point of view now and I couldn't wait to tell him. So after I released my second enema I filled up my bag a third time and hung it on my side of the bed and put on a big sweater, NO BRA, and my sweat pants and house socks, it's winter and cold 🤨🥶, and welcomed Ted and the kids home.

I got the kids started on something to eat and Ted went to change. 😎😉 He's smart and we got the kids to bed a little early.

Sex with Ted in the Missionary and me and an enema nozzle leads to some great after sex cuddle time. ❤❤ Now back to bed for some sleep next to Ted and his warm Dad bod. ❤❤❤

I worked in an office environment for many years. For the last 2 years I’ve worked out of my house which has given me a lot of time to give myself enemas which I’ve taken full advantage of. unfortunately, my wife doesnt enjoy my love of enemas so being able to have some alone time during the day has been wonderful. @TrinaStarr i know what you mean about having bisexual tendencies in high school. I struggled with my sexuality for many years. I’ve recently come to the realization that I’m bisexual in the last 7 years or so. It is such a liberating feeling. My wife knows I’ve had attractions towards men in the past but doesn’t how strongly they are. Probably best it stays that way. She’s quite conservative and don’t think she would be able to handle it

But mostly it was about my enema, my “just because” enema. And as I am releasing it I feel good, tranquil and the day went away when I flushed the toilet. I wanted another one. 😊

@TrinaStarr, TOLD YA! 😁

@Dahiana thank you for your gift to “Ted” this morning when you asked him to give you an enema. 🌹 I loved watching his face and it meant the world to him and to me. 🌹

@Dahiana thank you for your gift to “Ted” this morning when you asked him to give you an enema. 🌹 I loved watching his face and it meant the world to him and to me. 🌹

@TrinaStarr 🌹I was going to say something witty here but Ted's a great guy and I'm glad I did. 🌹 He was gentle and decent and something I enjoyed having him do. You and I have talked about this and the fact we have some pretty great guys in our lives 🌹and it was time.

I liked how we did it 😊👍 and he gives a pretty good enema. 😉😎

@Dahiana 🌹

GIFT !!! . . That's one right out of the “box”

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GIFT !!! . . That's one right out of the “box”

🦘

A special delivery for a great guy. 🌹

As of this moment, I have not had another man in a sexual way in my marriage with my husband “Ted” ❤️ and his being asked to give @Dahiana an enema is a major step in our lives. I am going to ask DD's husband @Meat_Monster to do the same with me as soon as we can make it happen. It's big step, and I am repeating myself, but at this point none of us see our taking it past enemas but I personally am not ruling it out. I knew DD was going to ask Ted to give her an enema and I had talked to Ted about it before DD asked him and made sure that WE 🌹, Ted and I, were good with this step for us.

I really understand the need for “rules” and DD and I discussed that if and when, when was yesterday morning, we gave ourselves over to having our husbands give the other of us enemas, that it wouldn't be in the beds where we sleep. The marital beds, and I so understand, now. Ted was very nervous and DD asked him how far undressed he wanted her when he gave her the enema. I was watching Ted's face and eyes and was touched by DD's respect for his nervousness but she put him at ease and made him understand that she really wanted this from him. But she asked him if he was ready and then we all spoke what was on our minds and the fact that Ted and I had talked about this enema for some time before DD and I felt it was time to move forward.

Our husbands have seen DD and I naked together when we were having enemas with each other or when we let our husbands give us an enema in front of each other. The first time that I was naked and getting an enema from Ted in front of DD and MM was a shocker for me because I loved every second of it and I can tell you that is when I crossed the line in my mind about wanting to be the center of attention and being looked at. It turned me on like I never expected and it was what we all were moving to, DD, MM, Ted and I. 😈🥵 And to tell you the truth, DD and I are wondering if we are “pushing” our husbands into hers and my little fetish world and if our men really want this or is it the saying “I have the pussy I make the rules.”? DD and I have to be honest with ourselves, and are we angling for my husband to give her enemas in front of me and MM, and MM giving me an enema in front of DD and Ted?

The more I write this the more I believe that DD and I are just doing some mental gymnastics instead of admitting that we both want this. If MM doesn't read this before tonight, I want you to give me an enema and I hope you want me totally naked in front of your wife and my husband while you give it to me. 🥵 Ted opted to have DD just pull down her pants and lay on the guest bed, but she made him do all the rest. I know that DD was turned on to that enema from Ted because I saw how moist and slick she had become between her lips that also were swollen. I'm not sure if Ted is that observant but DD was into that scene and fair warning to MM, so am I.

I'm not some young school girl and maybe I should just own it that I'm fully into DD 🌹 and I want our men to feel and be part of all of this, whatever THIS is. 🌹

As of this moment, I have not had another man in a sexual way in my marriage with my husband “Ted” ❤️ and his being asked to give @Dahiana an enema is a major step in our lives. I am going to ask DD's husband @Meat_Monster to do the same with me as soon as we can make it happen.

Keeping that in mind @TrinaStarr,

I know that DD was turned on to that enema from Ted because I saw how moist and slick she had become between her lips that also were swollen. I'm not sure if Ted is that observant but DD was into that scene and fair warning to MM, so am I.

Trina when you get undressed however so much you need or want to receive your first enema from @Meat_Monster you are becoming involved in a sexual way with another man outside of your marriage. 🌹 I believe you realize this just as much as your Aunt @Lora_C realized that she had initiated sexual contact with @Cedar even though she, and they, considered it ‘just enemas’ and that is evident in what they so beautifully wrote about at the outset of their thread. The very first enema I had with @Cedar outside of our ‘little circle’ at the time was something I considered sexual in nature even though there was not any PIV sex at the first few times. I may not have admitted it to myself the first few times with EB but enemas are sexual for me.

Do yourself a favour and drop any pretenses and proceed with enjoying your sexploration. 🌹