MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

I masturbate every day, usually 2 or 3 times, with rare exception since any desire for sex has left my wife. However, I am 71, have had by-pass surgery, am on an insulin pump and lost my prostate to cancer. So, I do not get an erection and do not cum. Nonetheless, stroking my dick is still enjoyable. When watching porn and giving myself a good stroking, I can achieve the feeling I used to get when climaxing in that one more stroke would make me think I'd pass out from the pleasure.

It depends on the week 3 to 4 times a week in the shower.

This is a great thread! Most of my married male friends complain about the lack of sex in their lives, but I never asked if they masturbate. When I was married, I did........and still do at 75. One must remember three things about most men. They don't cry, lie, or masturbate. Did you ever hear one admit to any or all?

About three or four times a week, relieves stress. . lol

Generally once a day. Sometimes will skip a day or two deliberately to increase my level of arousal so that when I next masturbate my orgasm will be more intense. Occasionally I find I have to release multiple times on the same day (this was the usual situation when I was a teen) Will masturbate in bed and in the shower but almost always reach orgasm and ejaculate when in bed.

One must remember three things about most men. They don't cry, lie, or masturbate. Did you ever hear one admit to any or all?

Yes, i've heard men admit that certain things made them cry.

Yes, i've heard men confess to me that they lied to somebody for various reasons. People feel more honest about themselves by confessing to someone that they've lied.

Yes, I've not only heard men admit to masturbating, but admit to doing it while chatting with me, and admit that they've masturbated to pics of me.

Have i ever heard one person admit to doing all 3 ? Not that i can recall

I do regularly especially after I come here. Always have though I go through cycles where I don't for a month or two. I rationalize that it is better than cheating. So for about 20 years I have about three times a week. Usually in the tub or shower and always if I shave my body. I less frequently do so in the bedroom and I sleep alone.

There are times when I have after having sex because I was told to just hurry up. I found that it was very enjoyable as I could control the sensation and stop when the urge to climax happened to quickly. It is not uncommon for me to stroke for an hour before I do in order to enjoy the sensation.

I do it every day, but without orgasm or ejaculation.

I masturbate to orgasm normally 2-3 times a week, depending in great part the amount of privacy I have from my wife. There are weeks where I don't at all if we are together constantly, like on a trip together. I hate "quickies" at this point in my life, so I won't sneak off and rush one. If my wife is out of town visiting kids and grandkids, that is another story entirely. When these opportunities are approaching, I will do al I can to clear my schedule so I can spend a majority of my day naked, surfing the net, chatting here on Zity, and masturbating. As for playful masturbation not to orgasm, I do that every morning when I shower and at night in bed, normally penis and anal play.

It depends on my mood but usually 2-3 times per week. Usually in the bathroom.

When I was married and doing shift work I would masturbate about twice a week, but i would always edge myself for a good while as that always gave me an intense cum. Now I edge myself for 2-3 days before letting my spunk fly, when i do it it is mainly on the sofa or bed.

Like the OP, probably 4 times per month, though not in the shower. Lately my partner and I have been having sex on Sunday evenings. I take a Viagra pill prior and we have an enjoyable session and then the following morning she leaves to meet her sisters at a local gym. I'm not sure whether I still have some of the chemical in my system or just the memories of the previous evening but I have a semi-hard-on from the moment I wake up. She isn't interested in a repeat performance, so after she leaves, I find something stimulating on the internet and enjoy relieving the Monday morning pressure.

Usually at least once a week. Sometimes on my own, in the shower or in the bedroom. Sometimes my wife likes to join if I tell her what I'm going to do. She likes to watch as I'm facedown, sometimes joining by caressing my cheeks or balls or anus.

Daily at least once, in the bathroom ...

Sex once or twice a week and masturbation about twice a week.

Daily, usually in front of the computer or in bed!

Daily in my downstairs den but I only orgasm about four times a week. But when I'm alone and have time I'll masturbate to orgasm three times in one day.

Probably 4 times a week

Specifically if i know im going to score sex with wifey

(Once a week at best) so i can last longer lol

Now at age of late 70s, once a week to once a month. Magic wand, e stim, vac pump, hand, its all good.

Younger wife by 17 years, we usually get it on on weekends. Mutual masturbation, oral, etc. Can't penetrate anymore due to type 2, bp meds.

Considering going to Male Performance clinic to try injections. Cost is said to be much less than pills that do not work anymore.

I masturbate in the shower with my wife right after we had sex because I still had the urge to have another orgasm

@ang4joy said

I masturbate in the shower with my wife right after we had sex because I still had the urge to have another orgasm

Why don't you have sex with her again?

Wouldn't that be more pleasurable for you both?

I always ask her to do it again

Daily, usually in front of the computer or in bed!

Exactly!

In my experience as a (previously) married man, the last thing i would expect to be doing while married to that cold fish is having sex. All i can say looking back at that period of my life is 'thank god for the internet'.

When I was married I masturbated about twice a week with the help of my wife. I would lie in bed and she would play with my ass and butt plug until I came.

Sometimes once a week and then sometimes four or fives times a week. No routine just what ever creates the moment.

I generally masturbate on a daily basis, the wife and I have opposing schedules so I pretty much have full run of the house while she is at work.

I have been married 37 years. I always masturbated--probably a couple times a week for many years. The last few years, my libido has been much higher than my wife's. I also have learned tantra and semen retention--so I have found orgasmic pleasure beyond ejaculation!! So, I masturbate every day, when I can find the time and quiet, and often for one to two hours. I used to feel guilty, but tantra has taught me not to feel guilty about my sexuality. I am not cheating on my wife and have never had an affair. She knows I masturbate, and has even told me on occasions, when i asked to have sex with her and she was not in the mood, to go and masturbate. It is a different form of pleasure than sex with my wife, but it is very pleasurable, especially since i have learned tantra and can experience orgasmic bliss without ejaculating, which means i do not feel depleted or tired afterwards. Pure pleasure!!

I masturbate to orgasm usually 4 days a week while the wife is working. We don't have sex anymore due to "issues" we both have.

Always horny so when wife leaves I get to get excited.

I have about two hours of alone time every morning while my wife sleeps. I love to sit in my chair and edge for that time and do it every day. I will go to the bathroom during the day and do it just because I am horny. I love the feel of a wet cock and my precum under the foreskin always keeps it that way. I am a 73 year old male that still enjoy a fruitful sex life with my wife. We make love with each other at least 3-5 times a week but still have the need and desire to masturbate and edge. I would like someone else stated:":masturbate and edge and NOT cum then ruin those feelings with the culmination of quick sexual gratification that cannot be duplicated again quickly" I do this every day of the week...have been married for 39 years