MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

3 - 4 times a week, like to edge if I get time, but that can be a challenge.

Very interesting topic. Glad to read all the posts.

In my late seventies, masturbation to orgasm now needs either Viagra or a vibrator. Both are a schlep - maybe once a month! Married sex is still very much on the agenda, but due to the debilitation of age and illness, happens about twice a month if we are both well enough. My solo activities are now mostly anal only (no orgasm, alas). I like to stretch. I can get a standard 750 ml PET bottle (I have a vinegar bottle now) to disappear up my bum - hole closed with it inside. I fill the empty screw cap bottle with warm water, Then I cover the cap and any ridges with a soaked toilet paper pad so that it's smooth going in. After some loosening exercises and lots of lubrication with soap, I insert this cap end first,in very slow stages. I stand it on the shower floor and squat over it. It takes about five minutes to get it in and it's a major rush for me.

Johnny

Usually once or twice a day, maybe more if I'm travelling for work and bored, maybe less when the wife is up for some sex. I prefer to masturbate in bed, lying on my back. I tried the shower a few times as a teenager, when that was the only option for privacy, but I just don't like to be standing up when I come.

Now that I am 64, the number of times I masturbate depends on the amount of sex I have with my wife every day. I now am satisfied if I ejaculate twice a day normally. My wife likes a proper fuck only once a day. If she also gives me a blow job (she likes sucking cock) then i usually do not masturbate. If not, I masturbate. I like masturbating in the bath. It is easier to get lubed up, and at the point I am about to shoot my load I turn into the water and it partially replicates being inside my wife's pussy. ,

I masturbate every day, usually 2 or 3 times, with rare exception since any desire for sex has left my wife. However, I am 71, have had by-pass surgery, am on an insulin pump and lost my prostate to cancer. So, I do not get an erection and do not cum. Nonetheless, stroking my dick is still enjoyable. When watching porn and giving myself a good stroking, I can achieve the feeling I used to get when climaxing in that one more stroke would make me think I'd pass out from the pleasure.

It depends on the week 3 to 4 times a week in the shower.

This is a great thread! Most of my married male friends complain about the lack of sex in their lives, but I never asked if they masturbate. When I was married, I did........and still do at 75. One must remember three things about most men. They don't cry, lie, or masturbate. Did you ever hear one admit to any or all?

About three or four times a week, relieves stress. . lol

Generally once a day. Sometimes will skip a day or two deliberately to increase my level of arousal so that when I next masturbate my orgasm will be more intense. Occasionally I find I have to release multiple times on the same day (this was the usual situation when I was a teen) Will masturbate in bed and in the shower but almost always reach orgasm and ejaculate when in bed.

One must remember three things about most men. They don't cry, lie, or masturbate. Did you ever hear one admit to any or all?

Yes, i've heard men admit that certain things made them cry.

Yes, i've heard men confess to me that they lied to somebody for various reasons. People feel more honest about themselves by confessing to someone that they've lied.

Yes, I've not only heard men admit to masturbating, but admit to doing it while chatting with me, and admit that they've masturbated to pics of me.

Have i ever heard one person admit to doing all 3 ? Not that i can recall

I do regularly especially after I come here. Always have though I go through cycles where I don't for a month or two. I rationalize that it is better than cheating. So for about 20 years I have about three times a week. Usually in the tub or shower and always if I shave my body. I less frequently do so in the bedroom and I sleep alone.

There are times when I have after having sex because I was told to just hurry up. I found that it was very enjoyable as I could control the sensation and stop when the urge to climax happened to quickly. It is not uncommon for me to stroke for an hour before I do in order to enjoy the sensation.

I do it every day, but without orgasm or ejaculation.

I masturbate to orgasm normally 2-3 times a week, depending in great part the amount of privacy I have from my wife. There are weeks where I don't at all if we are together constantly, like on a trip together. I hate "quickies" at this point in my life, so I won't sneak off and rush one. If my wife is out of town visiting kids and grandkids, that is another story entirely. When these opportunities are approaching, I will do al I can to clear my schedule so I can spend a majority of my day naked, surfing the net, chatting here on Zity, and masturbating. As for playful masturbation not to orgasm, I do that every morning when I shower and at night in bed, normally penis and anal play.

It depends on my mood but usually 2-3 times per week. Usually in the bathroom.

When I was married and doing shift work I would masturbate about twice a week, but i would always edge myself for a good while as that always gave me an intense cum. Now I edge myself for 2-3 days before letting my spunk fly, when i do it it is mainly on the sofa or bed.

Like the OP, probably 4 times per month, though not in the shower. Lately my partner and I have been having sex on Sunday evenings. I take a Viagra pill prior and we have an enjoyable session and then the following morning she leaves to meet her sisters at a local gym. I'm not sure whether I still have some of the chemical in my system or just the memories of the previous evening but I have a semi-hard-on from the moment I wake up. She isn't interested in a repeat performance, so after she leaves, I find something stimulating on the internet and enjoy relieving the Monday morning pressure.

Usually at least once a week. Sometimes on my own, in the shower or in the bedroom. Sometimes my wife likes to join if I tell her what I'm going to do. She likes to watch as I'm facedown, sometimes joining by caressing my cheeks or balls or anus.

Daily at least once, in the bathroom ...

Sex once or twice a week and masturbation about twice a week.

Daily, usually in front of the computer or in bed!

Daily in my downstairs den but I only orgasm about four times a week. But when I'm alone and have time I'll masturbate to orgasm three times in one day.

Probably 4 times a week

Specifically if i know im going to score sex with wifey

(Once a week at best) so i can last longer lol

Now at age of late 70s, once a week to once a month. Magic wand, e stim, vac pump, hand, its all good.

Younger wife by 17 years, we usually get it on on weekends. Mutual masturbation, oral, etc. Can't penetrate anymore due to type 2, bp meds.

Considering going to Male Performance clinic to try injections. Cost is said to be much less than pills that do not work anymore.

I masturbate in the shower with my wife right after we had sex because I still had the urge to have another orgasm

@ang4joy said

I masturbate in the shower with my wife right after we had sex because I still had the urge to have another orgasm

Why don't you have sex with her again?

Wouldn't that be more pleasurable for you both?

I always ask her to do it again

Daily, usually in front of the computer or in bed!

Exactly!

In my experience as a (previously) married man, the last thing i would expect to be doing while married to that cold fish is having sex. All i can say looking back at that period of my life is 'thank god for the internet'.

Every couple of days; various locations.

When I was married I masturbated about twice a week with the help of my wife. I would lie in bed and she would play with my ass and butt plug until I came.