MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

I am happily married and still fancy the arse of my wife, however her appetite for sex doesn't match mine, so masturbation is a regular part of my life. I would say that I wank almost daily. Sometimes I come by hand and other times by estim.

Several times a week. Our marriage has been sexless for more than half of its 43 years. Self-pleasure has been a better alternative for me than the risk of discovered affairs or the pain (and cost) of divorce. I've been masturbating since about age 13, in the shower before getting dressed for school. The shower is still my favorite place to do it.

I often have to "rub one out" just to be able to concentrate on work, lol.

Compulsive repetitive masturbation has been described in those inside a siege situation. I guess marriage could be considered a seige situation sometimes.

I often have to "rub one out" just to be able to concentrate on work, lol.

Ah ... so you're like the Matthew McConaughey character in 'Wolf of Wall Street' ... hope you make as much as his character did ... ha ha ha

Been in a sexless marriage for a few years. I usually masturbate 1-3 times a day, while sitting in my reclining desk chair in front of my pc in the overnight hours when everyone else is asleep. Where i can look at images or videos.

I've been in a relationship for many years and recently married (gay). It's been pretty sexless, but the companionship has been great. I masturbate every night to videos using estim. Estim is often better than regular sex for me.

When younger I was pretty active, so I had some relationships on the outside. My partner has just never been into sex much for some reason and it just seems a topic to let slide. In my youth I had to masturbate 3 or 4 times a day for years. I also alternate between estim and by hand becasue I worry sometimes about the long term effects of too much estim.

Being I'm in a Domme/sub relationship, my sub best not being masturbating without first being approved by me. I usually have him masturbate when I am there, about every other month. This is done to just have the orgasm be just a bit "less" because he isn't fucking me. The release is there, pain is also a part of it, and usually involves an enema but he doesn't get a pussy.

Last month I had to be gone one day. I left him a note telling him how much soapy enema he was to take and how long he was to hold the enema if he was not able to masturbate to an orgasm. My sub choice to not masturbate and held his enema for over 20 minutes, despite his tummy wanting it to come out. It did not feel proper to masturbate without me being actually there he said when I returned home. I felt honored he suffered a bit instead of getting a release.

Once a week

Once or twice a week.

I just don't.

My wife and I both have strong sex drives, and we take care of each other's needs too well to need masturbation.

I once heard this rather ironic joke: When does a man stop masturbating? The day he gets divorced!

It's rather sad to read about all the sexless marriages in this thread. I know people stay married for other reasons besides sex, but marriages are seldom sexless by mutual agreement - it's usually attributable to one of the partners and the other is left out in the cold, so to speak. A number of the posts in this thread allude to this sad state of affairs. If this is the case, then not only masturbation, but also a healthy dose of regular "extracurricular" sexual activity by the other is wholly justifiable.

Everyday.

Not married now and currently single. I usually masturbate twice a day, in the morning and before I go to sleep. Got to keep the prostate cleaned out. 😉

Depends about twice a week sometimes after sex I masturbate again

Seems to come in waves, like increased with the more sexual energy felt in my relationship. 3-7 times a week, with 3 and six as the outliers.

3 times a week

Once a week, occasionally two, usually in the shower.

I usually masturbate 4-5 times a week, most times are in my bathroom !!

3 to 4 times a week, usually in front of the computer completely naked, sometimes in the shower

I would be on average it works out to something between five and six times a week.

The worst is when the wife's been cheeky all week but refuses to engage only to change her mind 20 minutes after I took care of business.

My routine is get up around 5 watch porn at the computer every day. My wife and have sex every other morning so on the day on, I don't finish, watch until 6 and go back to bed for sex. The off day I finish myself usually with some butt toy and as I said in another post I always eat my cum. When she goes out for whatever reason I get an extra one in. When she goes on a trip, she gives me a well used pair of panties and tells me to make them a crusty as I can. I will usually cum 4-5 times a day then and finish in the panty. BTW my go to porn is creampie gang bangs, my favorites are the German ones from Spermastudios on x hamster. Just seeing a pussy and ass dripping multiple loads does it for me.

Three or four times a week. Since changing to a less stressful job my mind wanders to erotic thoughts much more frequently, libido climbs and I feel randy the whole time. And I can't always rely on my wife to be on hand so to speak..

At least once a day. My right hand won't go into the shower with me anymore.

Usually every day, unless too busy. Wife only goes for sex once a week or less. Typically do in shower or at computer in the morning.

All the time I'm married

And day I work from home and she's at work or even weekends when she goes out with the kids. Basically any time I have the house to myself.

My frequency of masturbation has varied widely over the course of my long marriage. For the most part I view masturbation as an inferior substitute for sex with a woman. So, early in marriage, when we were both young with active libidos I masturbated only rarely, when we were separated for some reason. As my wife's libido has dwindled more quickly than mine my frequency of masturbation has increased to once or twice per week. I usually masturbate directly into the toilet or in the shower, occasionally lying on the bed.

I masturbate naked almost every day in the bathroom but my wife doesn't know about it. Sex with wife is rare after 30 years.

I masturbate almost daily... It feels great and is healthy to do!