MARRIED MEN: How often do you masturbate, and where?

Sometimes once a week and then sometimes four or fives times a week. No routine just what ever creates the moment.

I generally masturbate on a daily basis, the wife and I have opposing schedules so I pretty much have full run of the house while she is at work.

I have been married 37 years. I always masturbated--probably a couple times a week for many years. The last few years, my libido has been much higher than my wife's. I also have learned tantra and semen retention--so I have found orgasmic pleasure beyond ejaculation!! So, I masturbate every day, when I can find the time and quiet, and often for one to two hours. I used to feel guilty, but tantra has taught me not to feel guilty about my sexuality. I am not cheating on my wife and have never had an affair. She knows I masturbate, and has even told me on occasions, when i asked to have sex with her and she was not in the mood, to go and masturbate. It is a different form of pleasure than sex with my wife, but it is very pleasurable, especially since i have learned tantra and can experience orgasmic bliss without ejaculating, which means i do not feel depleted or tired afterwards. Pure pleasure!!

I masturbate to orgasm usually 4 days a week while the wife is working. We don't have sex anymore due to "issues" we both have.

Always horny so when wife leaves I get to get excited.

I have about two hours of alone time every morning while my wife sleeps. I love to sit in my chair and edge for that time and do it every day. I will go to the bathroom during the day and do it just because I am horny. I love the feel of a wet cock and my precum under the foreskin always keeps it that way. I am a 73 year old male that still enjoy a fruitful sex life with my wife. We make love with each other at least 3-5 times a week but still have the need and desire to masturbate and edge. I would like someone else stated:":masturbate and edge and NOT cum then ruin those feelings with the culmination of quick sexual gratification that cannot be duplicated again quickly" I do this every day of the week...have been married for 39 years

I am a 73 year old male that still enjoy a fruitful sex life with my wife. We make love with each other at least 3-5 times a week but still have the need and desire to masturbate and edge.

You're my kind of guy!

I masturbate at least once a day and some days as much as 5 times. I love playing with my dick and absoultly love to cum ?

From 2014.12.09

I'll get a hard on and stroke several times an evening. I only masturbate to ejaculation a couple times a week. Obviously there are exceptions from a few times in a day - to maybe all week without. My favorite is into a sink full of hot soapy water - plunging into it at the critical moment.

I can usually count on my wife for one hand job a week - some uninspired and some incredible. And intercourse about once a month. Menopause can be a bitch.

From 2014.12.16

I see a lot of responses "in bed". Are any of you masturbating while your wife is present?

If so, what is her reaction?

Funny to look back at old replies sometimes. In 2014 sex with my wife was pretty rare and not that great. While I'm sure my wife knew I masturbated, I kept it private and it was not a topic of conversations.

Today, our sex life has made a marvelous comeback and the majority of my semen winds up deep in my wife's ass!

Most of my masturbating occurs in the early morning, edging morning wood before the alarm goes off. The fact that my wife is laying in bed next to me makes it that much more satisfying.

When we have sex, my wife usually continues to get off on her magic wand long after I've shot my load. After some recovery time, I'll often lube up and pull out a second orgasm laying by her side. Once I pick up the pace, it really seems to send her over the edge. There are also times when she is probing my ass, I'll guide her other hand to give attention to my balls and I'll take care of the jacking off part.

Occasionally I feel the urge for one last self induced (private) orgasm before Monday rolls around - but after that it's back to edging until the next round with the wife. 😃

Im only recently married, so I don't know how much my reply counts haha.

I usually masturbate 3-4 times during my one week off every month. The wife isn't too keen on anything during that time...yet. It's usually just in the bathroom in the morning before work.

Every other day the wife leaves me drained so it's a bit challenging to go from full throttle to nothing for a week!

I think that this question can only be answered statistically. Because the masturbation behavior is dependent on age.

I am 72 years old and masturbate since my 9th year regularly d. H. Every day. (For many years I've masturbated regularly 3 times a day.) That's 64 years. During this time I masturbated about 27 532 times. Even now I masturbate on average 1.4 times a week. Therefore, I have the exact numbers because I have out of interest a sex diary.

I tried to get along (masturbating) without masturbation at the age of 23, 21 days I endured, it was hell.

It seems to me that old long-time masturbators have the same problem.

My problem is that unfortunately I can not masturbate every day as I am used to it. The reason is that the erection fails and also the stimulation to orgasm is not sufficient because the penis has become relatively insensitive.

Sex masturbation is for me.

I'm mid sixties. Wife and I have sex approximately twice per week. I masturbate about 3 to 4 times a week.

I masturbate quite often. Sometimes I do daily but usually I do at least every second day. Usually I do it under the shower.

Married for many years I have always masturbated daily, still do.

Varies and depends on how often my wife is interested in sex - which also seems to vary. I'm 63 now. Up till a year or so ago I used to knock one out at least once a week, but a bout of ill health seems to have reduced that considerably. As I am recovering, hopefully that will change.

I suspect I average 6x per week. When my wife is out of town I figure I average twice a day. I would never give it up, but it's frustrating afterwards when I realize how much time I've allocated to it. I like the slow buildup....but really is disruptive to my life.

It depends I probably masturbate at least once a day sometimes more depending on how much sex with wife. She likes to deny me from cumming so then have to sneak somewhere to masrurbate.

If my wife is out of town on a business trip, I will masturbate daily, at least once but often twice. Otherwise, I will usually do it on days that we don't have sex. Luckily for me my wife has a high sex drive like I do, so we have regular sex. Not every day of the week, but close. We will go a day or two during the workweek without having sex due to being busy and/or tired from a long day. Weekends are pretty much guaranteed two or three times a day on both days. During the workweek it's usually sex once per day, at least two but usually three of the 5 days. I usually masturbate in the bedroom, since I get home from work before my wife. I will rub one out while I am changing into my gym clothes, then head to the gym to meet my wife for our workout.

My prostate is drained regularly, from what I've read that is a good way to help prevent an enlarged prostate and prostate problems in general as I age!

Although not presently married I was for more than 2 decades. I was a regular once a day minimum, even if we had sex on that day. Libido wise my spouse and I were 3 timers weekly (after the first couple of years and as responsiblilties and age increased the intimacy decreased in kind.-Where-bedroom, bathroom, porch, living room, dining room, kitchen, laundry room-

I masturbate at least 4-5 times per week ..... wife isn’t sexually active so ...you do what you have to normally just lay in my bed and masturbate ....works for me

I masturbate every day....occasionally twice a day. Start out stimulating myself with the hand held shower - then finish it off later in the day. Wife isn't interested in sex any more so this is my only release. Like to do it with a butt plug inside me.

I wank every day and find i need to do it now or cannot sleep maybe i need to see a Dr but could never talk about it with my real GP

4 times a week for me on average. No specific locatoin

I masturbate 2-4 times a week....mostly in the shower 😃

I masturbate at least daily in bed or in the shower: on occasion masturbate twice a day.

I play with my cock every day, usually downstairs in the den as I chat or watch porn. I generally try to edge for 2 or 3 days before letting myself cum - but what a great orgasm when I finally do!

Every day..... Good old habits are difficult to give up!.......

At the moment at least twice a day.

Don’t have to .. she keeps me emptied. But when I do it’s at her request, on her !

I'm not married but I'm cohabitating with my long-term girlfriend and we probably have sex daily, sometimes multiple times throughout the day. So these days I don't masturbate much. Before I could easily masturbate 2-3 times a day, but now it's just once in a while and usually we masturbate together side-by-side, or if she is having a heavy day or in combination with a nice blow job. I do touch myself often and tend to sleep with my hand on my cock/balls. I guess it's like my blankie at night! 😉