Experimenting with Homosexual Activities when Young

My best friend Larry had a secluded back yard pool we would often swim in. One day his older brother Billy joined us. To our surprise, he was naked and he convinced us to get naked as well. Later we got out of the pool and stretched out on air mattresses. As we lay there we saw the Billy rub his uncut cock and get hard. It kind of got me excited and I began to get hard. He reached over and began to stroke it for me. Then, to my surprise he leaned over and began to suck it. I glanced at Larry and saw him playing with his cock, Larry asked if I liked it and I said yes so he asked me to suck him. He was so much bigger than I was but I took him in my mouth anyway. That was my first experience with oral sex and I loved it, Then he told me to suck Larry so I took him in my mouth and sucked, As I sucked, I felt Bill spreading my as cheeks and licking my ass hole. The next thing I knew, I felt this pressure against me as his cock probed my virgin asshole and slip inside me.Now I had one cock in my mouth and another one in my ass. I continued to suck Larry as Bill pumped my ass and Larry surprised me by coming in my mouth. Bill kept sliding in and out and I felt his cock throb as he came deep in my ass. Larry then clamped his mouth on my cock and took my cum. This was the first of many more suck and fuck fests.

I am not into guys, I just do not have feelings that way. I do have gay friends though and I have asked them some perhaps stupid to them questions about some of the things you hear, and I have heard a surprising number of them have at least some truth to them. As far as having multiple partners and some of the pickup or hookup spots. My friends are are all according to them in a rarer stable relationship but (BTW, keep in mind that I live in a college saturated town where perhaps 20% of the population shifts in and out every year) but the average homosexual male is much more promiscuous. I am not stating this as fact, but just things that more than one gay friend of mine have told me.

I always ask the squeaky questions.. I worked with a lot of Chinese and the preferred meat is neither dog or cat. It is ass. Go figure. And I heard that one from more than one source as well.

As I have written in another post, I used to play doctor with one of my school mates. We would inspect our penises, retract the foreskin and play around with our buttholes. We used pencils or crayons to "take the temperature" of the patient. Most of the time the two of us would eventually get hard during our play sessions. Sometimes my friend tried to insert his penis into my butthole and vice versa. Of course we didn't know we were engaging in homosexual activities. We simply didn't know about these labels.

My first such experience was playing doctor with a friend my age, around 6, in a vacant house at the far end of our property. By age 9 or certainly 10, I knew I was more interested and curious about other males than I was about girls. Changing rooms, pool houses, locker rooms were all communal back then. I learned to swim at the local YMCA where the free swims in the afternoon were all no-suits-allowed and all ages swam together. I looked, a lot, but didn't know how to touch, so to speak. In 7th grade I made friends with a classmate who like to swim, too and I'd invite him to come over after school or whenever his mom would let him to swim in our apartment complex community pool. We'd go into my bedroom to change, then walk to the pool. I found that being naked one-on-one with another boy my age was very exciting, especially given that girls, whom I was supposed to like, seemed intimidating and inaccessible. In those days - mid 1950's - male group nudity was thought to be natural (just don't get caught naked with a naked girl). As we stripped out of our street clothes I would turn my back to him, because I would always get an erection and was embarrassed that he might see. At the same time, I desperately wanted to turn around and watch him strip. On about our fourth visit, at a time when neither my mom or dad was home, as we were getting undressed and I was down to my jockey shorts, I heard him say, "It's OK to turn around if you want. I'm hard, too. You can look if you want." I did, and there he was in his shorts, bulging in front, thumbs hooked in the waistband poised to pull them down. I turned around and our eyes met, we pulled our shorts down at the same time. He touched his, and I mine, and we looked for awhile longer. Then he said "You can touch it if you want, but you have to let me touch yours." Well, we did. Eventually, we got our swim trunks on actually went for a swim. Our swim sessions became more frequent until the end of 8th grade when his dad was transferred and the family moved away. I had a friend in high school, a nerdy guy like me who was curious in the same way, but that's a story for another Discussion Topic.

I had a friend in middle school who was always pulling out his dick. I was far too shy for that kind of horse play because I wasn't circumcised and everyone I had ever seen was. But this kid was always pestering to see it, compared who's bigger or has more pubs or whatever.

So I was 13 this summer and wanting to be a little punk. My friend had friends in the neighboring city whom he said were in a gang and I wanted in. It was slick the way this kid manipulated me: getting my hopes up, then telling me I wouldn't get in, didn't have what it took, then getting my hopes up again.

On a sleep over one night he sprung the initiation on me, I have to pull my pants down for 5 minutes and show him my boner. I swelled up with nerves immediately and agreed but only if I could hold it. So I pulled my foreskin down and wrap my fingers around it there to hide it. After a couple minutes of me lying on the floor holding my dick he springs on me that he has to hold it.

I relented and as I removed my hand and his replaced it my foreskin slid up. I had to explain that I was non-circumcised, cus he didn't know about it. He started pulling it up and down a few times and then began masterbating me. It was awkward but exciting, having never had a sexual touch before. In the normal amount of time I shot my load on his hand and my stomache.

We went up stairs to his room after that and he told me initiation wasn't over, I had to do him. Out comes his hard, cut dick and I proceeded to handle him. I noticed his scar 1/3 of the way down from the head, and was surprised by how immobile the skin was. It seemed kind of difficult to jerk off since the skin wasn't there to glide like mine. Eventually he fired off though and shot right over his head into the headboard.

I figured we were done now, but again he said we needed to do more. So, being naive about sex, I layed down under him while he tried to force it in my butt dry. Obviously it hurt and didn't work a bit. So we switched with the same results, and called it quits after that.

I realised pretty soon after that the gang didn't exist and I had just been kinda used for this kids sexual gratification, but it was done at that point so...

A few days later when we were hanging out it came up and we decided to jerk each other off again, simultaneously this time though. I think it happened once more after that if I recall correctly.

Not until 21 then first time was mutual masturbation. Don't know why I waited so long.

My first homosexual experience happened just a few years ago. Im over 40 so yes im a late bloomer. But since i had it i cant get enough. I love playing with other guys. I have a buddy and we text each other alot. He actually stated to me that he prefers sex with me versus having sex with a woman. I agree. We have a great time. I wish now i had an experience when i was young.

I had a friend in middle school who was always pulling out his dick. I was far too shy for that kind of horse play because I wasn't circumcised and everyone I had ever seen was. But this kid was always pestering to see it, compared who's bigger or has more pubs or whatever.

I had a friend in the 7th grade who asked to see my penis one day after school. I agreed if he would show me his as well. We were in his bedroom. He told me to go first and I pulled down my pants and briefs and exposed a Tanner III circumcised penis. He started to play with it and give me a handjob. I stopped him so I would not ejaculate before I saw his. He reluctantly pulled down his pants and briefs and out came a Tanner III uncircumcised penis—the first uncircumcised one I had ever seen. He was shy about showing his too.

What age did you get over being embarrassed for others to see your penis? What happened that helped you get over it?

My interest to same gender started early. I did some "doctor games" with a friend from neighborhood when I was 7 and he was 9, because we went to same school (but different classes). It was to find out about our bodies I guess, but without sexual background. He had an medic play kit, including children's stethoscope, lamp and other stuff and a plastic thermometer.

When we were alone at his home sometimes he went to bathroom and catched the real thermometer. Unfortunately he moved away 1-2 yrs later but he left the medic play kit for me.

Some experiments I did with my brother when I was 10 and he was 13. It was his sexual awakening and we both came home from hospital after complicated lung infection, got temperature taken rectally there and got in contact with other children same or higher age. However, we played kind of doctor games and got more and more interested in playing with our penis. He also took my temperature for fun or inserted other things like pencil or the already mentioned plastic thermometer from the play kit, sometimes the real thermometer. He also showed me how to wank, but I had no success at that point of time.

When I was 14 I had to do a school project together with a schoolmate from higher grade (so he was 16, got 17 during the time). After finishing work we got more and more friends, and one day he was asking me how my temperature was measured. First I was very shy, turned red, and answered "in my bum", and I believe, he was aspecting it. We made jokes about it, then came dirty talk, one thing lead to another... finally I had my first time. Although his penis was very large (17cm I guess) and I was even smaller than now (I still have a small body) we had several runs until it was possible for him to fuck my bum. But he was the one I ll ever keep in mind, because on him I lost my "virginity". Unfortunately he moved away 1 year later.

I slowly realised that I was gay from about 11 or 12 years of age. Before then I was always attracted to boys; played football, climbed trees etc and all of the boy type stuff but always dreampt of going camping in a tent or similar, and spending the night with a boy I fancied at school. Needless to say I never did, but when my age was measured in double figures, I realised that other boys turned me on and I met a boy that lived very near to me and we used to play together in the street, and with others, in our school holidays. Needless to say we spoke of many things and often about wanking and how older boys found it so stimulating etc. After while, we found somewhere private where we could both go, and he would often get out his penis and play with it, but never cum, but I was always too shy to do the same. Partly because I was circumcised and he was not, which was a source of embarrassment to me. He never forced himself on me as we were about the same age and although he was slightly taller and thinner than me, we had so much in common, we were very open with each other with everything, but neither of us were confident enough to take our fumblings any further, which, I now feel is a pity. Looking back we should have gone swimming etc because that would have allowed us to get used to being naked in each others company and things may have gone further between us. I never had full on sex with another boy until I was 21 and by then I had found someone I would stay with for several years.

Also experimented with a schoolmate around grade 5. Taught me how to masturbate but he didn’t want to do oral. We would jack each other and eventually did anal sex, which we both enjoyed for a year or two. Used Vaseline as lube and did it doggy style and eventually would sit on each other’s cock and jack each other! Ended when we both discovered girls!

I was all about trying to get a peek at my neighbor friends dicks from a very young age. Thinking back, it wasn't ever difficult to convince a few to ever pull them out. Around age 8 or so one neighbor kid loved to brag about his older brother's Playboy collection so naturally I was interested. We made one of those bed sheet "forts" in his bedroom and silently started thumbing through a couple magazines. We joked about our hard ons and I pretended to not believe he had one.... made him show me. 😃 After he pulled his pants down he asked to see mine and I was happy to do so. Somehow the topic then turned to how girls suck them to make them soft, so I asked if it was ok to try on him. When he said yes i dove in and sucked on the tip for a few seconds until I got scared of being caught. I begged him to try that on me but he was real reluctant. He gave my dick a couple little kisses then it was all over. After that day though I was always looking for the same kind of opportunity.

Most of the later preteen and teen years were at friends pools where we would pull our shorts down and inspect each others dicks and butts underwater wearing goggles. How i wished just one of them would have got the nerve to give it a pull or a suck.... 😃

I never experimented as a teenager. My first experiences were in my late 20s.

Somehow I found myself asking my sister-in-law questions that led to answers and eventually I asked her if she would be willing to touch me. I was surprised at my boldness. I sat on her washer while he guys were in the living room watching television. She lifted my shirt and discreetly touched my breasts, and tweaked my nipples. Then she looked at me and asked me if I was ready. I nodded and then she slid her hand underneath my skirt. It was a slow, delicious process, as she dabbled with me.

She did not allow me to reciprocate.

We have had a special relationship since, and although we have never been sexually intimate per se since, we are quite close.

I have also been with a woman, a former coworker of mine. She and I played around a few times and even had a threesome with my husband once. Eventually she and I fell away.

I don’t remember who said it earlier but “pleasure is pleasure.” And, by that same token, beauty is beauty. And it is true.

It has been many years since I have been with anyone other than my husband.

As a teenager I knew that something was different about me. I didn't know what, but just knew that something was different.

It was only after walking into someone who I knew late one night whilst dressed in female clothes that my world opened up.

I had a very sheltered childhood where anything to do with sex was taboo, and was never talked about it in our home.

The person who I met late at night was working the streets as a sex worker. She was just as shocked to be discovered as I was. She was not really that much older than I was, but she had 2 young children to bring upon her own.

To cut a long story short she was the only person who I had ever been able to talk to, and she put me at ease explaining things to me, and listening to what I was telling her.

Within about 4 or 5 weeks I had left school, fell out with my parents, left home and gone to live with her. I transitioned straight away and have never worn any male clothes since. They were all left at my parents house.

I got by with the few female clothes I owned ,and by using some of my new friends hand me downs.

I knew absolutely nothing about sex other than the very basic lessons that we had at school, which I had not really understood, as everything taught didn't seem to interest me, and the conversations I used to have with 4 or 5 female friends I had at school when we used to talk about which boys we all fancied.

Until meeting her I had never even seen a female body.

She started to teach me things and show me what was what and how things worked.

I needed money to live as I needed to pay her some rent, I also needed clothes of my own and make up etc, so I started joining my friend and her friends and I became a sex worker.

I only did oral or hand jobs at first for obvious reasons, but from what Jenny had taught me, and from reading some of her books and magazines, I had learned how a man would masturbate, and Jenny had taught me how to give a blow job.

I loved living as a female, and I loved getting male attention, sucking a man's cock or giving a man a hand job just sort of came naturally to me, as I felt very comfortable and relaxed living my new life.

Jenny continued to teach me new things and we would practice with each other. So I suppose this was how I sort of became bi, as I enjoyed sex with both genders.

With time and experience I progressed to learn about anal, and eventually progressed from just doing street work , to working at the same escort agency as Jenny, and also working in a flat for someone who we both knew.

Jenny and myself continued to work from the agency as a lesbian double, and I still enjoy sex with a female just as much as I enjoy sex with a man even to this day.

I was much older - late thirties - before I did anything with another woman.

I did play doctor with a female cousin on many occasions but it stopped before puberty and we never overtly sexualized it. No kissing, no orgasms etc. I knew I found women attractive but I never acted on it and I got pregnant and married during my Freshman year of college so I never had the whole crazy twenties experience that many did. I did return to college during my divorce and I did enjoy some same sex experiences during that period so I guess that counts as college experimentation?

I also was late in trying a bi experience - my first ( and so far only) was when I was 60. I met a younger local guy (around 35) online and we chatted for a few months, mostly about females, but eventually about trying bi. he had tried it several times and had enjoyed it so we decided to meet. We met in the underground garage of a local mall and climbed into the back seat of my car, which has tinted windows. We then took turns sucking each other off and swallowing each others loads and sucking each other dry. I did enjoy it and would likely do it again in the right circumstances.

For me I was 16 and was at a sleepover at a friends. She was 17 and we double dated that night and we were in bed talking about our dates and she started talking about orgasms. She asked if I was wet from what we were talking about. We ended up masturbating each other and eventually oral during future sleepovers.

This was pretty stupid. Not sure of the age - maybe 9 - 11 - grade school cuz we went to different Jr Highs. Kid down the street and I decided to shave each other butts. Old double edge razors. I nicked him and he was afraid his folks would find out. One time childish experiment!

No, thanks. NO interest on my part. I've turned down 2 proposals for what sounded like one-night stands with guys many years ago,with a sense of having dodged a bullet. More power to you experimenters and devoteés, but not my thing. I've had all the trouble I can handle over the years just dating and twice marrying women. To each their own.

Eric

I've had all the trouble I can handle over the years just dating and twice marrying women.

That's just it, Eric. Men are not complicated like women are. Easier to deal with. Mutual gratification and then you just go back about your business. No relationship and love mess or anything like that. Just sex. We only have this one life with which to enjoy our bodies. Can't have sex after we die, so the time is now.

JTMac, women enjoy a just sex relationship also, not just men, not ALL women get emotional about sex, some of us just want to have kinky fun! But Eric I see your point too, yes it would be wonderful to find a love match that includes all our wonderful kinks and it's very hard to find that person. But play while you still can, life is too short!

I'm sure what you say is true, and I appreciate the thoughts and encouragement, but I'm just not attracted to men in the slightest. When I see naked pictures or a movie or walk into a room with a naked or sexily dressed woman, I get the tingle in my groin and start an erection. When I see a naked man, especiallly if I think he might touch me, no tingle, no erection, I just want to walk out or ask him to get dressed. Even trading enemas with another guy is just an unpleasant thought. I was briefly in two threesomes many years ago, but ended them after one or two nights just because I was unattracted and uncomfortable with the naked man being in the room with us. I'll just have to stick to looking for another 1) loving 2) sexy 3) kinky woman, in that order. Wolf girl, we have a few kinks and other things in common. Too bad we are so far apart or we could get to know each other. Good luck to you finding a satisfying kinky partner or playmate. Send volunteers my way.

Thanks,

Eric

Eric,. I understand, I've never had anything tingle when around a woman, not saying it couldn't happen one day, but I sure tingle around some men!! I am curious to know what another woman would taste like (pussy) and how a woman's nipple feels in my mouth. Maybe one day. I hope you find someone, even if it's just someone to play with, and I love your Chuck's! I have a purple, yellow and green pair!

Eric,. I understand, I've never had anything tingle when around a woman, not saying it couldn't happen one day, but I sure tingle around some men!! I am curious to know what another woman would taste like (pussy) and how a woman's nipple feels in my mouth. Maybe one day. I hope you find someone, even if it's just someone to play with, and I love your Chuck's! I have a purple, yellow and green pair!

Wolfgirl66,

Nice. Trust me (very straight male talking here) that a woman's pussy aroma and taste and the way her nipples feel in your

mouth is definitely an experience worth having. I'm always delighted to have residual pussy aroma left on my mustache so I can smell it for a good long time. On extremely rare occasions I've sort of theoretically wondered how it would feel to have a real solid erect penis going in and out of my butt, as it seems very appealing to me. However, as soon as I realized that it was attached to a male I have no interest at all. I suppose on the extremely lucky chance I might meet a very attractive trans woman before surgery, I might be able to enjoy her penis inside me. Perhaps I'll be lucky enough to get some pegging if I can find a new switch partner.

What Chucks are you referring to, the white ones in my avatar? I have a very small gallery here in Images which also includes me wearing some white low Chucks while I'm taking an enema. Yours sound very colorful - send me a pic of them or better yet, you in them. I'd really like to see them on you as sneakers especially Converse and Keds canvas are extremely sexy to me. Thanks for your delightful notes and for being concerned and wanting to help me. That's very sweet (always a compliment).

Thanks,

Eric

JTMac, women enjoy a just sex relationship also, not just men, not ALL women get emotional about sex, some of us just want to have kinky fun! But Eric I see your point too, yes it would be wonderful to find a love match that includes all our wonderful kinks and it's very hard to find that person. But play while you still can, life is too short!

@Wolfgirl66 , while this is true, finding those particular type women is not easy by any means. It may require a more aggressive search, which would entail having to go through what Eric, for example, has gone through, just to "maybe" find someone as you refer to.

I've had all the trouble I can handle over the years just dating and twice marrying women.

Considering the operative word here is "trouble", it reminds me of a well known saying that, unfortunately, rings true: "Not matter how beautiful a woman may appear, somebody somewhere is sick and tired of putting up with her shit". Now I'm not anti-women or a woman hater by any means. In fact, I would prefer being sexual with a woman than a man. (Now, I have a friend of mine, who seems to have an issue with women. I'm comparatively healthy in that regard - lol)

"Trouble" stems from love and associated feelings. Women tend to value that more, and otherwise don't want to feel like a cheap hoe. Which is all fine and I respect that. However, especially when it comes to later in life, you're going to have folks like your Erics backing away from things because of what he has gone through. And time is running out on the discouraged.

I would like to add, that after the experimentation as an adolescent it took a while but I eventually became very curious about bisexuality. I've never done anything else so I guess I consider myself still vicarious but there is an appeal there.

It's not any attraction to men. I'm very straight in that reguard: I can only imagine loving and being in a relationship with a woman, and am very attracted to wo.en sexually. But there is that whole "non emotional/ no strings" aspect of being with another guy that seems very appealing. Also I'm find I'm attracted to penises, not men, just the dick. Like, it represents sexuality and sexual activity so seeing them brings up my own hormone levels, kinda gets me going, knowing that some sort of sex is starting.

While I could never see myself embracing a man or kissing one, I can imagine doing all the other sexual things with one, if that makes sense.

I never was interested to try anything sexual with females. Males/guys/fellas were much more interesting and attractive to me. From way back to current day.

I'm not seeing that this will change even in my older age to come. All the more for those that do/might.

I never was interested to try anything sexual with females. Males/guys/fellas were much more interesting and attractive to me. From way back to current day.

I'm not seeing that this will change even in my older age to come. All the more for those that do/might.

MissStress,

How did it come about for you to be married to someone who is now your sub?

Thanks,

Eric

I was intrigued by JTMac's first reply, and think that he has hit the nail on the head. I think that due to our nature, the majority of us (males) view sex as just that. Perhaps it's due to men having to be hunter gatherers in our distant past which means most of us are happy to have sex, whether it be with other men or women, spread our seed and go, whereas to me, women view intimacy as a prelude to some sort a commitment. That is how their nature has evolved in the very distant past, as they have usually looked after home and children etc.

At about age 10-11, I had to go have a partial circumcision. I was born with hypospadias and there was extra skin that the doctors suggested be taken off. Prior to the hospital stay, my stepdad was assigned by my mother to give me a talk about what was to happen. On the back porch, we sat down and he had me drop my shorts and he zipped open his pants. He was uncircumcised and he had a really big cock. So in comparing the differences, he fondled my cock and had me hold his and run the foreskin back and forth. I got a hard on and he started to rise to the occasion. He quickly ended the talk and that was that. Later on in the evening my best friend from across the street came over and I told him what happened. We went into the basement and we both pulled out our cocks. He too had a foreskin. We started to play with each other and that led to sucking each others cock. This was the start of a lot of time together. At the age of 14 we moved to another city and I never saw my friend again. To this day I consider myself straight with a big bend. Meaning I like most all kinds of sex and cock sucking is part of that. A big preference for uncut, but any clean cock is fair game. I enjoy swallowing cum. 😉