Experimenting with Homosexual Activities when Young

Nope. Never did, never will. Growing up as a straight boy, teen and young man, I found it perfectly normal to talk with other males and enjoy learning new things about dating, sex and girls, and routine to see other naked males in the locker room or showers at PE class or at the Y or town pool. However, either growing up or now at almost 69 I'm still unable to understand the remotest appeal of M2M physical contact, watching other males masturbate or masturbating or giving oral sex to each other. More power to you for those other fellas who enjoy it, but not for me. Besides, playing with girls, now women, is so much fun.

Eric

Interesting topic because I used to think I was straight. Then at about age 45 I discovered my interest in being "Bi-When-Dressed" as I've mentioned elsewhere... So while before that realization I thought I was straight, figuring how could I be otherwise since I was married, had a family, and my only interest was in have lots of sex with women - but now, thinking about it and of a couple of childhood events where I enjoyed playing a game where another male grabbed my penis and I liked it allot - perhaps there was some latency that I was not aware of.

I didn't have gay sex till I was 22 but I knew I was gay at 11 years old. Just a few months after I hit puberty. It was quite obvious because, no insult to anybody, but I don't like the smell of women. That's just a fact. I have female friends and that but not for sex, no they stink…yuck.

Did mutual wanking when i was younger 13-15. I found that good and exciting.

I grew up in post war London UK and there were several streets over from us that were hit hard during the blitz and some parts of houses still standing which hadn't been demolished yet in the late 40s, early 50s. These were a favourite place for us kids to play and somewhere a couple of us used to go and masturbate when we were about 9 or 10.

We had just emerged from one of these escapades when we were confronted by a man who told us he knew what we had been doing in there. My friend and I proceeded to deny doing anything, but he told us he had seen us wanking, then continued on to say it was OK because he did it all the time and undid his fly and pulled out a what we thought of at the time, very large semi-hard circumcised cock and started to stroke himself to full erection.

Neither my friend or I had seen a circumcised cock other than in drawings and were both quite fascinated if somewhat scared. After a few minutes he asked if we wanted to touch it. He reached out and took my friend's hand and wrapped it around his now very erect cock and holding his hand over my friend's, began to stroke using my friend's hand. As soon as he let go my friend let go too so he turned to me and asked if I would like to do it. Curiosity got the better of me so i reached out and wrapped my hand around his cock. I remember thinking how smooth and warm it felt. It didn't take me too many strokes before he started to come, which kind of took us by surprise. My friends and I hadn't reached that stage of puberty yet. We were just getting dry climaxes.

After he had come he took out a hankie and wiped the come off where it had shot over my hand. Not sure why I wasn't grossed out about it at the time, but my friend and I laughed about it later.

We made small talk for a little while after, then he said he would have to go but maybe we could do it again sometime. We said sure and then took off. We never did see him again, but later found out he was the estranged father of one of the girls in our street and was obviously had a thing for kids. Not sure if that was why he was separated from his family. Never did find out.

no insult to anybody, but I don't like the smell of women. That's just a fact. I have female friends and that but not for sex…

Something I have thought about - does the scent of the those of the opposite sex, or of the same sex to you, attract or repel you. I could never be romantic with another man because the scent of men's skin is a big turn off; whereas a woman's scent is a really big attraction. Thoughts of nuzzling an attractive woman is my idea of heaven.

@LordJim2

Not sure why I wasn't grossed out about it at the time, but my friend and I laughed about it later.

If we were to believe the media, you should have been irretrievably scarred for life. It is nice though to know that there are people who will tell the unsensationalized truth about how many such encounters occur in real life.

I wouldn't class it as “experimenting with Homosexual Activities”; but as i developed early, i was very much a curiosity to other boys in my class. This was even more obvious when showering after swimming & the heat of the shower (or exercise) caused me to become erect; which got a lot of attention from some of the other boys. They were curious as to why i was “different” to them and what i was doing to make my penis big and hard. I had no idea what was happening as was only told by Dr who diagnosed my early puberty that i was growing up quickly (no explanation about puberty or sex)!

As a result of being “different”; a few friends would often want to look and touch me when we were playing. They would often touch my penis and pull the skin back, which would cause it to get even harder and “bounce”. They were very curious by the sticky fluid that would come out and make my penis shiny; initially thinking i was peeing, but realising it wasn't urine.

I wouldn't class any of this as experimenting with homosexual activities - we didn't know anything about sex at that age & certainly didn't do anything else beyond touching our genitals. If asked we wouldn't have known that what were were doing was masturbating.

Yes when I was 10 yrs old. I was at a friend's house for a sleepover. She & I played with each other. She was more developed than me. It did feel really good at the time.

Yes, played around when young; a few games of who could grab my peckeroo through my pants…. but never thought of it as something homosexual despite getting hard and feeling good.

I don’t believe that some same sex sexual experimentation is homosexual at all, especially when very young. All young mammals practice mounting each other before adulthood; only humans are taught to feel bad about it.

Having had some experience with the same sex in my youth, and even a few times as an adult, I’ve never felt or considered myself to be gay or even bisexual. I’m not sexually attracted to guys, but if an interesting usually alcohol fueled opportunity presented itself, curiosity sometimes got the better of me as an adult. I only wish I would have been as open minded to same sex sex as I am now.

Homosexual activities require dedication to the same sex. Same sex activities aren’t always homosexual.

I spent the night with my best friend one night and we decided we wanted to see each other's boobs, neither of us had anything to see at the time. We didn't want to get caught so we went into her closet. I sat on a piano bench and she sat on a box of her mom's nursing books. We agreed that we'd take turns holding up our shirts and letting the other look at the other's bare chest for ten seconds. I went first. I lifted my shirt and whispered 1, 2, 3,… until 10 seconds were up. It made me feel tingly all over being exposed like that. My pulse felt electric and all my nerve endings felt on edge. When my time was up, I really didn't want to get over that exciting thing I felt but could not say such a thing. She lifted her shirt for me to see her goodies but it didn't do anything for me. I wanted that tingly feeling again.

I get that feeling when a lover examines me, not in a clinical sense but in a sensual way. I like being thoroughly looked at and explored and feeling vulnerable and a little ashamed. I get a rush from having my vaginal lips or anus spread open, when my clitoral hood is raised, and when my urethra is exposed, especially if I'm going to be catheterized. All those tingly sensations come back again.