Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

I'm bisexual so see a man masturbate turn me on very much I have see it for real give hand jobs as well

Many times when I was an adolescent. I belonged to a circle jerk club. Had 6 guys and 3 girls who joined in occasionally. It was fun and hot, but not since. I do enjoy watching both male and female masturbation vids.

I have enjoyed watching men play with themselves since my early teens. I still visit adult theaters from time to time, and there are always men masturbating to the videos.

I'm not attracted to guys, so no. However, I do like watching heterosexual blowjobs (selena22 on YouPorn, for instance). So, it's a turn on to see the guy's penis sucked on hard into the back of her throat and beyond.

I have seen guys masturbating in real life and porn. I definitely find it interesting and it CAN be a turn on for me.

I have to agree with enemajock on this one; being bi just means you can get erotic with 100% of the population.

Masturbation is a natural act that brings relief and joy to so many people; why deny one of life last pleasures.

Many times when I was an adolescent. I belonged to a circle jerk club. Had 6 guys and 3 girls who joined in occasionally. It was fun and hot, but not since. I do enjoy watching both male and female masturbation vids.

Did you guys ever get into fucking those girls or having an orgy?

It's very unusual for girls to be in a circle jerk. That's not to say girls don't sometimes masturbate together.

Yes and no. It boils down to the context. I'm a gay man and there are times that watching a female masturbate, while not my preference, was undeniably a turn on. Conversely, watching a hot man masturbate on a fully packed train of commuters on their way to work may not have the same effect.

I love, love love to watch a guy masturbate in front of me (especially if I am "forcing" or "ordering" him to do it. Sometimes I swat his little member; sometimes I make him "pause" and "wait" when he is close to cumming. I remind him that I am in charge. And how naughty he is, and how he better not get his disgusting wet cum on anything except his fist/hands. And then I start talking dirty to him, teasing him, touching his inner thighs.

I love to see that he can't control his cock, his cum. That he is powerless in front of me.

But I do love to see him touch his own cock and eventually cum.

To be honest it really does.

In college, I asked my boy friend if I could watch him get himself off, he said he would if in turn he could watch me do the same. So we both masturbated for each other and it made an everlasting impression on me.

Never asked my first husband to do it for me, had my reasons. But once I became single, perhaps a bit more bold and??? And to be honest I have asked more than one man to drop them, have at it while I watched.

My husband?? Yes we have showtime. Each of us is the star.

There used to be the Circle J club in San Francisco. I walked past and saw someone exiting and that got me to do a double take on the name. later I visited it and discovered monitors with gay adult films and church pews! in front of them. The usual No means no applied but otherwise folks jo'd or helped others jo and it was a great intro to the idea of public jo and seeing others doing so.

So, yes it is a turn on.

The story goes,

“When I was young and in my prime,

I used to do it All The Time.

Now I’m getting old and grey,

I only do it twice a day.”

Amen

Mirrors are Fun too.

Though my girlfriends in my teen years and early twenties often masturbated and fellated me, at that time I preferred being fellated, or even masturbating myself, to being masturbated: because I hadn't yet learned something really important.

It took a completely unexpected experience, which happened during my first professional massage (at 33), to show me how much pleasure can come from going completely passive: by doing nothing but receiving.

I was in a foreign country, and the masseuse in question had been recommended to me by a co-worker on the same business trip: as highly skilled, modestly priced, and completely professional...no offers of sexual services. I was in an otherwise happy marriage that involved way too much traveling by both of us, and I didn't want to tempt fate. Reassured, I went in for my first massage ever.

"Arline" was in her late twenties, lovely, and modestly dressed. But she took a shine (and several other things) to me... Early in the massage, she told me I had a sexy body and stripped off my underwear (which, not knowing the rules, I had left on), while I was still face down.

Face up for the second half of the massage, and mostly under a towel, but feeling more turned on by the moment by her gliding strokes and caresses--not to mention being very obviously rock-hard under the towel--I started to tell Arline I should go. But she wasn't ready for me to go. She starting stroking my cock through the towel, and asked me if she could be my girlfriend while I was staying there.

I protested at first, but when she lifted the towel away, kissed me on the forehead, then put oil on my cock and began stroking it, no further objections were possible.

Besides her skill, what made being masturbated by Arline so special? If she'd been one of my pre-marriage partners, or my wife, I would have had my hands all over her while she was trying to pleasure me. But this was an entirely new experience for me... Arline stayed fully dressed, and neither knowing the rules nor feeling entirely right about what was happening, I wasn't about to try to stroke her breasts or get inside her pants. All I could do was lie back and let it happen.

And what happened was a delicious sensual treat, culminating in one of the longest, sweetest orgasms I'd ever experienced.

Her smile was just as sweet. She kissed me on the forehead again, used a hot wet towel to bathe me, and explained that she usually doesn't do anything like that...but that she liked me, and really wanted to give me a climax. She specifically told me NOT to tip her anything beyond the posted price for the one-hour massage, telling me what she was feeling for me was not about money.

And so a 25-year, fascinated, wife-permissioned exploration of erotic massages, in many venues, and usually with passively received "happy endings," began.

By the way, I later sought and received training in massage, too... and my wife says she much prefers being massaged and then masturbated by me, just receiving, to her own sex for one.

There really is a time to give, and a time to receive.

Oh yes, watching a guy masturbate is a huge turn-on for me! Watching a guy masturbate in person is so much fun especially if you're able to help him out but when we aren't able to have a guy come over I'll simply settle for watching jack-off videos online. I enjoy watching as he strips out of his clothes and of course my favorite is at the end when he cums. Some of the guys in the videos really know how to show off and perform nicely for the camera by showing their entire body and even flirting a little like you're there in the room with them, I like it when they spread their legs wide so you can see their anus up close and sometimes they incorporate a little anal play in with the session.

Yes I do like seeing guys masturbate and I have seen both guys and women masturbate in person. Of course I have seen lots of guys and girls masturbate on porn. I do like seeing just how much cum the guy produces when he cums- it's the real payoff. That's why they call it a cum shot.

It's fascinating to see how each person does it in their own unique way. When watching someone masturbate you really get to see an extremely private and personal side of the person that is kept cloaked in everyday life.

I have watched many men jack off and I find it a real turn on even more fun if we can help each other .

I have seen ,both guys and ladies masturbate in person and on line. I have also enjoyed masturbating with and for others. I got caught as a teen by Mom and my sister. I am still open to having a tug buddy,,or gal. To watch or be watched. Skype. Or in person

I have enjoyed watching other guys masturbate since I was a kid. Still do. Like to watch women too.

Depends how long it takes him to ejaculate.

After a while it can be quite boring to watch. But if he needs someone to watch him, you put up with it,

One guy got quite red in the face, and I thought he was on his way to a heart attack!

Both ... real life and porn!

As a 58 year old gay man, I have witnessed numerous men masturbate. Needless to say, I have also watched men masturbate while viewing porn. Male patient/male doctor medical exams will ALWAYS be my #1 choice when searching for or viewing gay porn.

Secondly, male ... solo ... masturbation videos would be my next selection. I find myself drawn to what is linked as hidden/spy camera videos of men masturbating. I find it very erotic to assume that an individual is "caught" masturbating by a camera that he ... supposedly ... is not aware of.

In most cases, masturbation is somewhat viewed as very private and very personal. The invasion of an individual's personal space ...while doing a very personal act ... captured by an unsuspecting camera ... is very appealing to me. Long live the hidden/spy camera videos ... only after the M/M exam videos have become redundant! 😉

I had a friend that would do it while we were in a little shed that we called "The Fort" He'd get out a playboy and go for it. I never did it and never really liked watching it either. Guess I am too hetero anal for that. Call me old fashioned! I would have loved to have seen a girl do it but I was so shy as a teen it never came close to happening. If only I lived next door to Susie

Call me old fashioned! I would have loved to have seen a girl do it but I was so shy as a teen it never came close to happening. If only I lived next door to Susie

Moppy, If you recall from my older posts, I had a good-girl reputation. I maintained that by blackmail if you recall. I would make the boys oral me to orgasm before having intercourse (my mother told me it was good for getting aroused and she was right!) and I anally defiled/pegged most boys with a dildo before sex. So, no oral, no pegging, no intercourse, and I told the boys to keep our dalliances private or I would spill the beans about their being butt-fucked. I didn't feel bad at all doing that because they got good enthusiastic handjobs, blowjobs and pussy. It was definitely a fair and equitable exchange of flesh.

I anally defiled/pegged most boys with a dildo before sex. So, no oral, no pegging, no intercourse, and I told the boys to keep our dalliances private or would spill the beans about their being butt-fucked.

Once you're nasty - you stay nasty!!! 😉

Let's say I taught a bunch of guys things it would have taken most of them years or decades longer to learn that they liked and desired. 😁 😁 😁

Watching guys masturbate is definitely a turn-on.

I have seen a another guy masterbate on many occasions and I love hearing them as they near orgasm then explode shooting their jizz all over themselves. I hate the thought though of them wasting it when I could be slurping it up and usually will go down on them right as they climax. A real turn-on for me. Especially if my GF is there and prodding me on to finish him off then kiss her so she can taste his cum. Knowing how the guy must be feeling and watching him as he finally shoots his load is always a turn on.

Let's say I taught a bunch of guys things it would have taken most of them years or decades longer to learn that they liked and desired. 😁 😁 😁

Like mowing the lawn and pool maintenance?

Yes it is a turn-on to watch a guy masturbate, seeing his normally soft penis become big and hard, and then either watch, or help, him stroke it until he moans and his milk squirts out. When I help I like trying to see how many times I get his thing to squirt.

When I help I like trying to see how many times I get his thing to squirt.

Never heard it called THAT before! 😄

I love to see a man masturbate better still I love to do it for him. When I was in high school I m lucky I didn't get carpal tunnel . I put s lot of big smiles On a lot of guys faces. I stole some of moms lotion an kept it in my purse along with tissues. lol good memories

LOVE to watch a guy masturbate and ejaculate!

LOVE to be watched while I masturbate and ejaculate!

Think one of the hottest fantasy scenes I have is possibly finding a particularly attractive person to kneel down in front of and have them intently watch me take care of myself to completion for their enjoyment.