Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

Do you like watching your wife (or girlfriend) play with herself? Does it turn you on?

Watching a woman masturbate tells a man a lot about what she likes. He should always pay attention to that.

My ex really enjoyed watching me masturbate and I loved seeing her play with herself. Sometimes I would jerk off my cock in one hand while fingering her with the other.

My wife and I love watching each other masturbate - its a lot like fucking each other by remote - its always erotic to watch the facial expressions of sexual passion on my wife's face as she pleasures herself and orgasms - and I know she loves to be watched

I can't make it till she's done I'm trying to mount her and she lets me but she still finishes getting herself off and me to and I had just jacked off for her

I love to see a female partner masturbate, and I also like to masturbate them, if they like that.

Also, like to watch videos of a female masturbating, if it's not weird, but just plain masturbating.

I love watching other people masturbate. it is very erotic. i even have videos of my wife masturbating on my phone so i can watch her whenever i want.

I like to watch my wife masturbate and I also masturbate for her when she asks.

I love watching women masturbate and apart from the turn on it can be quite educational. One can learn the preferred way she likes to pleasure herself, place, speed, technique etc. which can then be used when it's your turn to do it for her.

I do know that there is a lot to be learned when watching a partner self pleasure. One hand will be busy in the crotch but what/where is the other hand? Nipples, anus, else where, squeezing where, twisting what, how hard, how tight, pulling and/or stretching... lots to be learned from watching how your partner in that situation.

As to the one hand busy, thinking about it that might not be true in the foreplay stage so watch closely.

Of course!!! What else can be so erotic?!

Love it as she slides her fingers in and out of her dripping pussy then has me lick them

Occasionally my wife will slip a couple fingers in before we get started to loosen up and make sure she is plenty lubed and I'm always both fascinated and turned on by it. There are plenty of pics and vids on the net, but seeing it happen in front of you is such a different experience. I really enjoy it

Who doesn't like watching their partner masturbate, regardless of gender of all parties involved? 😉

If, for whatever reason, you are going to orgasm by masturbation, do you prefer doing it yourself or having it done by a partner?

I posed this question because, while I much prefer being masturbated by my partner, my partner prefers masturbating herself. I believe this is because she can stimulate herself precisely in the way that feels best to her at any particular moment, but my efforts, even at her direction, are just not as satisfying. In my case, I find the feel of a woman's hand on my cock, and having a woman do that to me far more erotic than my jerking myself off.

For me, there are times when I'd rather be brought to an orgasm by someone else, and then other times when I want to take matters into my own hands, so to speak. 😃 It really just depends on my mood and the situation.

And at the risk of some expected disagreement by others here, technically masturbation is self-stimulation -- not any kind of stimulation by someone else. If you're masturbating, you're doing it to yourself. Based on a precise definition of masturbation, it would be impossible for someone else to masturbate you. Another person can stimulate you, arouse you, and completely bring you to orgasm -- but that's not masturbation. Feel free to look up the official definition yourself.

Let the disagreement begin. 😃

This is not a close call for me. I love having someone else jerk me off. In fact, it is probably my favorite way to ejaculate.

I definitely fall into the camp of preferring a partner jerk me off than doing it myself. I love being able to lay back and take in all the sensations and even having my partner slip a finger up my ass while being jerked off. When I masturbate myself, I seem to be more focused on getting off quickly and not enjoying the ride- still very enjoyable but not near as good as having a partner do it to me.

I prefer having it done by my wife rather than doing it myself - but this occurs generally only as foreplay as my wife likes vaginal penetration. When I was young I had a couple awkward, inexperienced girlfriends with whom masturbation was exciting but uncomfortable (aaaah the nails!).

When younger, I much preferred a hand job over solo to achieve a great orgasm. ( The exception being enema masturbation.). As a senior now, it seems easier to climax from self stimuation.

Of my bakers dozen sex partners, I could reliably masturbation to orgasm three of them.

I've got to agree with JimmyJohnson, if it is masturbation then it is solo. If you have a partner, regardless of gender, it is some version of sex or sex play.

To the point of WillyNilly's question, alas I'd rather do it myself. My wife always tried to bend and twist my penis when using her hand. This often would cause the constricted muscles to let some blood out, deflating my erection. Not that she wanted to deflate me, that's just how she went about it.

Jimmy Johnson and Quincy, I used to agree with you - masturbation is self stimulation, but it seems that definition has changed over time. Dictionary.com's first definition of the word is now:

"verb

1. to stimulate the genital organs of (oneself or another) to achieve sexual pleasure"

Nothing is like it is supposed to be, anymore!

Hopefully, some ladies will chime in. I suspect they would lean towards doing it themselves. It seems to me, getting a guy off is less subtle than getting a gal off.

The thing that makes it so good when my partner takes me by the hand as it were is that I never know what is coming next . . fast, slow, fingernails, all manner of teasing. Things pretty much go by her schedule and I go along for a most pleasurable ride!

As I'm single I enjoy masturbating and getting myself to orgasm . However I was married and I used to enjoy masturbating my husband until he orgasmed too .

I have been married over 40 years, and while my wife used to play with me, she does not do it much anymore. I do not think she, or any other woman has brought me to climax with her hand, no matter how good it might have felt. I have to do it myself for it to work.

On the other hand, so to speak, I cannot get hard and keep it hard long enough to put it in her unless I take my Viagra, so much of the time, I bring her to climax with my finger, which seems to be perfectly satisfying to her.

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The best one for the job is actually myself, as I can regulate factors such as speed, strength of grip, etc to my liking. I also can palpate my scrotum & play with my balls to my liking as well. I usually never ask for anything. Whether it's my partner or my masseuse, she either does something on her own or she doesn't. I give them preconceived credit for being smart enough to know what men want.

That said, for the past 15 years or so, I would go for massages as much as i could afford to, which used to be weekly, but unfortunately nowadays i can only afford to a small handful of times a year. Having my entire backside caressed before i turn over & have my genitalia is massaged to climax is one of the most awesome feelings, perhaps better than the happy ending itself. Most of the time when i have a table shower & the masseuse soaps up & spreads the lather thoroughly on my genitals, she will greeted with my stiffest hard on as i get up off the table to be dried off & robed.

I notice the few times I try out a new place & there turns out to be no happy ending, i walk out of the place very depressed. One time a new girl started at a former regular place i had gone to almost weekly. When i walked out of the room, disappointed (unusually unhappy ?), there were 2 other women who saw me & could just tell without me saying anything.,They said something in Korean to the new girl, who then brought me back into the room and finished me off.

As for any partner I'm ever involved with, manual manipulation is ok, as long as it's not really more than foreplay (unless she's on her period or something & trying her best to satisfy me). If I am with a partner, i'd much rather receive oral or have actual sex.

Often while I masturbate, I fantasize about being masturbated while my hands are tied behind my back, thus yielding full control & access to my frontal to specific people who opt to take advantage of the situation.

With hubby and I, touching each other is foreplay these days. Often, that leads to mutual masturbation where we will either bring ourselves to orgasm or very close before moving to oral or penetration.

Like uncleO said, things have changed over the years. We met in 1967 and back then, hubby might cum as soon as I touched his cock! Likewise, his fingers in my panties was enough to bring me to a big O.

1967 - the summer of love. I wonder how prevalent that people who grew up in that time are as being sexually active to this day. Everybody changes, and you never know what all these years have done to people who are less open.

Now that I think of it, we probably enjoy a lot of the same music.

Both have its advantages depending on moods. But doing it alone allows one to totally interact with one's body doing anything desired no matter how perverted, since it is only between you and yourself.