Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

I would really like a woman to watch me masturbate. I have never had anyone see me do it before. I really really want a woman to want me to do it right in front of her and I would love to see a woman play with herself also. I have seen it in porn but never up close. I wanna see her make herself cum with her fingers or a dildo so many times that her hands are tired and throat is sore from moaning and crying out. She is so exhausted from orgasming that she falls asleep. I really really want to do this with a woman. I'm getting horny right now just writing this.

I tried to masturbate in front of my wife a few times - but she wouldn't let me... just had to get her hand, mouth, vagina or ass involved! 😄 So I guess it did turn her on!!

Oh YES YES YES! I definitely do enjoy watching and even more I enjoy helping if I can!

Oh YES YES YES! I definitely do enjoy watching and even more I enjoy helping if I can!

I am glad to hear that you enjoy helping! I have had superb hanjobs from four different women, three of whom promoted themselves as experts in male masturbation, that were as good or better than any homosexual man.

I like to watch men masturbate in person. Watching the actual ejaculation is a very strong turn on for me! It is a visual of what is going on inside of me. It is probably especially true in my case because my husbands climax almost always triggers my own orgasm.

Frankly one of the few things that really turns me on in porn is when a man masturbates or when the guy pulls out and deposits the mail outside the box so to speak. Regular porn intercourse with the man having an orgasm inside the women does not do anything for me. It seems fake to me; ie acting rather than real. Some of the home made porn does turn me on if it parallels my own response. That is probably why female masturbation porn turns me on.

Dita

If it is with someone I care about then yes I do like to watch them masturbate,or more to the point I enjoy watching them orgasm,but there has to be some form of relationship, if however, as I often do get requests from strangers here for me to watch them I find that repellent,that is because it is a bit of cheap non caring fun for them,they just want anyone watching.

Where I enjoy watching is when it is with men who would not want to do it in front of anyone else but me, because they are private people,so they trust me.Watching is not a sexual turn on for me,when playing Dr it is not a sexual turn on,it is about the closeness and the trust.

For whatever reasons I do not get turned on by sex,but I feel an emotional box is filled when I am trusted by others.and when I trust them.

Peace,

Caz

Frankly one of the few things that really turns me on in porn is when a man masturbates or when the guy pulls out and deposits the mail outside the box so to speak.

That's probably why that is considered the "money shot" in pornos.

I have to say I was never really into just sitting back and watching a guy masturbate. To me, it felt too egocentric and self-focused on the man’s part and I interpreted his behavior to be a mere objectification of me. But, at one point in my married life, possibly due to the fact that my husband is a man who has great respect and love for me, he just did it once in the middle of the night when we had both woken up. The fantasy was that I was sleeping and unaware of his behavior. It was super hot.

The dichotomy in me also finds it hot (maybe just fantasy realm) at the thought of a stranger masturbating in front of me. I can’t tell you how often guys have done this in public either for my benefit (I.e. my humiliation) or because I walked passed them by mistake as they were doing it behind a bush or something. At the time I thought it was super creepy. But sometimes those are the very memories I use to excite me. And I have to say, my own personal humiliation or objectification is not what turns me on. It’s the human vulnerability of the man who is a victim of his biological urges that actually turns me on. Not sure I even answered the question.

After a very long pussy eating session, my partner wanted to see me masturbate. So I obliged and did my duty. She was amazed at the facial expressions I went through during the process. She tried to catch the cum as I spurted, but it ended up in her eyelashes, eyebrows and hair. Later on she gave me the most terrific blow job a man could ask for. 😄

My girlfriend in college used to enjoy watching me while she laid on her back and I straddled her pelvis. Nothing more, just me basically stroking and ejaculating onto her breasts. To her it was the eye contact and watching my expressions. She'd resist touching it because she wanted it to be about me pleasuring myself.

No it is not a turn on for me but I do like watching a female. Kind of a learning experience to see what she enjoys.

My wife and I sometimes masturbate together or enjoy mutual masturbation. We do everything from straight forward jerking off for me and diddling her clit for her to using an old-fashioned electric massager--one that fastens to the back of the hand. This is a lot more pleasurable than a battery operated vibrator. Using this for mutual masturbation is especially exciting. We also try to think up innovative ways to enhance our sex play and have come up with quite a few good things to keep our sex interesting. I'd like to hear if anyone has any good ideas to use while masturbating each other.

Which is more exciting for you, masturbating for your partner or watching your partner masturbate?

I enjoy both. Of course, masturbating myself has the most direct pleasure. My ideal is to one of us to start and then the other assists who then returns the favor until it gets confusingly wonderful.

Both also. When you watch, it's also educational, you see what and how your partner likes. When you do so for them they see what you like, and very exciting.

Some times theses questions relay make me think. I see lots of guys masturbate or stroke it to get hard. It is no big deal. Just watching like in a movie no not relay no. In front of me no the watching does nothing. The size of the cock and anticipation of were the load or cock is going to go yes turned on like a dog hearing the can opener at meal time.

I would enjoy very much looking at my wife while she masturbating herself for me ....but she won't...

We discussed about, I asked her, but she never do it.

She feel ashamed about masturbating herself and told she is no be able to do it by self (not the same to be masturbated....She have very "loud" orgasm when I properly touch her big clit 😃 instead).

I not agree about that...or she does it or I stop masturbating her at all.....

I think I'll see her masturbating very very soon...you know ?! 😃

Seriously....I think masturbating in front of partner is a most private thing, need intimacy and rise intimacy.

It would be a kind of tip to teach the other one HOW give pleasure...the place, the rytm, the pressure...and so on...

What do you think about ?

I remember seeing my brother and some of our friends jerking off when they were in the tree house back in the woods. It didn't do anything for me then and it doesn't do anything for me now. I'm into the other sex.

Watching a woman touch and pleasure herself is one of the sexiest things ever.

I'd say both, I'd never been asked for that til my fiancé asked. Ever since she loves to watch me masturbate, often cuming on her ass, chest or stomach. The newest thing is stuffing my balls in her, and jacking off.. the balls stimulate her inside and the masturbating rubs her clit, and the visuals are insane.

She's still learning to relax and masturbate for me.. but I'm threating to hold out on showing off for her.. so she's learning.. So hot!

I love seeing my girl friend masturbating,and she watches as I do it.When I was married both my wife and I did it together. Im divorced now but still live with the wife although we have our separate lives .I still think of those times we had together,I hope sometimes maybe she does too.

I love to watch my partners masturbate. It's more of a Dominant/submissive thing with me: I order them to do it, and they have to "perform" in front of me, to my satisfaction. If they need "encouragement" I incorporate spanking, including pussy or cock spanking. I especially love to see a man spurt his cum ….it's like a conquest for me. I love watching women, too, but some don't have dramatic orgasms, which can be a downer for me (and I question whether they are faking sometimes).

Like Margo’s post

I remember when my wife was masturbating with a bulb type douche syringe while I was taking an enema. I loved watching that big douche nozzle going in and out of her while I was taking the enema. Not too much beets that.

A lot of times when my wife is giving me a 4-quart enema her right hand gets tired before I come. I gladly take over and get myself off. I love it when she watches me take the enema while I'm jerking off.

I think I am in the majority that like it both ways. It is educational to see what the other person likes done to them. I have found that over the years my wife's method of masturbating has changed some. She also likes to tell me that I have to get to the edge and then wait for her. After she finishes then she tells me that I can "fire at will".

I have done both and also both at the same time. All three are exciting to me.

Years ago, my GF and I went to the beach for the day. It wasn’t long before we were groping around and playing with each other. After a while, she started giggling and she said that she was watching a young guy about fifteen feet behind us who had been watching our little show and had a huge hard on. She said “Hold on Bob, I just have to take care of this poor kid.” Sue crawled over to the guy who now had a startled look on his face, not quite sure what was going on. She laid down next to him, talked for a few moments and slid her hand under his shorts. He looked at me with a panicked look on his face and I returned his look with a smile and a nod to let him know that whatever happened was alright with me.

He laid back down, closed his eyes and in a few moments was gasping like a fish out of water. It was interesting watching him, something that I had never done before and was fascinated to watch his facial expressions as he got closer and closer to climaxing. It didn’t take but a couple minutes before his face turned all contorted, his eyes rolled back in their sockets and he bucked with the orgasm. Sue gave him a kiss and crawled back to me with a huge smile on her face. I said, “is that what I look like when I cum with you?” “Oh no, you put on a MUCH better show!”

If your partner wanted to watch you masturbate, would you let them? To me one of the sexiest things is watching a lady please herself.