Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

I love to masturbate with other men. Seeing others as they become more aroused and finally climax is a real turn-on for me. Bateworld offers men an opportunity to masturbate together but the closest location for me is more than an hour away. I haven't attended a session in a long time.

When I'm going to get off from masturbation, we start with my wife stoking me and other wise stimulating me, especially on the head of my penis. But at some point I slip an anal toy in my bottom, and she proceeds to take control of that. Then I take over stroking my penis. This frees up her other hand to paly with one of my nipples and from there I'm close to orgasm. We have other variations, but her involvement make a big difference. Can I get my self off alone? Yes I can, but it takes longer, and the orgasm is less satisfying.

It feels better to have someone else touching you (maybe even both of you at the same time!), and the connection with the other person also makes it more special than jacking off alone.

I love when my wife “masturbates” me. It has been years since we have had PIV sex. My weekly release from my cb is i’m sent upstairs for “private time” to masturbate. There are times when she will masturbate me by rubbing the front of my diaper which results in less than a minute before I go over the edge. Her closeness makes it much more intimate than by myself.

Since ive never been attracted to or been with a man i can only speak to this as a woman who loves women. i find it incredibly sensuous and erotic to watch and be be watched while masturbating.. its live porn !!

I get horny, I I rub one out. Only one purpose. It helps me go to sleep or gets rid of the hard on after watching porn.

With my wife at the age of 71 we masturbate together every date night and it is completely differently from when I go at it myself. She will go at it for 30 minutes with the intent of bringing me to the brink for as long as I can hold out. She just gently touches my balls, perineum until i am in heaven and touches my rod with a lightest touch up and down around tip and then back to my balls and anus with feathery touches. She knows when the time is right and then commences with the vigorous milking until I erupt, The orgasms are so much more intense than when I do it myself.

While my wife is doing these wonderful things to me I am reciprocating gently pulling her pubes stroking her thigh with out touching the lips petting her like a cat then applying pressure to her clit then very vigorous rubbing in circles and finally sticking a finger in both holes and finger banging her as hard as I can,We have experimented with watching each other do ourselves but it is not close to us doing each other.

Mostly I prefer to have someone else involved, but from time to time its nice to do it all for myself

I think i'd prefer her masturbating me, and her masturbating herself. Those ways, I can just watch, and not be clumsy.

I generally prefer to do it because, with decades of practice, I'm petty good at it! 😃

But, on rare occasion I've been very thoroughly spanked, tied, given a big, hot, soapy, crampy enema, and masturbated to climax while retaining. That's a fairly mindblowing experience that's hard to recreate in a DYI scenario!

I would rather be masturbated. My other half is far better at it than i am.

Kinda like you cant tickle yourself.

There is an art to masturbating that we should all learn if we want to benefit more from these experiences whether you are doing it to somebody else or yourself

Even though I do know what specific touches and motions cause me the most pleasure, I much more prefer someone else masturbating me. There is something deep about that--the other is acknowledging that you exist and have worth and are worth giving pleasure to. And I love my partner looking at my penis as she strokes and stimulates me...there is something exhibitionist about that...much better than by myself.

I agree with Moliere ~ It feels better to have someone else touching you - & knowing that they want to please you .

For me there is a kind of difference. If my wife masturbates on me - it is usually as foreplay or because she does not have the energy for "real" sex. So I much rather masturbate on myself - I can also more freely enjoy my fantasies and let my thoughts "go wild". However a woman's hand on my penis is very, very nice. I really do enjoy the feel of it.

My brother and I and his friend always did. They were six years older than me. It started when I was 6 and they were 12. We didn't know and better. But we would sit together and they would take the tabs off my diaper but let me sit on It So I didn't leak everywhere. They had stolen a tiny vibrator from my big sisters room and put it up o

In me and turn it on. I remember a tingly feeling.

With my last gf we were doing it on bed while kissing

It was always a part of our playtime with wives, love to watch women get themselves off, find out what does it for them. Being an exhibitionist, it helps me get off.

Yeah...i used to do it with my close group of girls since school days..We have it in my house or other friends' houses at weekends if not gone for outing. some one of you said it is quite amazing . There is thrill to find out who gets the orgasm first.

My gf and I both get our favorite toys. We lay next to each other and see who gets off the most in 30 min. She is normally double mine. During those 30 min we can only touch ourselves

The closest i have come to having both happen is when my wife was laying there and I was bent over the bed eating her pussy while she had a vibrator up her butt. While i was doing so, i was getting a cock up my ass and receiving a reach around.

I have been with a mate now for 8 months (she a widow,I divorced) both months away from 60 yrs old and still going strong sexually.I have to admit I actually really enjoy to be masturbated by her ,than by myself.When she does it she takes longer ,her touch of course is totally different ,along with change of hands back and forth throughout that makes a difference.We both enjoy taste/swallowing my cum so when she makes me cum it is always into her hand (cupped) and then makes me swallow some along with her taking rest and licking her hand clean .

I am truly a very fortunate man not just for this but we also have much more in common sexually and otherwise. My ex-wife of 23 yrs Never swallowed ever,and her husband in 28 yrs never performed oral sex on her (which I have loved since age 15).Who said sex cannot be good still in your (going into ) 60's ?

I’ll take being mastubated. Over the years, my wife has it down to a science. She enjoys jerking my cock and I love it. Every now and then she will say, “ let’s see how hard you can get for me” or, “ you need to feel how hard your cock is.” Plus she senses just when I am about to explode and backs off. Love it all.

During the time my wife was sexually active, our main sex play was masturbation. It would start with me playing with her titties (my favorite term). She is a "B-cup". Loved to rub and excite her nipples, then suck them. I would slide my hand down between her legs and find her pussy, rubbing her clit and slipping in two fingers. As I fingered her and sucked her nipple, she would "cum". Then, I would lay back and jack-off while she leaned over me and dangled her titties in my face. She would also talk about other women's tits, usually a friend we both knew. I would "cum" pretty quickly.

Definitely let my partner do it. Had one specific girlfriend who was amazingly good at it and she loved me fingering her as well, so we mutually masturbated far more often than we had full-on sex.

I dated one woman years ago who was into masturbation and loved for us to sit on her bed facing each other and start out masturbating ourselves and as it continued switching to masturbate eachother. Quite erotic but because she did not know how close I was to climax she would just continue at same rate until I had my climax. I did prefer if I did it then I could slow or speed up the technique.

When we were young and first moved in together, I suggested this to my wife and we did indeed have a session.

But boy oh boy afterwards, did I ever get the treatment for being some kind of weirdo. I am going to surmise it was something to do with extreme guilt or shame from her parents and dire warnings against masturbating or being caught by them or something along those lines. Needless to say, I never suggested it again. Not in those terms at least.

The odd thing is she was otherwise not prudish at all, was game for quite a lot, liked posing nude for me, even in semi-public venues. And later on in years, she would often get her orgasm by masturbating herself while I helped out in various ways.

Agracier: An early girlfriend of mine was very ashamed to tell me that she masturbated... It seems quite a common sentiment, at least in the older generations, that girls simply did not masturbate (as for boys, that was considered a disgusting habit).

I don't think I've ever held a masturbation session in which each would operate on his or her own genitals, or at least not beyond showing how it's done or getting started and excited — certainly not until climax.

I've done mutual masturbation but that's very different.

I've done mutual masturbation but that's very different.

Ah yes, that was completely different for her for some reason. And very good at it too. And it was also OK if the other was 'helping' the other along. But solo only? Nope, a big no-no.

Have you ever seen a guy masturbate?

Real life or porn?

Do you find it interesting, a turn on or disgraceful?

When I was younger it would have grossed me out, because I was straight as an arrow.

As I get older, perhaps I'm a little bit bi.

But the other aspect is, I now see sex as truly beautiful, regardless if it is straight/gay/moresome/solo. I would just see it for the beautiful act that it is.

I think I'm starting to sound old (or at least mature).