Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

I love having someone masturbate me but I cum more easily if I finish myself off.

That's probably true for most people and has to do with instant feedback you get from touching your own body.

Advantages of being masturbated by a partner, which in my usual case, is a masseuse:

- There's usually some awesome caressing as a prelude

- I like the dynamic that there's actually someone who wants to make me cum

- They clean up afterward

- Because i tend to take a while to cum, some of them sometimes will grab my arm & put it up under their shirt, inviting me to have at their breast to help me cum quicker

- I enjoy the accompanying action on my balls before & during the process

Other than really good straight sex, there's almost no orgasm better for me than when my wife makes me cum with her hands. She loves to watch me masturbate, and I've performed for her at her request many times. Now she knows exactly how to do it for me, exactly what buttons to push to make me cum. She also knows when I'm close and how to slow it down to keep me on the edge--sometimes for almost an hour. Edging me gets her really hot, and she starts breathing heavily and moaning. When she gets hot that way, I only need to lightly squeeze the base of her clit with two fingers for a few seconds to make her cum violently and repeatedly. We've cum together in each others hands many times.

I find that it is one of the sexiest things to watch a female masturbate. It is a big turn on.

Everyone likes watching women masturbate.

Everyone likes watching women masturbate.

Indeed, it is the basic premise for many a very successful webcam site ... think Chaturbate = watching on-line masturbating while chatting ...

When I watch my wife it's better foreplay than almost anything else she can do for me, (and of course it gets her going for many more--like priming the pump.)

In my college days, I had a girlfriend who loved to masturbate in her bathtub. She'd scoot her butt up against the front of the tub, spread her legs up on the wall, and turn on the water. I loved watching her enjoy herself like that.

Yes, I do, but she does not seem to get into it like you would think she should. Maybe she needs to send her vibrator to a school on technique. No moaning or any outward signs she is enjoying herself. Now when I masturbate one is going to tell I am enjoying; I don't moan either, but I definitely enjoy it. I always prefer having sex with her, but one knows their body like no one else. I do rub on her sometimes and that seems to work better than the thing with batteries in it. One usually has trouble matching what a lady can do for herself.

Bill

Absolutely !!!

It is both erotic and educational. How else can you learn what arouses her if you don't watch her do it herself.

As far as erotic...how could it not be exciting to see someone go from basic play to orgasm?

It's all a part of the game. Wish she would do it more but it's part of her Catholic guilt trip.

I love watching her masturbate with her toys and also fingers.....gets me so horny

Absolutely! Watching is a huge turn on. Love when she's doing it and starts getting close to her first orgasm. She looks at me and something in the eyes is just so sexy

For me it's a coin toss. Sometimes I'm in the mood to be alone with a little porn and others I'd love the assistance. In the end, going solo gets the job done but everything sexual is better with a partner.

I enjoy jerking off a guy, but they usually take over when they get closer. That's fine, they know what they are wanting right them.

At that point, I sometimes just put my lips around the head, so he's still in control, but I feel that blast at the back of my throat.

Masturbating myself is good but really I prefer it when my husband does it. He has got magic fingers and he has got a lot of experience with different women before I got my hands on him. He found out quick what things get me going the most and how to touch me. I could not do things like pushing 2 fingers up my bum while finger fucking my pussy with 2 fingers on his other hand the same way that he does it, and make me have a squirting orgasm. It is just magic. 😃

I listened to his directions when we first started to have sex and especially because I was a virgin then. I knew I had a lot to learn. I always enjoy retracting his foreskin and touching his glans really lightly with my fingertips, and he has never got to do any of it for himself because I just love it and I know what he likes. I really like to see him ejaculate some times too.

I actually find masturbation under the direction of the other person quite exciting!!!

I've often wondered about mutual masterbation over the phone or Internet. I believe it is popular with teenagers. Wouldn't mind trying it myself, I'm straight, so females only!

I too love to be jerked off by a woman. What you buttwoman described is what I usually experience. When I get close, the woman will usually put her mouth on the head or even gently pinch the head in order to delay my ejaculation.

I prefer to masturbate on my own as my body knows how to react to me touching myself. If another woman tries to jerk me off, it would most likely won't work. I get the most sensation from the tip of my penis so I make sure i massage it well as I masturbate.

Definitely prefer being masturbated by my partner. She can give attention to my balls better than anything I could do myself. Also, she knows how to stimulate me to the point just before ejaculating and hold me at the point for a long period. When I get to that point masturbating myself I can't exercise the necessary control.

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I have mutually masturbated with a woman friend while we both took enemas together, miles apart. Although being together would be much more fun, this works for both of us.

I am 87 and still get horny as I remember experiences from long ago .I remember a dream I had at age 13, about a boy I admired in middle school in 1953. He never showed me any interest but I dreamed he and were hiding in the bushes around school and were mutually masturbating each other feverishly and loving it,. I awoke suddenly and found myself ejaculating all over the bed. Now 75 yeas later I recall this and get a boner.

A few years ago a friend of mine and I were talking sex sitting in a car late at night. Finally my friend said, "I've got a real boner, do you want to feel it?" Want to feel it?" Of course I did, and he put my hand d over his pants where I felt a huge penis. We never went further or suggested jacking each other.

These two experiences have stuck with me for years and I sit here typing and my pants are damp just writing this. I still get erections and a pleasant feeling but cannot ejaculate now, what a pity. I'd love to talk to anyone interested in dreams and fantasies about mutual encounters. Also the subject of peeing pants to be a sexual turn-on.

Oh my yes! I usually end up masturbating myself as I watch.

I much prefer to masturbate myself. To be honest, I've never been with a woman who can deliver manual pleasure to me like I can myself.

I did get an amazing hand job (while working a dildo in my ass) from a male play doc once. He did a better job of stroking me than any woman ever did.

I much prefer my partner to do it for me. I had a long-term relationship with an Asian woman who believed it was her job to take care of all my sexual needs. We talked openly about sexual matters and early on in our relationship she had asked me to demonstrate how I masturbated. I lay on my back and admired her naked body as I pumped away. As I reached my orgasm I watched her face and saw her look of amazement. Her first attempt at masturbating me was a bit clumsy but felt great; I was able to relax and surrender to her touch. In those days I had masturbated several times a day when alone and still felt unsatisfied. We took a daily siesta during which I would receive anything ranging from a casual genital teasing to a long, intense masturbation. She wanted nothing. Night was the time for serious sex together.

Is both an appropriate answer? LOL I love to self masturbate when I want to just freaking cum, I know just what/where it feels perfect. I know when to insert my fingers, when to pull them out, when to focus on my clit and how to focus on it; whether it wants a rub, a pull or a smack. I know I could direct my hubby to do this but sometimes I just want to be pleased and not direct. I can bring myself to the edge of orgasming and then reign it in just prior to make it last longer.

On the other hand, I love having my hubby do it for/to me as well. I love to just lie back and receive his attentions. He takes so much care to please me and satisfy me. He may be working on finding a moving target to get me to "O" but the journey is so much fun!

I was first going to answer that technically you can't masturbate someone else, as the definition is 'self' stimulation. But dictionary.com says it can be another person as well; "stimulation other that coitus." So that would include oral as well... which doesn't make sense, but ...

Anyway, I enjoy both, but it's never that kind of a choice. Does anyone ever say 'gee I want to cum by using a hand. Now should I use mine or my partners?' Her playing with me or vice versa is a form of sex, so it's a very different situation, being alone and horny or being with your partner and playing with each other. Using your hands to stimulate your partner has always seemed very intimate and erotic to me, as you are literally holding someone's sexuality in your hands. Touching them and watching for reactions, listening to their change in breathing as they get aroused, doing everything to bring them pleasure.

That said I absolutely love to be touched and manually brought to orgasm. Only one LTR really learned how to drive me crazy with her hands, and I happily returned the favor! The best was on a Saturday morning as we woke up and I started lightly running my hands over her body. She was on her back and I'd start with her breasts and nipples before moving south and caressing her stomach and thighs. I'd be lying in my side and that was perfect positioning for her hand to wrap around me and squeeze and pull. I'd gently play with her pussy as she would stroke me to heaven. We could do this for over an hour, getting close, backing away, edging each other. She would stay continuously wet and drench the sheets and I'd release so much precum that I could literally fuck her hand like the tightest pussy or ass ever. We'd drive each other crazy and eventually I'd hear her slide over the edge and convulse in my arms and I'd watch her body shake and her chest heave while gasping for air. She'd squeeze me so tight when she came it felt wonderful.

A few times I would get a second orgasm out of her this way, especially if I was in the middle of whispering an erotic story in her ear as we were playing. After she came, I was absolutely ready to burst, so either she would finish me with her hand, or hand and mouth, or I'd roll her over and slide into her ass. No matter how we finished it was always a great start to the day!

I'm with Susie: To BE. One experience with a woman who knows exactly what she's doing - and that's the trick isn't it? - and no guy can honestly say he'd rather self-pleasure. And no, you can't count 'Flesh-lights' - those are fuck toys; we're talking about human hands.

I enjoy both one because another person is getting to know my body and what gets me off . 2nd I like to self stimulate so I can see what I like and how I can reach my own orgasm.