Would you let your partner watch you Masturbating?

FaceTime is not just for faces!

Together or each other?

I'm ready to bet that in days when contraception was not available (unknown or prohibited) or virginity was expected from unmarried females, a lot of mutual masturbation went on...

Definitely done it on cam when I've been away from significant others for a long period of time, but it's always fun to mix things up and halfway through foreplay, completely break off and start doing my own thing, and demand whoever I'm with do the same. Huge turn-on to see how they get themselves off, and gives me something to imitate with them in the future, since everyone I've been with has their own particular way of making themself cum.

Have not done it since college days.

My first time masturbating with a guy was quite memorable. We were both partially dressed. He was in boxer shorts and I was wearing a nightgown. He had an erection in his boxers so I straddled his leg and rubbed his penis with my hand. He was breathing hard and as he got closer to cumming, he removed my hand and took over jerking off. I watched him stroke his cock while I humped his leg. He orgasmed first and then he watched me ride his leg; he had his hand up my nightie and was squeezing my breasts until I had my own orgasm. I don't think we spoke a word during the entire experience; it was all eye contact and body contact with a lot of heavy breathing....

Larkin, sounds great to me. Quite a start for one's sexual adventures.

Playing under the covers, touching, feeling, licking and using toys are all exciting for both partners. Reaching orgasm is the name of the gave and it can take a wonderfully long time to stimulate, but don't cum yet...

I love it when y BF stimulates me down there

Honestly ,..i cum the hardest from being masturbated by my lover,,,.no blowjob, no pussy, nothing makes me cum harder.

To masturbate or be masturbated, that is the question

Hmmm. Yeah.

To be masturbated, that is the answer.

What can I say, I'm a whore.

If I had to make a definitive choice for a lifetime of one or the other, there is no question I would choose to BE masturbated.

It's an orgasm with no work involved. How could anyone chose anything else?

I'd choose the passive method - as long as the partner can take directions. Too many make incorrect assumptions about speed and techniques.

I have to agree with you JDS. They have to take directions.

Someone blindly masturbating another person without knowing exactly what they like is almost torture, especially once the orgasm begins.

I have to agree with you JDS. They have to take directions.

Someone blindly masturbating another person without knowing exactly what they like is almost torture, especially once the orgasm begins.

If the orgasm ever arrives. More than once, I've had to take matters in hand 😉

Once upon a time, in a sexual workshop, one of the exercises was to masturbate for your partner to show them just what you like.

@Jds4med said

I'd choose the passive method - as long as the partner can take directions. Too many make incorrect assumptions about speed and techniques.

Yes, some do. As you also say, not all listen to directions and/or think they know better than the person on the receiving end. It doesn't make for a satisfactory outcome for either partner.

I'd love to put down being masturbated. It can be so good to not have to be doing the work. But. . . it doesn't always work out even with reasonably good directions being given (while you are able to talk). If I do it myself I know exactly what, where, and when to get myself over the top.

There are times when my sub is doing the masturbating, and during sex, that my "pleasure button" seems to move around in there. A few strokes and it's great then bam! it's gone. No one moved or changed positions but the "pleasure button" has flipped to off. It can be frustrating depending on the results at the end.

Never thought much about webcam stuff but that sounds interesting.

Yes, I like watching my wife use her vibrator. She had me order it for her. She has Parkinson's Disease and you should see the questionnaire she has to fill out prior to seeing her Neurologist that treats her for Parkinson's. It has questions about if you enjoy sex more and questions like this. The first time I was filling one out by asking my wife for the answers, she didn't believe that the questions I was asking her were on the form, so I had to show her. And we though sex drive subsides with age, not necessarily.

Bill

I bet every man likes to watch a woman masturbate. You get to see how they really like it and it is a real turn on to see a woman get pleasure even if she is giving it to herself.

Watching girls masturbate is a great thing. I often lick and touch my girl until she is very horny and than let her finish herself off with a wand vibrator on her clit. Sometimes I just watch and other times I will help by putting a finger or two inside her,sometimes one in her butt too cause she loves this. It seems it only takes a min once the vibe is on her clit to finish up if we have already been playing for a while.

I enjoy watching a woman masturbate. touching her erotic body with sexy/erotic fingers, parting her lips and inserting a long slender finger or two is a super turn-on for me. Many women enjoy putting on a show, too.

Absolutely love it.

I remember the first time I realized how fun it was. My girlfriend at the time who, and I'd bet this added to my fun, was rather conservative, but was on top riding me and out of her character drew her hands up her body and over her breasts. She first held them lightly then started moving more and eventually started massaging/kneading. She had her eyes closed and became more and more engrossed in what she was doing. I slowly stopped moving and watched her squeeze and pinch while rocking her hips until the inevitable breath taking orgasm left her collapsing on top of me.

That was the first of many sessions where she learned to masturbate and I learned to watch. There were times for fun she would, just to work me up, do it in situations where I couldn't/wasn't allowed to blatantly enjoy. Man, I miss that fun.

I will answer for my husband, or for that matter, any man that I have ever had an relationship with.

The answer is YES. It is like men are allowed to enter the secret world of a woman and are getting to experience the forbidden fruit.

My sub likes it when I masturbate on him (he gets an enema when this happens). He knows it is a pretty sure bet I'll orgasm, even if it isn't as good as when I'm fucking him. It can be satisfying to him to know I've cum, but his balls are not always happy.

I love watching my wife masturbate. The best is when I'm on my back and she straddles my chest with her ass facing me, and starts playing with her clit. This position lets me play with her asshole as well. Which she really likes. Only problem is she can't seem to cum in this position. she likes it on her back.

I very much enjoy watching her masturbate. I rarely sit back and enjoy the show but rather get in on the action and assist in some way. We seldom have sex on these occasions but I certainly enjoy enhancing her satisfaction by sucking on a nipple while she stimulates her vagina and clitoris. The closest to penetration that I do when she is masturbating is to gently stimulate her anus and possibly insert a finger into her anus.

I enjoy observing most forms of sexual activities.

I love watching a woman masturbate especially if she gets into it and has an orgasm.

I love having someone masturbate me but I cum more easily if I finish myself off.

I love having someone masturbate me but I cum more easily if I finish myself off.

This is true for me as well. I love to have someone play with my cock. But to cum, I need to take over. That said, he/she can then play with my balls or ass.