How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

I HAVE NOTICED that numerous men here that have responded here SAY they are straight, but in fact they are NOT STRAIGHT.

They are bisexual or heteroflexible if you look in their profiles.

That gives a skewed and incorrect answer to the original poster's question.

Switchable is right - this question is supposed to be about how straight men would feel about being in a spanking scene with a gay man. As far as I am concerned, a spanking is a spanking, no matter what the orientation of the spanker amd spankee. I would have no issue with it, as long as it was just a spanking.

You may say we are perverts but this what happens --My best friend from childhood --we are now in 50's---and i go camping once a yr and have for yrs--During that time totally alone each gets a night to really confess ( like a 5th step i believe in AA) everything in the last yr---I could tell no one else w/o total shame but with my friend it is fine---then each takes a bare paddling/spanking from the other--each has his night as confessee and spankee and vice versa While it is not abusive it hurts a lot--- --we started out when getting paddled by coach in high school and kind of in fun spanked each other's bare butt---then for yrs we did not. Each married and good marriages and fine children---I do not know just why we do it and do the confessing etc---but we do each has a sore butt when its our turn--but each yr we do it----We are probably are totally rare. I would like comments but please do not write just to tell me we are perverts thanks

YOU ARE PERVERTS! 😁 😁 😁

What did you expect us to say when you said not to say it?

What you are doing sounds like fraternity hazing among friends.

Have a blast!

Is there any "Brokeback Mountain" action going on??

I got paddled by a male friend once--bare butt and it hurt----It certainly did nothing for me sexually at all My friend did like it and I did it for him----but frankly, all I had was a sore bare butt---so I just would not want to do it again--cause who wants a sore bare butt?

Of course, with your sexual orientation it is understanding that you would like to be spanked even by straight man, my question is: are you sure that the man who spanked you was really "straight"? I do not think so because I am straight and the best partner for me is only straight woman.

Of course, with your sexual orientation it is understanding that you would like to be spanked even by straight man, my question is: are you sure that the man who spanked you was really "straight"?

I do not think so because I am straight and the best partner for me is only straight woman.

My two-part answer is this: My straight as an arrow husband would say, men, keep your hands to yourself. You can't be straight if you want to be spanked by another man. I agree, you would have to have at least some bisexual or homosexual tendencies to want that. To thine own self be true.

Second, the best partner for a straight man is NOT necessarily a straight woman. I am heteroflexible or bisexual (whatever you would like to call me) and completely straight men can learn a lot from a whore like me who knows how to please men AND women.

I am a gay male but I have been spanked by straight males... Spanking to me can be sexual. Some men are just sadistic and want to inflict pain others think back fondly on their lessons with Dad and really want to be on the giving end but have no children or they are gone. This can be a very bonding experience that need not have much if any of a sexual component to it... Straight men often spank the best because there is no sexual tension just a desire to lay it on and get the desired reaction... I find it ideal when a straight Dad will strap my ass well past the point of starting to cry... It is a cathartic experience. I know of straight men who too find it the same.

I am a straight man and have strong fantasies about (and have been) spanked by another man. If he's gay or straight, doesn't make a difference to me. To me, it's the loss of control. I'm Type-A and often in charge in 'real life' business situations, and the idea of being dominated, be it for an exam, to be spanked or even groped or touched are all very exciting to me. The idea of being forced to strip, having my penis seen or touched - to me the pain of the spanking isn't all that welcome - but the anticipation/nervousness and humiliation are what's most exciting.

We are well into mid age---so its a long way from getting spanked by our football coach--but that is where it started----Years later my friend will call me up once in a while and ask me to come to his office when we both know the office is closed----He has a need to spank my bare butt and I do strip off and take it so I am as much to blame ---Its our only weird thing in an otherwise normal friendship----but I admit its is very unusual---Its odd when he needs to spank me we do not even talk much about it We both know what to do--he does the spanking and he makes it hurt and I just strip off and bend over and take it--little or no talk about it

I have no desire to be spanked by men whatsoever. I think its because my step father whipped my behind with his belt so many times when I was a child. My aunt and mother whipped my behind too, but It seems more natural to me. I did give a gay man a pretty good spanking with a riding crop, because he thought I was gay because I ride horses and he wouldn't leave me alone. I had him bend over a couple bales of hay tied his hands down and whipped his ass until he was howling and begging. I do enjoy spanking female behinds, and I enjoyed tanning him, I guess just never thought of spanking a male before.

Well Caddy I would be very happy to let you let you work over my gay butt.... I don't think you are gay, but if you enjoy dishing out a good punishment to a guys ass, you should do it.

I would enjoy a male either spankings me or me spankings another man

I would have to think about another man however my mind wanders to the idea of my wife having a more "strict" friend spank me in her presence. Bare bottom of course. Maybe a paddle?

I get spanking from several different people both men and women, but I prefer to be made to strip and be placed over the knee of a man. It is much more humiliating to me to have to be in such a sub-servant position to a man. Knowing that you in such a vulnerable position with another man completely in control of your most private parts, your buttocks, butt hole and balls on display and available to him to do as he pleases is the most submissive encounter that I can think of.

Once the spanking starts and you involuntarily begin hunching his leg and get an erection is so embarrassing.

If I cum I hope he paddles me very hard for my indiscretion. Those paddlings hurt like hell but lets you know in no uncertain terms that you have been punished, which is a great feeling after.

The continuing "straight" questions crack me up. Man/man or woman/tranny...

Believe you or not, after months and even years on the "kinky" site (including lurking) some people remain straight, and not a tiny bit bi-curious. It strangely reminded me of Russian mom message boards with a few neanderthal worries whether repeated enemas, suppositories, or RTs would make their sons gay.

Seems logical. If a straight man enjoys things like enemas and thermometers up his ass, he must be curious about you know, a real cock, right?

I get it. The gay/transsexual community is very vocal about kinks due to being more adventurous and uninhibited about sexual deviations, but it does not mean the opposite: that every other deviant automatically has homosexual fantasies.

Now, if you are asking those who lied in their profiles about the gender and sexual orientation: very obvious from their posts, that's a different topic.

My best friend from high school on (we are well into middle age) has switched my naked butt and made it hurt alot--Its about a little too much drinking on my part-- otherwise our friendship is equal and he is a very good friend Since childhood he has been kind if the more dominant friend --I do not know why I never do not argue when he says I got it coming I just bare my middel aged butt and bend over----and he makes it hurt

@PottyTrainee is right. I would NEVER want to spank another man (since I am on the D side), nor would I ever want sexual contact with another man. I could be stranded on an island with 100 of the 'hunkiest' most 'gorgeous' men ever... and I would be masturbating about a woman in my head and never ever consider a man as a sexual partner. That's what 'straight' means.

Now many people are in the middle, or are curious and that's fine. They can explore, or fantasize and should be free to do whatever they want to do or try whatever they wish. But they would be in the curious or bi range, not straight.

Sure spanking crosses all the gender-sex stereotypes. I've had lots of really meaningful sexual relationships with women on a physical and intellectual level, but never admitted to any of them that I fantasise about being spanked, even to the more assertive/dominant girlfriends I've had/had me. But when I fantasise about being spanked by a women, sometimes its by a really dominant cow/bitch, but also by a schoolgirl hockey team player, smaller than me, who caught me looking up her er er er and decided to teach me a lesson right there and then!

sorry Miss, I won't do it again... but if I do and you catch me doing it, I know exactly what will happen...

x

I pulled a lot of crap on my parents when I was a kid, the same stuff that got all of my friends a good butt warming. But my parents, aside from the occasional slap across the face from my mother for being mouthy, never used corporal punishment.

Later in my adulthood I got to thinking about everything I got away with in my youth, and began to wonder if my never being spanked had the reverse effect on me. I finally decided that I needed to have the experience of having an angry father do what should have been done a long time ago.

I did some research, and eventually contacted a man who was willing to give me what I needed. We met, and I agreed to submit to whatever punishment he felt was due a young man who deserved it.

He began by telling me how disappointed he was in my behavior, and that I was going to get a good, long spanking. He sat in a chair and drew me across his lap. He spanked my bottom for a while, and then had me stand in a corner to think about all the things I had done. The he called me back over to him, where he lowered my pants and underwear. Back across his knee, the spanks came hard and fast on my bare bottom. Then, with my clothing down around my ankles, I spent more time in the corner.

He finally told me to lay down on the bed, and a judicious application of his leather belt was applied to my bare bottom. Through my tears I confessed that I was wrong to do all the things I had done, and I was forgiven.

I have to say that this scenario accomplished exactly what I wanted it to. Although it was a wholly unpleasant experience, I no longer feel that I got away with all that I did as a kid without receiving the punishment I was due … though it was several decades late.

Yeah. It was a dangerous thing to do, and it sure could have gotten out of hand in a hurry. Still, I don't regret having finally come to grips with what I felt was a major deficiency in my rearing. I'm really glad that I decided to “punish myself” in this manner.

PhdWillie That was a very interesting story (I have little doubt it was true). Very few men are willing to give a disciplinary level punishment in my experience.... And most spankers I have encountered are not only safe and sane but overly cautious. I am very glad you got what you needed only wish I could find a man to do that for me on a regular basis... I do have a 75 friend I think of as Dad, but don't get to see him very often... a boy like me needs to meet up with Dad weekly....

I am straight and have been spanked several times by other men. And let me assure everyone the idea of gay sex repulses me and I am not at all attracted to men. I am married, and my wife wears dresses and perfume and is girly.....I don't allow her to wear pants or do anything masculine. So you can throw out that "you have to be gay" argument. I only seek out men mostly because I'm married, and being undressed with another woman is not appropriate. Although nudity is not sex, nudity is not always appropriate either.

There are different styles of spankings, and different reactions and interactions. I try not to script things out, but just give preferences and hard limits, of which one is obviously "no sex or fondling." I have never had any problems with any guy not respecting that, and those that would have problems have thankfully said so from the get go, sparing me an uncomfortable situation.

Spankings range from hard discipline, rapid fire parental type spankings that are over in a couple of minutes, to full blown discipline sessions where there are several spankings interspersed with corner time. I have had some guys who rub my bottom a lot during the spankings, and some who do not rub at all. Some are very paternal, others are more mechanical. One thing I've learned is that every spanking interaction is totally unique.

The goal of spanking for me is discipline, so the best interactions are those that leave me feeling punished, and that clear the slate in my head. There are other mental components, but psychoanalysis of the spanko mind seems to be an exercise in futility. Understanding why I desire it, seek it out, and do it would not really solve or change anything.

I am s straight male and I have been spanked before by other men . For me these spankings are no different than receiving them from a female . One of my first spankings I got from another male started with contact and an exchange of messages before I would visit him .

When I was comfortable with meeting him made set a date and time . I arrived to his apartment we had the general small talk . Upon entering his place was a small kitchen directly in front of me and the bathroom to the left. I could see past the kitchen to a spacious living room . After having a glass of water and using the bathroom he got to business why I was there .

Adjacent to the bathroom was a small bench . I was ordered to undress to my underwear . First I took my shoes and socks off . Then removed my shirt and finally my pants. I do not wear t- shirts so I was no clad just in a pair of briefs . I was taken into the leaving room where I saw a chair in the center of the room . He sat down in the chair then proceeded to remove my briefs and ordered to step out of them . I was now naked before a male for the first time and I found this exciting as I had an erection . He placed a towel across his lap before I went over his knee .

First using hands spanked my naked buttocks. At times paying attention to my sit spots . I moved around his lap some and parted my legs . He spanked me harder with a paddle , small strap and finished with a hairbrush. My reactions were the same as if I was being spanked at the hands of a woman. I came while I was across his lap getting spanked .

He sat down in the chair then proceeded to remove my briefs and ordered to step out of them . I was now naked before a male for the first time and I found this exciting as I had an erection . He placed a towel across his lap before I went over his knee .. . . . I came while I was across his lap getting spanked .

THAT sounds sexual.

Are you sure you aren't denying your bisexuality?

Just like the ‘STRAIGHT men getting/giving enemas to other men’ thread, this is ridiculous. If you are getting hard or orgasming during a spanking from another man (giving or receiving), then you are NOT straight! If you believe in the Kinsey scale, you may not be all the way to gay or even bi, but you certainly aren’t way over to the straight side if you enjoy having sexual experiences with other men.

There’s nothing wrong with it of course, but just accept that you are at least heteroflexible.

I have always enjoyed spanking both giving and receiving. I had always done it with females until one girl recommended a man who was an expert spanker. I plucked up the courage and we met for a coffee fist to discuss my requirements and concerns. I was put at ease when he announced he was heterosexual and showed me pictures of other men he'd spanked. I then made an appointment and went along. I was expertly spanked over the knee and once into it I didn't really notice when he lowered my clothing for my bare bottom spanking. The level of intensity was just right and I really benefited from the experience. I'll definitely go again one day.

I would not mind a male play-doc examining me. But then again oddly or maybe hypocritically (?) I would not like to be spanked by another male at all. Not one bit really. The thought sort of upsets me even. Which i can't explain in the light of looking forward to a male conducted play-exam.

Btw - I am not claiming to be straight, so that is not an issue as such.

I have been spanked by quite a few times by another man . My most recent time was this past Sunday . So Sunday I made arrangements to spanked Sunday in the city at 10 :00 am . Catching the train I entered the city and walked to his place .

Once I got to his street rang the bell and went up a few flights of stairs to his apartment . We had a bit of small talk before getting to the spanking. He had a ritual that first I remove my shoes and socks which I did . The he took down my pants and had me step out of them . Next he took off my shirt which left me in my briefs . Then finally he reach for my waistband of my briefs and took them down and off me . Now I stood totally naked before him . Being undressed gave me an erection . He took a seat on his couch and placed a towel across his lap. Over I went across his lap .

My spanking began with him just using his hand . His tempo picked up and covered my whole backside. I would say within the first five minutes I came while over the knee . Then I just relaxed in that position as he spanked me . Maybe after 20 minutes of spanking applied some lotion to my warmed up buttocks . I have seen this guy before and are comfortable around him . His hand as well as rubbing my backside went up and down my inner thigh some . Once in while he pinched my scrotum very lightly. Then I was given a break and was able have something to eat and drink .

Once again I went over his lap and had a few wooden implements used on me. I squirmed some as not used to having wood used on me . He remarked how I took the spanking compared to others he has spanked . Afterwards I got dressed and started home .

Works as fantasy for me, but probably wouldn't care for it too much in reality.

My female partner would take me along to a professional spanker for punishment. I would be paddled by him wearing just lycra shorts, while bending over a table. His pretty female assistant would also be present to witness this.

When the punishment was completed, she would pull down my shorts, so my partner could see my reddened bottom and know the spanker had done a proper job.

At home my partner would joke and tease me about my red bottom and the huge erection it had given me.

Nonetheless she would put it to good use and consider my punishment money well spent!

I have been spanked by gay and straight men. It makes no difference to me. Since my spanking pursuits do not lead to sex, gender and sexual preference are irrelevant.

Straight guys represent a significant minority of guys into male on male spanking.

I'm not straight - but I have direct experience getting spanked by both gay and straight guys. There is no doubt in my mind that they are being honest about their orientation as the experience with them is very different. Unlike with gay (or bi) guys, there is no hint of any eroticism or sexual touching - they are only interested in the domination and punishment aspect. If you want a distilled punishment experience then they are definitely the way to go.

Defining what "straight" means is a different subject and maybe for a different thread. I would put forward two reasons a straight guy would engage in this:

- Availability: Men outnumber women with an interest in BDSM and spanking. It's not hard to understand why men who are romantically and physically attracted to women would "cross the road" to deliver (or receive) corporal punishment style non-sexual sessions.

Historical authenticity: I mean no disrespect to those who produce or consume videos like "Naughty girl gets bare bottom caning from headmaster" - but there is an air of fantasy about it. I think us boys and men have always needed and received more corporal punishment, and it was usually delivered by men in non-domestic contexts.