How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

My first adult spanking was administered by a gay man. We both knew the situation beforehand so nothing sexual happened. I was spanked naked. Later he told me he was turned on by my body.

My usual spanker is s woman ... it sometimes feels very maternal to me, and she knows just how far to take the spankings so I can go home to my wife without having to answer a bunch of questions about why my bottom is so bruised. However ...

I did go to a local spanking party recently. I didn't think of it, but I wish I'd have asked one of the bigger guys to take me OTK. I was never spanked by my parents, but I want to see how it feels being spanked by a father type.

I think gender and orientation does not matter when coming to a true punishment spanking.

I like allot (watching) the F/f scene but no experience with a M/m spanking. I must admit that I am curious about if there is no sex involved.

At home, only Mom gave the spankings, so i have no idea how it is to be over Dad's lap. Maybe man give harder hand spankings?

I have no problem with this idea at all. Why not? I like to keep my diaper on anyway, so there is a bit of a barrier, and if the man is bigger and stronger, the spanking will be better.

I was taken over a man's knee once at a Fetish club, and he gave a great spanking right over my diaper. I am straight, so was he. It was just great fun

I'm straight and would get erections when my dad spanked me. If I'm over his lap getting spanked for a while then I get pleasure from it. I do not want to spank another man but if another man wanted to spank me I guess I would let him but I much rather try being spanked by a woman.

I am straight and it doesn't interest me at all.

I'm straight too. I have no interest in being spanked by a man. Make it a woman and I think I might be interested.

I'm straight, and the only time I was ever spanked by a man was when I was almost broke and he was cheap. He'd advertised in some underground paper, and he said he'd purposely used the term "bare bottom" to attract a certain kind of client. At the time, I couldn't afford the dommes I was used to seeing, and I was desperate to feel even another man's hands on my naked backside, spanking and hopefully fondling as well.

He and his yappy little dog lived in a townhouse he was in the process of selling, and he was built like the proverbial butcher. After locking the dog up somewhere, he led me to his bedroom with a nice big double bed. I was certainly ready to be spanked, but the next thing I knew, the guy was taking off his shirt. It dawned on me that maybe he'd assumed I was gay, and I quickly disabused him of that notion. I told him all I wanted was to be taken over his knee for a bare bottom spanking.

He sat on the far corner of the bed and took down my jeans. As big as he was around the middle, I had to hold on to him to keep from sliding off what there was of his lap. He may have smacked my underpants with his hand, I've forgotten, but I know he had a paddle. It wasn't all that long before I was wanting my bottom bared, and I actually had to prompt him to do so. What followed was more paddling. I kept waiting to feel his hand on my bum, smacking and rubbing...it never happened. I figured if he wasn't gonna do it willingly, there wasn't much point in my saying anything.

Eventually, he needed a break. I got up, and he lay back on the bed. Still bare-bottomed, I sat on a chair and recited a couple of original spanking poems for him. He enjoyed that. Before I went back across his knee, he did bring himself to touch my bum and declare it very spankable. But that was it for bare hand on bare bottom. He resumed paddling me, but at just about the time one of my dommes would've been getting warmed up, he said I'd had enough. For fifty bucks, maybe so.

All I could think afterwards was that when I told him I wasn't gay, he assumed I wouldn't want his hand on my bare behind. He couldn't have been more mistaken, and perhaps I should've said something once he'd finally pulled my underpants down, but I thought it would probably make him uncomfortable if he wasn't gonna do it automatically. Anyway, notwithstanding the shortcomings of this spanking session, I would've gone back to him again. But when his ad was no longer being run, I figured he must've sold his house.

As for my spanking another male, there's no real interest there. It's not even a fantasy.

Just to add to my earlier post...

I am not saying that I would actively seek a spanking from a man, it is just that, to quote a much earlier post " a hand is hand and a behind is a behind". To me, it is not the gender of the hand that is important, it is the spanking that matters. Most of us want to be taken properly over someone's knee, and be given a spanking that feels like a spanking! I don't think we should get to hung up on the gender issue, but rather the quality of the spanking.

I am also straight but do like to watch gay men being paddled on their bare butt, I could definately paddle a gay man and would like to be paddled by him.

Nope...zero interest for me. I would only enjoy the spanking activities if they were with or from a female enemate.

I am also straight but do like to watch gay men being paddled on their bare butt, I could definately paddle a gay man and would like to be paddled by him.

You aren't straight.

Your profile says heteroflexible.

Looking through this thread, several men have responded that they would like to spank or be spanked by a man but in their profiles, they have stated they are either bisexual or heteroflexible--NOT STRAIGHT.

My ignorance of the meaning of heteroflexiable, but your right they did say Straight, wasn't trying to mislead just join in and as it turns incorrectly

Not to go back to the topic but I would be totally freaked out by being spanked by a man. It would be too much like having a real punishment. The kind of spanking I guess I'd like would be three light pats from a female lover as a prelude to sex. No real corporal punishment for me thanks. Also I'm entirely straight so this would preclude any homosexual activity.

I do not play sexually with men , nor do I participate in scenarios where there are men. Simply not excite me the idea.

With women, I can play "everything".

Not to go back to the topic but I would be totally freaked out by being spanked by a man. It would be too much like having a real punishment. The kind of spanking I guess I'd like would be three light pats from a female lover as a prelude to sex. No real corporal punishment for me thanks. Also I'm entirely straight so this would preclude any homosexual activity.

Kind of like being beaten in prison with a lead weighted leather paddle?

my ignorance of the meaning of heteroflexiable, but your right they did say Straight, wasn't trying to mislead just join in and as it turns incorrectly

Heteroflexible means you are mostly hetero, but will go the other way if a really good opportunity presents itself.

I consider myself heteroflexible. 98% with my husband, 2% with one of two women I have a purely fun sexual relationship with a couple times a year.

Yep Susie that's it exactly. Hopefully no prison action for me in the near future.

Hopefully no prison action for me in the near future.

Unless, of course, that's exactly what you want :O

The more I explore myself in role playing the more I'm finding I have a heteroflexible side, as well as a submissive side. I am really surprised but there it is. I've always thought I'd be happy to spank the right guy. Still not quite sure about receiving tho, comments above notwithstanding. I have become convinced of the power of spontaneous role playing to reveal things about me

Like other dom/sub activities, it is the one receiving the spanking that is actually in control. That dom/sub relationship and power was discussed a different thread a day or two ago. Sexual orientation has little if anything to do with it if it is just a spanking. If spanking is prelude to other sexual activity, orientation and preference would enter in.

I'm a gay man who has been lucky enough to meet and play with two heteroflexible men that I met on this site. They were both great to play with and I felt I had a good bond with them because I am not interested in "traditional" sexual activity with them, just the kinks we shared. And I admire their ability to BE flexible, because I seriously doubt I could bring myself to play with anyone of the opposite sex.

When it comes to spanking, as far as I'm concerned, a butt is a butt--as long as it's attached to a guy. I am perfectly willing to give another guy (especially a younger one) what he needs from a male figure, for whatever reason. I think a lot of guys, gay and straight, missed out on that kind of connection with their father and some will do anything to get it back.

And since I have been training with another Dom to hone my own skills, I have recently learned just how pleasurable and addictive it can be to drop your pants and take a hard strapping from a man you respect.

If I have to label myself I would call myself straight, I would not have a problem spanking a gay man, and joining in a little roleplay if required.

As a woman I first of all really enjoy male gay porn, but aside from that....

I am hugely turned on at the thought of watching 2 men spank each other or do other naughty things to each other. Now while I like to watch gay porn it isn't much of a turn on for me. But watching 2 straight men spanking each other and or doing kinky things to each other is a HUGE turn on for me. I think what it is that turns me on is their uncomfortableness, their uncertainty, their hesitations. They are both straight, but for some reason having a woman watch them touch another man is a turn on for them, they are confused. They are not exactly sure what to do first or even at all, lol. Yeah, that's a huge turn on for me. Well I have actually never seen it, but I really really want to, lol.

Mashie

Any person who's likes to be spanked would get pleasure out of the spanking no matter who's doing it. Male or Female. I'm a straight man and got hard when my dad spanked me or when mom spanked me. So I would still enjoy it if it were a male spanking me because at the end of the day it's still a spanking. However I would rather be spanked by a female because I'm straight.

I am a straight male but would love to have my briefs lowered, lay across his naked lap and spanked by another man.

I am 65 years old, and my wife has been spanking me for years. It's always across her lap, with her hand, first on the seat of my underpants, then bare bottom. I have an orgasm every time. Getting spanked has been a compelling fantasy since before I reached puberty. The thought of getting spanked by another man keeps returning for me. I wonder how I would feel being bottom - up across a man's lap. What if he were gay? What if it really turned him on? What if he were really annoyed, and thought I deserved the spanking? - lectured me, scolded me? Would a man's hand sting a lot more than a woman's? And, would I reach an orgasm from being spanked by a man? I keep wondering. I don't have my wife's permission to try this, so I think it would be cheating, and keep stopping myself. But, the fantasy, and at times the desire, are really hot! Also, if the spanker were gay, (or maybe even if he were straight), what would it feel like if he admired my bottom, the way we straight men admire a woman's spank-able bottom? Perhaps I'll never find out.

Im straight but was always spanked by my father or male relatives growing up. I find being spanked by a man humiliating and that is what I need. I have been spanked by a woman but it did nothing. More recently I have started spanking men - both gay and straight. Sometimes they enjoy my wife watching - a role play of visiting an aunt and uncle or mother and father however Im always the person doing the spanking. There is no sex involved but straight guys sometimes get full or partial erections. Makes no difference to me...

As a bisexual I guess I don't count, but my two cents is that if I am to be spanked, there has to be an element of trust. Atm I am much more willing to be spanked by a woman because I was abused by my father, and I am more hesitant around men. But if you are a good looking dude with a calm and loving attitude I will happily get over your knee.

I HAVE NOTICED that numerous men here that have responded here SAY they are straight, but in fact they are NOT STRAIGHT.

They are bisexual or heteroflexible if you look in their profiles.

That gives a skewed and incorrect answer to the original poster's question.