How many STRAIGHT men would spank or be spanked by another man?

I am a homosexual man. Yet in spanking, which to me is the source of all my erotica I have had the best spankings (no sex) by straight men...I've also given the best spankings, (as I got older) you younger straight guys. One guy actually had his wife send him to me when she thought he was "naughty"...He'd go home from my spankings with a red bottom and a dick of steel. She loved it. Personally I think spanking crosses not only gender lines, but orientations

I agree because a hand is always a hand and a bottom always a bottom,an erotogenous zone to all people.The feelings prepare us to spank or get spanked.The man you describe wanted to be spanked had the approval of his wife you wanted to do it so we have all parties happpy.Why?All agreed and loved and trusted each other,no matter of sexual orientation.

I'm hetro. Simply not attracted to guys. But I think the idea of my wife sending me to a guy to get a paddling is extraordinarly hot.

Not my husband.

He will do all sorts of sexual activities with women in front of other men or women, but he won't be touched by another man.

Hi Susie, I agree with your husband. Im not into any contact with males in a sexual scenario.

I have certainly given this matter some thought ... for reasons that are not even clear to me, I would consider giving another male an enema or a spanking, but I would not accept the same in return ..... and I do like to receive both from an obliging lady.

Im am straight but i lover to be spanked by a man. i have an older gentleman w/a big stocky body and he turnes me over his lap and gives me a good sound span king w/ a very large hand.---bruner

Nothing better than a committed relationship. Nothing. And, hard to imagine that with another man. Equally hard to imagine sex with another man. Still, there are those times you need someone to take you over their knee and apply the hairbrush until you're bright red, incredibly sore, and unable to sit comfortably for a week. And, at those times, would it really matter who was holding the brush? Just wondering. That's all.

I get spankings from men,gay or straight, women, and transgender people. It doesn't matter to me, I liked to be spanked, they are all sexy to me unless someone makes me ejaculate before a spanking. Then it is just punishment but more memorable and stimulating a few days later when I think back on it. I guess one could say that is extreme delayed gratification.

Sure, why not?

Sorry 77 same here, except that my wife would like to watch!

Her fantasy is for me to be spanked & taken by another man who is also submissive to her!

Wish it would happen!

Would love to be spanked & be another mans bitch with my wife cheering him on & holding me in position!

I'm not really into spanking and, while I don't like labels, I prefer female sex partners. That said, a hand is a hand and a mouth is a mouth.

When I talk about spanking, I'm imagining almost any BDSM activity. I have no issues with male play partners.

Interesting post WingRider and a topic worth discussing.

I have no idea why I or other straight men would like to be spanked by a man but it is a big turn-on. By the way, I would find it pretty hot too if the spanker was female. With due respect to gay and bi guys, I just do not find men sexually attractive at all. Neither is it about male bonding as I am not into that either, actually preferring the company of women. Maybe it is about doing something that is considered taboo or maybe the ultimate act of submission is submit to another guy as it could not be considered to be some sort of mutual attraction as it would be between a straight man and a woman.

Whatever the reason is, in my mind at least, being naked and over a man’s knees for a good spanking or over a chair for the strap or cane and having him touch me wherever he liked is a hot fantasy. I don’t know how I would feel about the reality as alas it has never happened.

I'm hetero but am happy to be spanked by other men. It's difficult to find women to do this, especially non-professionals. That aside, I have no desire to spank a man or be the giver to another man. I can't explain it but I'm just attracted to women and would prefer to be spanked by a female; still, I am happy to receive a spanking or enema from a guy. I think the scenario of vulnerability and being under another's control is arousing. The power shift when the recipient is pants-down, pantsless, or naked is also a big turn on for me. So I'm happy to get spanked by a guy.

I have enjoyed spankings from both men and women. My spankings from women have been from pro-dommes, so while they have been enjoyable they always seem a bit more artificial. On occasions where I have received a spanking from a man it was usually in a role play scenario where each person is getting pleasure from his role. I enjoy that aspect of my spankings from men.

I love spankings from either a man or a woman, but it is more thrilling, more humiliating and more of a challenge to go across the knee or stand before a man for a paddling or spanking. I was spanked mostly by women teachers in school but the few time I had to take it from a man it just seemed more erotic. They took longer, stretched out the preparation, patted the butt more with the paddle and paddled longer and harder. Men were more concerned with getting one into position and making sure one stayed in that position.

On reflection about these paddlings, I think these guys we acting on some homoerotic sadistic urge and paddling a boy was about their only outlet.

I did have an experience later in life with a teacher that caused me thing I was correct/

I would have no problem being paddled or paddling a man, gay or straight, I have only been spanked females but any paddling is very exciting

I know of at least one guy (straight) who has no problem being spanked by a guy, even a gay guy (me). I met him on this site and we have become good friends. I know he would prefer to play with women, but I thank him for his flexibility and allowing me to explore some of my kinks with him. I just wish I could find him a good kinky woman to take down his pants and give him a good, humiliating paddling!

I'm okay with it, as long as boundaries are clearly defined (I don't want a guy to grab my dick mid-spanking, even if it's hard and he thinks he's turned me on). While I have mostly had female-administered spankings in the past, I've been spanked by men a few dozen times too. One or twice it was with someone whom I know is gay, but he knew I was not so he respected that. His spanking wasn't as "serious" as the ones from straight men, as if he was holding back. I didn't like that.

I am also gay but love to spank straight guys. It doesn't have to involve actual sexual contact, but I like him to be naked and enjoy seeing his erection as he is spanked or paddled. I think for him it is the humiliation from he spanking and the fact it is given by another male, especially a gay guy, which is such a turn on.

Normally I'd only allow a woman to do it but I could accept this only if I deserved the spanking and only if I trust the guy. And at most only if my diaper/pants was pulled down enough to expose my bum and no more.

Spankings are just another form of pleasure to many people whether they are gay or straight. As in any settings, boundaries should be set and respected by both parties. Personally, it does not matter to me if I am spanking or being spanked by a gay or straight person...it is just fun to be enjoyed!

How well must you know a straight man to request a spanking from him?

I would love to be spanked by a man or spank another man. There is just a higher level of humiliation that goes with it. Unfortunately spankers and spankees are quite scarce in the Memphis area...

I think the fantasy is better than the reality for me. Im straight and love getting spanked by powerful women but the humiliation of getting spanked against my will by a gay guy is interesting. Knowing they may be excited at making me erect and exposing me is great. In reality though I doubt I could get naked in that way with another man.

I have a secret thing about gewtting my bare butt paddled----it stems from junior high when coach paddled and spamked me----It was wrong how he did it as it was too sensual for a 14 yr old----but it sort of got me into wanting another paddling from a guy like coach-----i have never been able to indulge this----as how does a guy ask for a paddling/spanking from another guy---he would think i was a weirdo----How does a spank guy get a spanker???? Who could a normal guy ever ask?

I would probably, if I trusted the guy enough.

I like being over another guys knee, getting an good old fashioned bare butt spanking. I could care less about it being a sex thing. I just want a good strong hand doing the discipline and making my butt red and uncomfortable.

Sorry but I'm gonna say no to this one

Spankings when growing up were either applied to bare bottom by hand or belt and it never mattered which parent male/female. also had many other friends boys/girls spanked also by Mom's or Dads. School teachers who spanked were also male or female.