Watching Your Wife/Partner's Examination

Matt83 I think you have a very good attitude on exams about making notes and asking questions. That is something my husband will do and I am sure he will do it next time I go to see my gynecologist next September.

I just prefer my doctors to be men and it is because I have seen women doctors who I have not got on with. I do not need friction when I go to see a doctor about anything or be made to feel I am a nuisance for taking up their time. I am not calling all women doctors bad or saying they do not know how they should talk to their patients but when 2 women do not get on it is not a good situation. My experience with men as doctors has been much better and I get on better with them.

I was witness to my wife undergoing an examination with her regular female gyn and a female teaching student, who did most of the exam, this is easily the epitome of my fantasy

"If" my hubby/ mate were to be there I would want him to participate in the exam. If there was something he wanted to see or touch I would want him to ask the Dr and do it. In fact if he were to ask the Dr to do any other exam on me it would be the turn on of my life. My loved one, instructing the Dr. to perform unnecessary procedures for his enjoyment while he held my hand telling me it is alright and I must submit... What a great word that is "SUBMIT" What a remarkable turn on that would be.

Glad to hear from someone like you molly that enjoys their husbands presence and participation!!!

Watching my wife's exam, i prefer the doctor to be female.

I have been present at many of my SO's gyno exams, and the practitioners have always been female. I am not sure that they have any males there. They actually advertise female gynecologists on the radio. I used to get a laugh out of that, like do men really need a gyno? I don't think she had a gender preference. I know with the people she has seen there there is one that is much better than the others, and there is one that is downright bad. And she did try another practice before this one and got some russian woman and they really did not hit it off well at all.

I have never seen her be examined by a male. I am not sure it would make any difference, though I guess I would have to be there through it to see if it brought out any odd feelings.

One other Q. Is it legal for a group to only hire female practitioners?

Male doctors, definetely. My wife prefers male gynecologist, as do I.

I've watched several gyno exams being performed on different women (girlfriends and wives) that I have been in a relationship with. All of the gyno exams I've witnessed have been done by a female Doctor or Nurse Practitioner, except one exam was by a male Doctor. When I watched my girlfriend get her gyno exam by the male Doctor, he definitely was more detailed and took longer to examine her. He was very thorough giving her a breast exam. When she was in the stirrups and he was sitting between her legs, he put one finger in her and then began chatting about some current event. He must have distractingly chatted about the current event while sticking his finger up my girlfriend's pussy hole for at least 2-3 minutes. Then he had her do some kegel contractions on his finger, which I've not seen another Doctor perform during a gyno exam. My girlfriend later commented that it felt so weird talking to the Doctor while his finger was just resting inside of her. I've also enjoyed watching the gyno exams conducted by female Doctors. There's something I enjoy about seeing a female Doctor looking at my significant other's pussy. I always wonder what the female Doctor is thinking while she is looking at and inspecting another woman's girl bits, and the Doctor also can identify herself what it is like to be spread in stirrups. I think my preference of doctor gender is to watch whoever would keep my wife/partner spread in the stirrups the longest. It really turns me on to see the woman having to lie there acquiescing with her legs splayed open and she has to vulnerably display her pussy and ass at the end of the table to somewhat of a unknown person.

Lisa has had it done by both. It's not an issue for either of us, either way.

Watching wife or SO at gyno is amazingly hot. Seeing her violated and forced to submit to an exam is so erotic. Love when the nurse says to get undressed.

My wife has had both. My preference would be female only because her current doctor takes the time to explain things when she was pregnant. Her old male doctor did not.

I love watching my wife at the gyno. He is very thorough with his breast exams and always puts his fingers into her vagina and moves them around. This seems to get my wife excited. I get excited watching this.

Over the years, I have been to multiple exams with girlfriends as well as my wife. I have witnessed both male and female doctors, as well as nurses, (I think a male medical student or two) and even a young male physician's assistant. I personally prefer when there is a male performing the exam. Part of it is that I think my wife prefers to be examined by a male and part of it is based in the erotic nature of not knowing whether the male is enjoying himself (sexually) while conducting the exam. I'm not sure I can explain in words the different feeling in the room, watching a male examine my girlfriend or my wife, but there is definitely a difference when a man tells my wife to put her feet up, "relax and let your knees fall to the sides." I think the women patients I have been with are more tense for an examination by a male so I pick up on a hidden vibe that has sexual undertones and I feel much more a rush when I watch my wife present herself to another man...

I understand exactly what your saying Doc H. I feel the same way watching a male Dr. examining my wife!

I've been to many of my wife's exams over the past few years. She's been examined by both male and female doctors, and I can't say that one has been different than the other. There is something about watching another man finger her, however, that excites me!

My husband came with me sometimes. I always had female doctors. When I was carrying our last child I had a scrape mark caused by the blade of the speculum. My husband was given some home work to do. He received a medium Skylar speculum, long cotton tipped swabs and an antibiotic gel. Once a day he had to swab that raw spot with the gel. We had a fun time doing this at home. One after noon while the speculum was nuzzled in my warm vagina he tickled my clitoris with his tongue. That felt so good and I had a great orgasm. We went through the antiobotic but even after it was gone I wanted that speculum in me and for him to give my clitoris some tongue loving. That's when I really started to enjoy speculum play. I loved being opened up and that filled up feeling. During the afternoon of the night before I had my last daughter.we had speculum fun. I had a powerful orgasm. My husband noticed I was effacing and beginning to dilate. There was some bloody show and it appeared I was losing my mucus plug. He dressed me in my maternity underwear and fitted me with a sanitary napkin and belt. Within a very few short hours we were welcoming our daughter into the world. To this day I desire only female doctors. Sorry I got off track a bit.

I've been lucky enough to go to two of my wife's exams.

That sounds like a lot of fun. I would make sure the table was positioned so that you could see everything the doctor was doing to your spouse/significant other during the exam.

My bf always goes with me to my exams and I've always had a male doctor. That's what he prefers.

Hi folks

I have had the pleasure and gref of watching some of my wife's examinations, I wached a standard internal exam with legs in the frog position and a female doctor slowly examine M with two fingers , as she gave little gasps as the doc worked inside then a large speculum into introduced slowly slides in an was fully opens with a gasp from M she was asked to open her legs more and the doctor took a smear and a brush in to the cervix with a little cry fronts M. A few days later we had the cameras and biopsy it was fascinating for us both but very trying for M .

Just last week I could watch my wife's breast and gyno exam

Breast exam was a terrific close look.

Gyno was more difficult to see, but it was quite longer and spculum was in for a very a long time

I've been to a few of my wife's exams. Oddly enough I find it far from sexy while it is going on. This is probably because it's really not fun to see your partner uncomfortable. Because of this, in real life I don't care what sex the doctor is. Just someone she is comfortable with.

In the fantasy realm, if I'm not the doctor, I prefer her examiner to be a female. In my head girl on girl is a lot sexier (when I'm not involved).

As the original poster it's good to see that there's been several responses to my question.

Your preferences seem to be split fairly evenly but, for me, I much prefer the Doctor to be female.

I often fantasize about seeing my wife in lesbian situations (even though she's absolutely straight) and a medical examination by another woman is a dream come true for me!

In my perfect scenario she would go for her medical examination and the Doctor would be an attractive female, around 35 years old. She would be accompanied by 2 female medical students, around 25 years old, and she would ask my wife if it was OK for them to take part in the examination as part of their training. She agrees.

She removes her dress and bra and they start by examining her breasts. the Doctor goes first and carries out a very thorough examination of her breasts and nipples. then the 2 students take their turn while the Doctor looks on and instructs them. My wife has extremely sensitive breasts and the examination goes on for a very long time. Soon she's getting extremely aroused as the 3 women caress and fondle her breasts. She battles to remain calm but feels herself slipping out of control - by the time they've finished with her she's nearly coming and there's a damp patch visible in the crotch of her panties!

The breast exam over she gets on the table for the internal exam. She removes her panties and the crotch of her briefs is soaked with her cum much to the amusement of the Doctor and her 2 students. The exam starts with all 3 women taking turns to insert their fingers into her vagina. the exam is very thorough and intimate and of course my wife has to put up with it 3 times. She struggles desperately to remain calm but soon she's breathing heavily - as the relentless probing of her vagina continues she groans and flexes her wide spread legs.

The 3 women can see how aroused she is and decide to have a little fun with her. Taking turns to work her over they really turn the heat up on her by targeting her g-spot! They know exactly how to push her buttons and time and again she's taken to the brink of coming before they ease off, denying her relief. Eventually they tip her over the edge bringing her to a massive orgasm right there on the examination table!

Now what would I give to see that happen!

I have yet to have a doctor who allowed me to bring my partner with me! I'm switching doctors this year, and I'm hoping they will be more willing.

@beestreet What state are you in? Here in VA, I've never had a doctor that had a problem with someone coming in with me. If I had, I would have changed doctors, because I would be worried about what they were doing/not doing that they didn't want someone to see!!

I have recently had a baby so I have been to the doctors alot. I have to say I only like male doctors for all things. It's the way I was raised I'm guessing, lol. My husband went with me to all of my OB/GYN appointments. I asked him to come and he wanted to come anyway. He is not interested in medical fetish, not really. Maybe someday?

My wife usually goes to male gynecologists but recently she went to a female doctor to have an endometrial biopsy. I have attended many exams over the years, and must say that I prefer (am more aroused by) watching a male gynecologist examine my wife. I'm not quite sure why, but it's much more of a turn on.

I had a great seat by the way, down at the end of the table...!

My wife prefers female gyn's even though her two very first visits were with a man.

Of course I'm together with every visit, no doubt about that.

As of me I don't mind much although I prefer female doc, for preventing things getting out of hand with a male doc.

Pretty sure I will have hard moments ontrolling myself for not asking naughty questions, hahaha.

But I wish her gyn took more time to examine things more thoroughly, for medical reasons (and my fun of course)

Unlike me my wife isn't switched on with an exam.

Males are the best choice, they never complain about my presence like females did.

As I wrote, with males I can often see the whole thing, like ony one female permitted me.

Never ever I would go to a doctor (of either sex) if he would not accept the presence of my husband.