Watching Your Wife/Partner's Examination

Anita, tell us more about your exams and how your husband reacts to them

@imist I lived in MN and IA for my whole life. Just moved to TX. Nothing overtly inappropriate happened, but I will admit to not having the most thorough exams. Perhaps that's what they are hiding. I don't know. I do hope it'll be different when I get a new physician soon.

@beestreet Good luck with your new Dr.!!

I like in any case watching my wife being examined. I do not care if the doc is male or female. For the Moment she has a male one.

My boy friend admits he would enjoy watching me be examined by a male doctor.

l Merlo Maschio (SECRET FANTASY 1971)

Covers the topic of a man who enjoys other men viewing his wife nude. He enjoys watching his wife receiving a medical exam by a male in the film.

http://movies.film-cine.com/secret-fantasy-m52876#!

https://www.youtube.com/watch?v=KCJyreUQ07s

My wife only goes to female docs. 😢

Forwend20, don't you find it erotic watching your SO being probed by a female doc? My SO has had only female docs since we have been in this area. The are we live in is very very PI and they make a big deal out of OB/GYN practices being all female. I have never seen my SO examined by a male, but I really enjoy watching a female examine her. You might give it a try if she will let you.

I've seen it, but the power play is not the same.

That's great on the occasion I have witnessed my wife's exams they are both arousing and of scientific interest. Long as she is not in pain. ?

That's great on the occasion I have witnessed my wife's exams they are both arousing and of scientific interest. Long as she is not in pain. ?

A little pain is good now and then.

It teaches people to appreciate when they are in good health.

Hi Midlander I loved your description of your wife's examination, did your wife get a little aroused? I had a similar experience with M after some gynaecological work ,there was a need for a follow up, which involved a very careful intrenal exam and a sample taken. First the female Doc inserted two fingers and started to work around in M's vagina this prodused a little gasp Merton. At this time she was in the frog posion after this the Doc pulled out the stirrups, and M put her legs in them and open day wide. The next involved a speculum being inserted into M . My pulse was racing by now ! A bit of luse was on the speculam the it was very slowly inserted into M and left for a moment ,M gave me a brave smile as the Doc started to open the blades again very slowly there was a oh from M as the speculum was fully opend Doc starmed to have a look and took a sample from M . She gave a little gasp and then the speculum was slowly removed .

M found the exprance very intense.

I have seen my wife examined by both male and female providers, and for me it is more arousing to see her being examined by a female. It certainly helps that the PA that works at our doctor's office and performs our conjoint physicals is a very attractive woman, like my wife. That's why during our physicals I get examined first. If my wife had her physical first, I would be hard as a rock watching our hot PA give my hot wife a thorough and complete exam, finishing with a pelvic and rectal. Then I would embarrassingly stay hard for my physical!

I've only seen my wife examined when she was pregnant and she had a female doctor. I think it would be extremely hot seeing her examined by a male doctor, though.

For me, having my wife be examined by a male doc was typical when she got pregnant. When complications arose and a male urologist insisted on doing multiple pelvics and wouldn't allow me in the room I was not happy. We had words in the hallway afterwards. Later, my wife had a female gyno and went through some of the worst experiences of her life. The woman was cold hearted, spoke very matter of factly about a potentially serious problem as if it was as common as peeing daily. She now refuses to see a female gyno so I have to accept the fact that another male is seeing what is "mine." Over time I have accepted it and try not to dwell on it.

Only had that pleasure once, back in 1999. I went with my wife for her first pregnancy appointment and little did we know the doctor would give her a full gynecological exam, pap smear and breast exam with me right there in the room. Also got a bird's eye view of a transvaginal ultrasound when the doc couldn't detect the fetal heartbeat with a transducer on my wife's abdomen. I got quite the education that morning.

The doctor was smoking hot, but kind of a bitch. Not chatty or even friendly in any way. And she gave me the stinkeye a few times, like she resented me being there.

I have had the pleasure of watching my wife have her exams by both male and female doctors. She was always nervous about the exams and felt better when I would go with her. Some doctors tried to make me leave the room we would simply tell them if I leave so does she. They always let me stay and it didnt make a diffrence to me which gender examed her my wife prefered male doctors to do it.

Yes i do

I have no preference on either a male or female examining my wife as long as they are thorough. I've experienced watching more females examining my wife than males.

Although I never actually managed to witness my then wife's examination. This was back in the 1970's, I was in the room where she was being examined. There was a screen around the exam couch so I was unable to see anything but I could hear what was taking place.

The doctor said "Bring you heels up to your bottom and let your knees open to the side" I then heard a quiet gasp, I presume this was the response from my wife to the doctor inserting his fingers into her vagina or rectum. Very erotic for me but I'm sure it wasn't so for my wife.

Only thing I saw was as the gyno was doing an egg retrieval as they were getting my partner ready. I tried to focus on her, rather than the speculum going in and other things happening downstairs. For a time, sort of took the thrill out of anything gyno related because it was a painful procedure for her despite the medication.

Another classic case of the account being removed

Here’s my first post on here and it’s as accurate as I can remember.

In the early 90s when I was in my late teens and my then girlfriend and I had been out drinking and she started to feel generally unwell with lower abdominal pain and bleeding a little from down below. It wasn’t her time of month and I was a bit concerned so I took her to the local A&E.

She got seen by a triage nurse pretty quickly and she did her vitals, BP, Pulse, SpO2 & Temp (ear probe), Her temp was a little elevated but everything else seemed to pretty normal. The nurse then said I’d have to wait outside whilst the Doc came and did a pelvic exam, but my girlfriend insisted I stay and I wasn’t going to argue.

My girlfriend was then told to remove all her clothing and put on one of those blue & white chequered gowns that you sort of put on back to front.

When the doc arrived he had her lay flat on her back and bring her heels up between her legs and then let he knees fall to the side. I was sat to the side of her holding her hand and she had a sheet covering her legs so I couldn’t really see what the doc was doing. The nurse told her not to be embarrassed which caused her to be more embarrassed. She jumped and fidgeted whilst he examined her. Afterwards, she told me he examined her with his fingers and it was more uncomfortable than painful and she was shocked how cold the KY Jelly was lol. He then said he’d have to insert a speculum to view her cervix. The nurse told her to relax and take a deep breath. He inserted the speculum and had a quick look. My girlfriend gritted her teeth and closed her eyes shut when he opened it, but in all fairness it was over quick and she didn't seem in too much distress or discomfort.

The Doc then said he’d like to perform a rectal exam and asked her to roll onto her left side facing me, bring her bottom to the edge of the trolley and bring her knees up to her chest. My girlfriend really wasn’t happy about this, but she obliged. I watched the doc put on a fresh pair of gloves and the nurse squirt some KY on his index finger and I couldn’t help but notice that has hands and fingers were absolutely huge. He then put his left hand on her hip and with his right hand felt below. My girlfriend let out a massive grunt and squeezed my hand till I thought my fingers where going to break. She tried to straighten her legs and roll away and but the doc kept his hand on her hip. The nurse told her to relax and it would be over quicker. My girlfriend’s reply involved a lot of swearing and explaining to the nurse that she was not the one with a finger up her arse! My girlfriend started to lose it and really yelled and the doc actually told her to stop acting like a child and that it couldn't be that bad. I was shocked at how unsympathetic he was. He finally told her to bear down as if she was going to the toilet and then it would all be over. My girlfriend shouted that she couldn’t while his finger was there, but he insisted. I watched her screw her face up and push and then give a huge sigh once he’d withdrawn his finger. He then told us both he’d not seen much blood on the vaginal exam and her rectal exam was normal and that he’d write to her GP and we were free to go.

My girlfriend was very upset by the rectal exam as she said it felt like he literally rammed his finger up there with no warning. She also felt it went on far too long and that he should have stopped when she asked him. I asked her if she wanted to make a complaint but she said it wasn’t worth it.

We split up not long after that, so unfortunately I never went with her to the follow up appointment or found out what was the cause of her ailment.

Over years, I’ve attended many medical exams, but that one has always stuck in my mind.

Thanks for reading.

When watching my wifes exam I prefer a male the older the better. Seeing a female perform an exam does nothing for me.

My wife will only go to female Doctor and I prefer it that way as well. When my first child was born my ex wife had a female doctor but ending up having to have a c- section. The surgeon was male and I did see him exam her before the surgery. A female touching my wife is much more appealing to me.

Besides going a few times when she was pregnant (e.g. to validate she's pregnant, to see ultrasounds, hear heartbeat), my ex didn't let me go with her. :-(

If your wife wants her husband to be there in the room, she can. If the Doctor says No, then go to another Doctor. You have the right to have your husband be there and to watch everything. He can stand next to the Doctor, so as to not be in the way of the Doctor to do their job but arrange this before hand. It is not uncommon in today's standards.

As I look at the age of the original post here, I'm curious to why it's not responded to more. As I read this to my wife last night she simply responded: The shear excitement ahead of the exam has her excited just thinking of being fully exposed in front of another man has her on a high. Then she said it was excitement in stages, first fully exposing her breast in front of him with me watching. She said by the time it gets around to laying back and spreading her legs fully exposing her most personal assets she said it makes her heart almost pop. She said she only likes to see male doctors because of the extra excitement! Everything she said matched all my thinking as well! She said last year she was even disappointed that he didn't do a rectal on her, this surprised me a little. Hope to hear from more folks on this subject! Good day to all!

I can't tell you exactly what my wife is feeling or thinking, but I can tell you that she prefers male gynecologists and she regularly allows me to tag along. After the exam is over she is always horny and we regularly have phenomenal sex as soon as we get home.

My fiancé came with me to my IUD insertion. He held my hand and did his best to distract me. He’s never come to one of my annual exams. Maybe this year.

I've always attended my wife's medical exams. If there are any concerns, four ears are better than two to hear all the doctor's comments.