Watching Your Wife/Partner's Examination

Well....Dozerman, are you going to keep us in suspense or give us a thrill?

GF went yesterday I could not be there Grrrrr

I am still editing the footage. I will post a new album soon, but It will only be up for a very short time.

Awesome, can't wait!

Today my wife and I had our regular physical exams. We had them together in the same exam room. My wife watched while the Dr. did his regular exam on me with a lady student observing. Then I watched my wife's full exam! She first had her breast examined, he had her drop her gown to her waist while upright and then examined her lying down. Then she had a full pelvic. He spread the stirrups nice and wide and had her scoot to the end of the table with her butt hanging off slightly. She had her toes freshly painted and her pussy freshly trimmed and partly shaved. The Dr. did a visual inspection and then did the speculum exam and took a sample with a small brush. He then did a bimanual exam. After that he changed his glove out and did a rectal exam. All looked really good!! She is healthy too! LOL!

My GF loves when I come along for her yearly physical/Pap test.. After words I continue the exam at home..:-) and she Loves it....

Having had the pleasure of watching my wife undergoing a very intimate examination I am interested to know whether you have a preference when it comes to the gender of the doctor carrying out the examination.

For my part, my enjoyment was greatly increased by the fact that it was a female doctor examining my wife. The examination was a follow-up some time after an operation to remove a fibroid. The doctor carrying out the operation had been male but when the time came for her follow-up examination he had retired and I was delighted that this time it was a (rather attractive) female.

I often fantasise about my wife in various lesbian scenarios so this was a dream come true for me! Things got off to a good start when she decided to examine my wife's breasts ahead of the internal exam. My wife has small breasts (36A) but they are exquisitely sensitive and I only have to play with her nipples to drive her wild with excitement! Anyway, she unclipped her bra and the doctor started checking her out. I knew what it would be doing to her as the doctor felt her nipples and imagined her struggling in vain to stay calm and maintain her composure as she became more and more turned on!

The breast examination ended (to my wife's relief I expect) and we moved on to the internal examination. The doctor asked her to "slip your pants off" and my wife removed her panties and spread her legs wide apart while I watched with barely concealed delight! The doctor inserted her fingers into my wife's vagina and carried out a very thorough examination. Occasionally my wife flexed her legs slightly and with my vivid imagination working overtime I got the delicious feeling that she was responding to this woman's intimate touch! I imagined her battling desperately to keep control though she was powerless to prevent herself from becoming aroused as the doctor brought her closer and closer to coming! I wondered how much she could take before she was tipped over the edge!

And then another thought entered my head - one that nearly finished me off! What if this doctor was also getting off on this? What if this woman was closet lesbian or bisexual and she enjoyed feeling up her female patients taking pleasure from getting other women sexually aroused?

So what do others think? Like me do you like the idea of your wife or girlfriend being intimately examined by another woman? And what about the ladies on here - do any of you get turned on from having another woman examining you? I'd love to hear your stories.

midlander

Seeing my gf being examined is one of the main reasons im here.. as for her thoughts i did ask her afterwords how she felt about me being there and she said it was quite embarrassing to her. she said me watching the doctor probing on her tummy made her feel fat and chubby.

soooo cute

We see a female physician, who examines us both, allowing the partner to observe. I do like female doctors, for any number of reasons, but especially for our conjoint exams.

I don't have a preference, but there does seem to be some interesting differences between male and female gynecologists. Obviously every doctor is different aside from gender....but I've noticed there are more female docs that have been rushed, rough, and with less than great bedside manner than the males. Not to say we have not experienced the same thing with ,males....just on a much smaller scale statistically

I have never been to a male doctor. I have friends who have male doctors and some have switched to my doctor. My sister goes to my doctor as well. As far as gender I am more relaxed with a woman doctor. Even my friends who have switched to my doctor from a male doctor agree. They feel more relaxed and she is never rushed. No matter how many times you have been to her she still explains what she is about to do. Yes I do get turned on. I mean she is young and pretty. What can I say about that? It is natural.

Both ex & former partners chose Female Physicians / Obstetric Consultants mainly for personal reasons...Some of which I had been in attendance mainly as support......Personally i have experienced had both MALE & FEMALE Examinations who have all been not only of a high calibre but competent diagnosticians.....Competency together with the ability to determine accurate diagnosis with little fuss & to make any further recommendations that would result in satisfactory outcomes for all parties concerned is logically entirely an individual choice..

My own Physician is Female & also an Obstetrician / Gynaecologist /Specialist...State (Board Appointed) representative & Advocate for Womens Health......Suits me & am quite happy with choice.......Oh ! yeah she's er delicious too.

I'm not sure, but having a male doc giving her an exam may have been interesting also. Having another male touch her and check her out.

I've watched both male and female doctors doing gynecological exams on various women partners I’ve had. I prefer to observe a female doctor doing a vaginal and pelvic exam on my partner. I like seeing a female doctor sitting between my partner’s legs checking out her private parts knowing that the doctor also goes through this herself. I haven’t seen a female doctor ever give my partners / wife a digital rectal exam, which is maybe because they don’t like getting one themselves. But I’ve seen two different male doctors always perform a rectal exam on my partner / wife. I always like seeing my partner getting a rectal exam and seeing her submissive and embarrassed with a doctors a finger her ass.

While I currently have a male gynecologist I've been examined by both sexes. I enjoy a woman examining me as well, there is definitely something about having another female looking at and touching me intimately that is exciting. The gynecological exam is arousing to me, whether I'm being examined by a male or female doctor. While the exam and procedures are essentially the same, having it done by a male or female is different with each gender and exciting in its own way.

I have received exams from both sexes. One particularly stands out is when we relocated and our health care came from an HMO. I wished to become pregnant and selected a female ob/gyn, Dr. Sandy, and arranged to see her for a preliminary consult. I took my husband along for moral support and also to learn about our delivery options when we got to that point. She was very sweet taking us into her office for a conversation that easily lasted 30 minutes to review history and explain the process. Of course all of that was dependent on becoming pregnant, which we easily accomplished, and all went well. After our conversation, she directed me to the exam room, which I hadn't fully anticipated and told me to remove all. She conducted a thorough exam with me naked in front of hubby, he sure enjoyed it, and gave me the green light to conceive. I am sure the exam helped with our motivation!

My wife sees a male GYN, but his N.P. does routine pelvics and is a female. I was in the exam room when she did the pelvic and ultra sound. They picked up an ovarian tumor, which the male GYN removed in the O.R. (along with the ovary). I didn't feel aroused by watching the pelvic, cause I've done them myself on my wife at home.

When my wife had a pre natal exam it was a man and I loved it. It will sound odd now but then I had never seen my wife naked, and to be honest never expected to. Boy did I get a treat when I was called into watch

A nurse would often help her undress when she got bigger which meant everyone watched her totally strip off.

Have no preference to either male or female doctors or practitioners. Have witnessed both doing exams on various partners. Also exciting being part of it.

When a female patient is at my clinic and her partner, Master, husband watching or we are just taking photos for him, it's an extremely exciting time also for us - me and my nurse. Very intimate exams are special.

Glad to hear it's a play clinic and not real practice. As for the OP, dream on about a real doctor becoming aroused. As for me, if I even suspected that you were aroused by any examination I performed, I would throw you out on your ear. It's not the time or place for nonsense like that in my emergency department. Sorry, no actually I'm not.

I am more on the D/s side of things. But I have been reading threads all throughout the site. I see that there are real doctors on here . Odd to me as I would think it would be unethical being a fetish site. It seems that people that do have fantasy are getting slammed left and right. I don't think that is right. I agree that no professional should get off on an exam or that anyone should go about getting off in an ER or Dr's office for that matter. But, it is a fetish site. If the docs and nurses get angered so easily and so snarky in the commentary, why are you here? I mean no disrespect just an honest question. It seems to me that most people here are decently educated but 90% are play fetishists.

Truly I'm not angered by the thought that someone might be aroused by medical procedures or examination. This is a medical fetish site after all. I do wish that such arousal would be reserved for home. There's too much to think about and to listen to on the part of the patient to risk missing by having wandering thoughts. I don't of course think it's one bit unethical to be here myself. After all I do have my own fetishes. It's just that the practice of medicine is my gig. I spent a lot of time in training and even more getting good at it. To have it somewhat trivialized by folks getting off on it in my presence annoys me a bit. However it's your health not mine. It's a disconnect I know. As for myself, I try to add a bit of reality here, to shed light on what's really going on in my mind when I'm at work. I think that at least a few are interested. If not then I'll keep my thoughts to myself.

I'm pleased to see real docs and nurses on this site. They bring balance to some of the activities that some fetishists are involved in. I very much respect Liquidsky stating his passion for his work and likewise his honesty for being on a fetish site. It may be good for some site members to read through some of the posts made by real medical personnel to help them realize that fetish and health can coincide, but also that some aspects of fetish activities have with them some inherent risks. I don't recall the writer of the quote , "Play safe, etc." but it certainly fits. I've been part of my wife's exams off and on for years. Certainly some were revealing, but mostly from a "I learned something by being there" perspective which was true for both of us. I believe in the motto of all things in moderation. This applies to fetish as well as real life. Health care is very important to give you another day to play. Don't mess around when having an exam or be dishonest when a question about your life activities is asked by your health care provider. Something critical to your life and the resulting fun you cold have with your fetish may be missed because of the distraction or your dishonesty.

Here's my two cents to liquidsky and submissivlee:

Those of us who are/were in the medical profession have our own kinks and fetishes. Some of those kinks are what brought us into the medical field to begin with - not that we're in the field to get our jollies, but rather that the research or inclination that led us to our kink also led us to a good career. Think of the person who has a "love affair" with chocolate and becomes a chocolatier - no one's going to berate them for talking about chocolate's production on a social media site set up for the sole purpose of commenting on the love of chocolate.

As for the dose of reality that liquidsky and others provide here on zity... I have long appreciated that reality when threads not labeled as fantasy threads are corrected/called out. Many young, impressionable people come to this site, read posts, and tend to believe everything being written as truth/reality. Even on a site such as this, we must be cautious about where we post what, because some will believe fiction as truth... and do harm to themselves and others because of BS.

Back to the original post question: As I am the wife, I can't watch my own exam. I've brought my hubby with me a couple of times, and he sadly isn't into this kink. 😢 So doctor preference is my own, and my preference is a male doctor.

I absolutely respect all in the medical field. I am glad to see the realism brought to the table because honestly I'm not sure I would just let someone do experimental treatments lol which is how I view a play exam as most are not doctors. Everyone's kink is their own and I respect all. Thanks for the explanation. 😃

I observed my wife's exam and it was incredible. I would advise anyone that's able to, to avail yourself of it. It was really hot and educational. Hoping for a next time.

In my country it is not usual for the doctor to let the partner watch the exam. I don't know what they would say if you asked. However, I would like to be watched by my boyfriend at least for once. This would be more embarressing but als a turn on. I would pose and expose myself for him, but at the same time I would be doing it for the doc. Whew.

Not married here, but I can't imagine marrying anybody whose exam I couldn't watch. No speculum, no ring. And if you think about it, why stop at the gyno exam? I wanna see it all. Plus, somebody has to take notes and ask questions that she might not. I can't think of anyone better suited for the job than myself.

I've accompanied my husband to different doctors many times and while I'm in there with him, nothing sexual ever crossed my mind. However in a fantasy I would love to watch him being examined by a few female specialists. I would want him to be restrained while those ladies doctors do whatever they wish to him as I watch the scene rolling before my eyes. I've told my husband several times about my fantasy and he likes my idea of multiple female doctors, but not the restraining part and the procedures I have in mind for him?.

As for myself, same thing...it never crossed my mind anything erotic during a real exam. I do prefer male doctors for some reason. It just happened that the doctors I've seen were mostly male and I have a great respect for their professionalism and work, however their gender had nothing to do with the reason I chose them for my care. My primary care physician is a lady and she's amazing. I wouldn't trade her for anyone?

In my fantasies, I want to be examined by male doctors assisted by female nurses. I like the idea of 1 male doctor and 2, maybe 3 female nurses. I definetively want to be restrained and let them do whatever they want?