Watching Your Wife/Partner's Examination

It's not just her Gyn exams though we are involved in each others health all the way through. We go in to the doc for our physicals as a couple both in the exam room at the same time. I think it saves the doc a lot of time too. We still of course retain the right to ask the other to step out if we want. I think I've only invoked that once though.

I always like to go to my wife's exams. Otherwise, I end up eating myself up with anxiety thinking about what's going on...

We always go together to gyn exam with my wife.I participate conversations but never enter exam.Listening from next door about what going on is much more excited

Oh I would love if my bf went but that's a big no.

I like to be there to provide support to my wife.

My gf still doesn't let me tag along to her exam yet. Too bad.....

I always go with my GF she wants it that way so there is no prob

I have been to many exams and all the doctors were ok with me present there.

Seems woman find it comforting to have their counterparts there.

On the other hand, as soon as the doctors comes in, any "kicks" i get from being there are gone. Wish he could be called off for an emergency so I could "use" his facilities...

Have any of you ladies ever had a father, brother, cousin or other male relative attend an exam?

I always stay at the business end. In fact, one of my wifes doctors made comment that "He's a little nosey, isn't he" but I stayed right there watching every touch.

My husband came along to my first gyn exam after i had found out that i was pregnant. Needless to say we are both excited about me having this baby it will be my first as well as his first. He stood up to the head of the table by me while the nurse took a pap smear for tests.

I love it when I can go. Especially her ob/gyn who knows that I am interested in watching my wife get examined so the doctor shows me everything and my wife says that the doctor seems to really enjoy working with me

Mine likes that I'm there with her. I can help remember certain questions to ask, keep her feeling calm and she knows I enjoy seeing the whole thing.. Not to mention her gyno is hot (female)

So far, only been to a prenatal checkup. Was much more concerned with wife and baby's health. Hope to attend one soon.

My girlfriend is very open about having me come with her to her annual exams and see's nothing wrong with me being there seeing her get her exam done and her dr doesnt object with me being there either

I outlined my experience here:

http://www.zity.biz/index.php?mx=forum;ox=display;topic=80238

An update is that my fiancee wrote a scathing letter to them, we never heard back. She's searching for actual ob/gyn doctors now since her last doctor didn't do anything about her occasional migraines (which we believe might be related to her birth control, might also not be). Her doctor dismissed her concerns and told her to take excedrin. Doesn't sound very helpful.

I have been with my wife many years ago and the dr seemed fine with it and made sure I was in a position to see everything clearly. Was a read turn on.

I so wanted to go with my first wife. I was curious. I felt that the more I knew about her body the better for both of us. She asked her dr who was also her mothers dr and he was an old poop!. He asked her "Does your husband go with you to the bathroom?" She told our family doctor what happened and re replied that he could do her yearly and had no problems having me in the room. He said when you get pregnant I'll refer you to an ob/gyn Both the family dr and the obgyn were great guys. quite the 180 from the old fart she first saw. The Dr that delivered our first daughter handed her to me and I looked at him and he asked "What's the matter?" I aksed where the instruction manual was. He laughed and put his hand on my shoulder and said, "Just like the rest of us you are on your own! throw away the books from the so called experts, most of them never had kids! Use your common sense, good judgement and when all else fails ask your mother." Best advice anyone ever gave me. LOL

I never went to my former wife's regular gyn exams. She didn't want me to be there. However, when she was told that she needed major gyn surgery, I insisted on accompanying her to all of her examinations, tests and procedures before and after her surgery. She was not really happy for me to have been present during her speculum exams, but she admitted that she needed me there during many of the tests and procedures. Eventually, she came to enjoy my presence and even wanted to play a little when we got home.

Here in the UK there is no problem with the woman bringing a chaperone in for her smear tests or any other intimate exam.

Tim

I went with an ex-gf once. We were very open with each other and examined each other for fun so she thought it would be interested if I was there for a real exam. She had to go to her general doc who was a female doc. A very nice lady but she was from another country. She had no problem with me in the room until she found out my gf was there for her annual pap and exam. When she found out she looked at my gf and said very loudly what are we going to do with him as she pointed to me. My gf told her she was fine with me in the room and wanted me to stay so her doc said ok then get ready and we can do this. It was obviously she was not real comfortable with me watching. That had to be the fastest exam I have ever seen. She did a breast exam and complete pelvic exam in 5 minutes tops.

The first time I hated it. I was sleeping with my b/f for I think the second time and I fell ill. He called his dr out and instead of examining me in private, my b/f followed him into the bedroom and watched as I was being examined. Up until then I had considered that type of exam including DRE very intimate and hated it when even the nurse acted as a chaperone. Now I am ok with it

I will be recording her annual exam tomorrow. I do not share the video but I may may share some "snap shots". Since her cancer discovery, I record every exam.

Hope all is well with the exam and she is healthy!

Waiting to go back now. Doing the mammography first.

I would love to go with my wife to her gyn exam.. it hasn't happened yet, but I keep offering to go in with her.. I think it would be such an arousing view to see her spread open like that!

Got about 21 minutes on video. I haven't reviewed it yet for quality.

Nice! I hope you WILL share some snapshots!

Her leg was In the way most of the time. I did get a few partial shots of the breast exam. The only good shot was the nurse lubing up his gloved fingers. He did have a real sharp student nurse watching everything. First time I had to share my spot at the "business" end.

Yes please share vid / snapshots